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Date Posted: 02:26:20 05/04/21 Tue
Author: Nadine
Subject: Re: Advice
In reply to: Jason 's message, "Advice" on 05:28:00 05/03/21 Mon

You need to talk more. It's clear from her comment that she wants you to be in charge and that's it is supposed to be when you discipline her. You might make it clear to her that you understand that, that her role is limited to giving input and that it is her duty to offer that input when asked. The important thing is to ask her questions that she can answer without feeling that you are leaving the decisions to her. Don't ask: "How do you want to be spanked?" Ask stuff like: "Where you ever spanked? How? How did you feel about it at the time? What gave you the idea to suggest spanking? Did you read/hear about any specific kind of discipline?" Make it clear to her that you are doing your own "research" (voy-forums aren't the best place for that I'm afraid) and that any information she gives you is not decisive, but just a part of the puzzle.

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