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>>My friends, I have read your posts and want to add my >>two cents from my experience as babysitter. >>Young boys of school age, especially those nearing >>their teen years, are naturally going to be quite >>embarrassed when being bathed by a girl or young woman >>who is babysitting them. But so be it! In fact, the >>more shame the boy feels, the easier the girl's job >>will be. >> >>Like most girls did when they were in their teens, I >>did my share of babysitting young boys. Of course, as >>boys get older they tend to get more and more >>embarrassed and shy about taking their clothes off in >>front of a girl who is babysitting them. (Of course, >>not long thereafter, that shyness disappears and most >>can't wait to strip for a girl!) >> >>Some girls can't help but enjoy a naked boy's >>embarrassment immensely. And it's not hard to >>understand why, even aside from the visually appealing >>aspects of the job when you're a teenage girl. >>Ordering a boy (or, later in life, a man for that >>matter!) to take his clothes off when he doesn't want >>to gives you a sense of momentary absolute power and >>authority over them that they hate! So, by all means, >>don't be afraid to look. You're just doing your job. >> >>It also makes it easier to handle babysitting them. As >>young boys are often unruly, their sense of shame at >>being seen naked by a girl who may be not much older >>than he is can have the effect of rapidly diminishing >>his defiance to your authority. This can be especially >>effective when reminding the boy of his impending >>embarrassment in front of others. ("If you don't stop >>fighting with your sister right this instant, you can >>go upstairs, take all your clothes off and I'll be up >>in a few minutes to give you your bath.") >> >>Although use of this embarrassment technique can be >>quite effective - especially when girls are around to >>add to the boy's embarrassment - and is sometimes >>necessary, it is probably used far too often and >>unjustly as a cop-out for poor babysitting which >>allowed young children to get too unruly in the first >>place. >> >>Of course, when there are no discipline issues >>involved, embarrassing a boy for no reason is not >>justified under any circumstances. Babysitters who >>needlessly taunt or make fun of a boy as he is >>undressing or once he is naked shouldn't be >>babysitting. >> >>If more than just a slight giggle or two slips out or >>if your laughter becomes uncontrollable, just excuse >>yourself from the nude boy's presence for a moment to >>compose yourself. When you return, if you want to >>apologize (which will likely make the boy feel even >>more embarrassed and might lead to another case of the >>giggles), don't say anything or just tell him you're >>sorry but you just happened to think of something >>really funny at the moment. >> >>Naturally, there are girls who might take advantage of >>being in a position to get-even, such as the older >>sister of a girl who was bullied by the young boy she >>is now babysitting. Although it would be inappropriate >>to tease the boy outright about his nakedness, there >>are obvious ways in which the older sister could >>effectively nip the boy's bullying days in the bud. >>("Hi, Megan. Sorry I forgot to call you back earlier. >>I'm giving your classmate Bobby his bath right now, so >>after I get him out of the tub, dried off and dressed, >>I'll give you a call back.") >> >>Then, of course, there are the majority of boys who >>are usually quite well behaved and are simply >>embarrassed that they have to bare it all for a girl. >>The proper thing for a girl babysitting a boy like >>that would be to gently tell the boy that it's o.k. to >>be embarrassed, he is after all (or soon will be) >>completely naked! The girl should add that he >>shouldn't feel ashamed. It's not like he did anything >>bad. He's just going to be bathed or have his jammies >>put on. He shouldn't feel any more embarrassed in >>front of you than if he was naked in front of a female >>doctor or nurse. Tell him that he's not the first boy >>you've seen naked and surely won't be the last. If in >>the unusual circumstances the boy is older, say 12 or >>more, gently smile and say, "You don't have anything I >>haven't seen before." >> >>Never make a comment if the boy gets an erection, >>other than to put him at ease, if it's obvious he's >>utterly humiliated by his condition. ("It's o.k., >>sweetie. That happens.") >> >>Also, don't be afraid to look at the boy. If he >>observes you purposely avoiding any glance at all at >>his nakedness, he might think you are trying to avoid >>looking at him to avoid laughing. Keep your composure, >>look once in a while (but by all means do NOT stare or >>touch) and keep reassuring him that it's quite natural >>for him to feel embarrassed ("I know you're >>embarrassed. But it's O.K. to feel embarrassed."). And >>he SHOULD feel embarrassed. You certainly don't want >>to be babysitting younger boys who are eager to show >>themselves off to you! If you do happen to encounter >>the odd school-age boy who is too eager to strip of >>his clothes and doesn't bother hiding himself or an >>erection, then by all means smirk and grin until he >>DOES start blushing. If that doesn't work and he is >>clearly enjoying his exposure in front of you, never >>babysit that kid again. > > >I don't think that purposely embarrassing boy is a >good idea. >In what age you started babysitting and how old were >the boys you bathed then?

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