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Date Posted: 13:58:21 02/17/23 Fri
Author: Whitney-97
Subject: Re: Before and After
In reply to: danastone 's message, "Re: Before and After" on 13:45:09 02/17/23 Fri

Yes I’ve had to be spanked while at his parents and he did it in front of them as I disrespected him in front of them. A few other times either at our house or while out my husband has had to excuse us to take me to another room or public restroom or the SUV to spank me and I’m sure they heard and noticed my puffy eyes afterwards. Nobody in my family knows, my parents are anti spanking so wouldn’t understand. I have confided in my best friend but she isn’t spanked so not the best resource. One of my husband’s friends spanks his wife but haven’t really gotten to know her well enough to discuss but hope to the more we get together with them. All of his close friends now he spanks me because early on I had come home late while he had them over for poker and he told me in front of them to report to his study for a spanking for breaking curfew.

>Has anybody else seen or heard your spanking?
>Do anyone in your friends and family know about it?
>Anyone in his circle knows about it?
>
>>Yea, I’ve heard that from other woman but not me I
>>do not enjoy getting the belt and do what I can to
>>avoid. Everyone is different though so whatever works
>>right.
>>
>>>Have you ever willfully done some mischief to get
>into
>>>trouble?
>>>Believe me, even though it sounds silly, it is far
>>>more common than one would think.
>>>
>>>>I am better but still spanked 4-6 times a month, my
>>>>husband is very strict and I’m kind of stubborn
>and
>>>>willful. That said he does treat me like a princess
>>>>so very caring and loving. I do dread the pain that
>>>>belt really hurts and I will feel it for a few days
>>>>afterwards but it’s an excellent reminder.
>>>>
>>>>>But, now you are a better wife and also get treated
>>>>>like a princess all the time. Right??
>>>>>
>>>>>That is the power of spanking.
>>>>>
>>>>>I still dread the pain.
>>>>>But, I know it is for the betterment.
>>>>>I was not spanked by my parents or ex.
>>>>>He introduced it.
>>>>>Once I said no to sex and started running when he
>>>>>decided to spank for that.
>>>>>Boy, bad idea.
>>>>>
>>>>>>No spankings during honeymoon and yes I was
>treated
>>>>>>like a princess by my hubby. While I was nervous
>>>>>>agreeing to being disciplined I knew deep down I
>>had
>>>>>>to improve my behavior and I wanted to be the best
>>>>>>woman and wife for him. That said having never
>>been
>>>>>>spanked it was a huge adjustment the first few
>>>months
>>>>>>of marriage as I was needing discipline 2-3 a
>week.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>I hope you didn't get spanked in your honeymoon.
>>>>>>>And hope you were treated like a princess.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>My hus had previous experience with administering
>>>>>>>discipline.
>>>>>>>And while we were dating, pretty much in the
>>>>>>>beginning, I got to see that side of him.
>>>>>>>Initially I was shocked and secretly decided to
>>>>break
>>>>>>>up.
>>>>>>>But, I found I'm very stressed and often felt
>>>>>>>purposelessness in life.
>>>>>>>So, went back to him.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>Wow he must have really strong hands. My
>husband
>>>>>was
>>>>>>>>spanked by his dad until he was 18 so lots of
>>>>>>>>experience receiving. Prior to getting married
>>my
>>>>>>>>husband brought up his expectations for how he
>>>>>wanted
>>>>>>>>me to behave as his wife, behaviors I had which
>>>>>>>>concerned him, what he expected me to do as his
>>>>wife
>>>>>>>>and the consequences I would receive when he
>felt
>>>I
>>>>>>>>was not behaving to his standards. My first
>>>>>spanking
>>>>>>>>was the day after we were married as we were
>>>>packing
>>>>>>>>for our honeymoon. I was giving him plenty of
>>>>>>>>attitude with the stress of getting ready he
>>>warned
>>>>>>me
>>>>>>>>once and when I didn’t improve he said well no
>>>>>time
>>>>>>>>Iike the present to get started with your
>>>>discipline
>>>>>>>>and he pulled me over his lap on the bed pulled
>>my
>>>>>>>>shorts and panties down and went to work. While
>>>>the
>>>>>>>>plane ride the next day wasn’t comfortable my
>>>>>>stress
>>>>>>>>went away and my behavior was great for the
>>>>>>honeymoon.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>Yes, no blurring the lines.
>>>>>>>>>I know what you mean.
>>>>>>>>>For me, the spanking happens in the living
>>room.
>>>>>>>>>And there is at least an hour gap before he
>>>>showers
>>>>>>>me
>>>>>>>>>with love.
>>>>>>>>>Hugs, kisses and more.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>No he uses only hands.
>>>>>>>>>He started working in construction at the age
>of
>>>>>10.
>>>>>>>>>So, by the end of his teenage, his hands were
>>>very
>>>>>>>>>rough. Almost like leather.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>To our girls, I spanked with wooden spoon or
>>cane
>>>>>>and
>>>>>>>>>he used his hands.
>>>>>>>>>The girls always cried more from his
>spankings.
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>Do you know, if your hus has had previous
>>>>>experience
>>>>>>>>>with spanking?
>>>>>>>>>How did he start spanking you?
>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>Yes, definitely well deserved and very
>>effective
>>>>>in
>>>>>>>>>>turning my attitude around, felt less stressed
>>>>and
>>>>>>>>>>more calm and focused and better attitude
>>>after.
>>>>>>>Yes
>>>>>>>>>>the anticipation is good as it gives me time
>to
>>>>>>>>>>reflect on what I did wrong and why I deserve
>>>the
>>>>>>>>>>spanking and gives him time to calm down so he
>>>is
>>>>>>>not
>>>>>>>>>>spanking in anger. Yes, he always uses his
>>>>belt.
>>>>>>>>>>Have you had anything used besides your
>>>>>husband’s
>>>>>>>>>>hand?
>>>>>>>>>>Lots of hugs and kisses and words of love and
>>>>>>praise
>>>>>>>>>>for what he feels in doing well at and for
>>>>>allowing
>>>>>>>>>>him to discipline me when he feels I need it.
>>>We
>>>>>>>try
>>>>>>>>>>not to blur the lines which is why I am
>spanked
>>>>in
>>>>>>>>his
>>>>>>>>>>den as opposed to our bedroom lol.
>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>Well deserved spanking.
>>>>>>>>>>>I like the way he makes you wait and
>>>>anticipate.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>Does he always use belt?
>>>>>>>>>>>My hus uses his hand always.
>>>>>>>>>>>His hands are very very hard and rough.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>And after spanking, how does he love you?
>>>>>>>>>>>For me, bigger spanking means more love.
>>Haha.
>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>Yes, I’ve just feeling off earlier in the
>>>>week
>>>>>>>>not
>>>>>>>>>>>>focused and being very rude to him even on
>>>>>>>>>>>>Valentine’s. When I earn a spanking he
>>will
>>>>>>>tell
>>>>>>>>>>me
>>>>>>>>>>>>to go to his den and strip to bra and
>panties
>>>>>and
>>>>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>>>>>stand by the desk. He usually waits 5-10
>>>>>minutes
>>>>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>>>>>calm down and plan his lecture. He then
>>>enters
>>>>>>>the
>>>>>>>>>>>>den sits down and directs me to lay over his
>>>>>lap,
>>>>>>>>>>>>pulls panties down and gives me a firm sound
>>>>>hand
>>>>>>>>>>>>spanking as he lectures me for several
>>>>minutes.
>>>>>>>>>>After
>>>>>>>>>>>>lecture I get up and bend over his desk as
>he
>>>>>>>pulls
>>>>>>>>>>>>his belt off and then get belt whipped
>>between
>>>>>>>>20-40
>>>>>>>>>>>>times (got full 40 last time). After I have
>>>>>>>corner
>>>>>>>>>>>>time to settle and reflect as he writes the
>>>>>>>>incident
>>>>>>>>>>>>on my spanking journal and then he comes and
>>>>>>loves
>>>>>>>>>me
>>>>>>>>>>>>up comforts me and praises me for things
>that
>>>I
>>>>>>am
>>>>>>>>>>>>doing well.
>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>You misbehaved on valentines day?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>Wow.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>And how do you get punished.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>If you don't mind, can you explain the
>>steps?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Yes, I’m glad I agreed to my husband’s
>>>>>>>>>>>>suggestion,
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>it has improved my behavior and brought us
>>>>>even
>>>>>>>>>>>>closer
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>together. Glad you and your daughters are
>>>>all
>>>>>>>>>well
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>behaved. My last spanking was Wednesday
>>>>>>>>>>>>unfortunately
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>just was having a rough week being very
>>rude
>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>my
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>husband. He really wanted to spank me
>>>>Tuesday
>>>>>>>>but
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>didn’t want to on Valentine’s and when
>>>my
>>>>>>>>>>>>attitude
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>worsened Wednesday to took swift action.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>hmm...
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I am happy the current generation also
>>>>>>believes
>>>>>>>>>in
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>domestic discipline.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I am 46.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I am a well behaved wife.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>And my two girls also are well behaved
>>>young
>>>>>>>>>>>adults.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I hope their partners also continue the
>>>>>>>>>tradition.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Whitney, when was the last time you were
>>>>>>>>>>>>disciplined?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I am 25 and still spanked. We were
>>>married
>>>>>>>>last
>>>>>>>>>>>>>year
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>so still learning to behave and needing
>>>>>>>regular
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>discipline. I feel I am much better
>>>>behaved
>>>>>>>>now
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>compared to last year but still a ways
>to
>>>>go
>>>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>>>be
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>where my husband and I want me to be if
>>>>that
>>>>>>>>>>makes
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>sense. How about you?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>How old are you?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Are you still spanked?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Are you a better behaved woman now?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Hello, thanks for the response, yes
>>>>I’ve
>>>>>>>>>>>>noticed
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>it’s dead hear hoping it might pick
>>up
>>>>a
>>>>>>>>bit
>>>>>>>>>>>>but
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>not
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>that hopeful.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I know that experience.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Whitney, I don't think anyone talks
>in
>>>>>>this
>>>>>>>>>>>>forum
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>anymore.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I am spanked by my hus.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I know the pain and the love after.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I know this was on old topic but
>find
>>>>it
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>interesting.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I was not spanked growing up, my
>>>>parents
>>>>>>>>>>>>>didn’t
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>believe in it and frankly I think it
>>>>>>>>>resulted
>>>>>>>>>>>>in
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>me
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>being more of a wild child that my
>>>>>>husband
>>>>>>>>>>has
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>had
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>tame. Before he proposed to me he
>>>>fully
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>explained
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>his
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>expectations for me in how I was to
>>>>>>behave
>>>>>>>>>as
>>>>>>>>>>>>>his
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>wife, what my duties would be, and
>>>what
>>>>>>>the
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>consequences would be if I didn’t
>>>>>>behave
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>properly.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I knew that I wanted to improve on
>>>some
>>>>>>>>>>things
>>>>>>>>>>>>>so
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>I
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>consented to the discipline
>>>>>relationship,
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>figuring
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>spanking wouldn’t be all that
>bad.
>>>>>Boy
>>>>>>>>>was
>>>>>>>>>>>I
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>wrong
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>the first spanking was a complete
>>>shock
>>>>>>in
>>>>>>>>>>>>terms
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>of
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>the level of pain and intensity. It
>>>>was
>>>>>>>>the
>>>>>>>>>>>>day
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>after
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>our wedding and day before we were
>>>>>>leaving
>>>>>>>>>>for
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>our
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>honeymoon and I was being really
>>>bitchy
>>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>>my
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>husband
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>and he said no time like the present
>>>to
>>>>>>>>work
>>>>>>>>>>>on
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>your
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>behavior and he promptly took me
>over
>>>>>his
>>>>>>>>>lap
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>pulled
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>shorts and panties down and gave me
>a
>>>>>>long
>>>>>>>>>>>hard
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>spanking as he lectured me then I
>had
>>>>to
>>>>>>>>get
>>>>>>>>>>>up
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>and
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>get whipped with his belt bent over
>>>our
>>>>>>>>>bed.
>>>>>>>>>>>I
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>was
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>a
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>sobbing mess my bottom on fire as he
>>>>>sent
>>>>>>>>me
>>>>>>>>>>>to
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>the
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>corner to settle down. After 30
>>>>minutes
>>>>>>>he
>>>>>>>>>>>>came
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>over
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>and hugged me right and kissed me
>>told
>>>>>me
>>>>>>>>he
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>loved
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>me
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>and encouraged me to behave and
>enjoy
>>>>>our
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>honeymoon,
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>which we did, although plane ride
>>>>>>wasn’t
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>comfortable
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>with a sore tender bottom.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>For those who are married and
>>>>>>>>>spanked...were
>>>>>>>>>>>>>you
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>spanked before you got married, or
>>>>only
>>>>>>>>>>>after?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>If only after, how much of a shock
>>>was
>>>>>>it
>>>>>>>>>>and
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>how
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>did
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>it happen?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>Beth

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