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Date Posted: 13:53:01 04/09/19 Tue
Author: Wondering-supportive
Subject: Re: What other Wives/GF's here are spanked in a domestic discipline relationship, and why?
In reply to: Danica 's message, "Re: What other Wives/GF's here are spanked in a domestic discipline relationship, and why?" on 13:20:49 04/09/19 Tue

Hi Danica, what you relate does indeed make sense. The bottom and region are of course infused with nerve endings that can be erotically stimulated and a spanking can cause such stimulation. Then there is the element of control and the absence thereof that can arise when brought fully under the control and mercy of another. The exercise of power can be an aphrodisiac as can its surrender which can lead to a cathartic release. Your masochistic yearnings are shared by many who also experience or wish to experience what you do when you are punished. I suspect that your excitement is in large part due to the feeling of helplessness and fear when you know you are in for a sound spanking that you can only suffer without hope for a reprieve. You would be significantly less excited if you controlled what happens and so effectively had your husband under your will rather than yourself under his.

>>If you are, can you explain why? And also what about
>>it excites or stimulates you the most? Is it sexual,
>>or more emotionally pleasing, or maybe both?
>>
>>I am spanked by my husband and for me it's more
>>emotionally pleasing than sexual, but there is usually
>>an element of both in it for me. It is mostly
>>consensual, but I will at times try to reject it as
>>much as I know I need and want it. Sometimes it's
>>strictly as a punishment, and that is when I try to
>>reject it the most. Other times it's more for our
>>sexual pleasure, and that's when I can't wait to bend
>>over my husbands knee so he can set a fire in my butt
>>cheeks and other places! :)
>
>Hi Becca..welcome to the DD Forum! I hope you enjoy
>coming here and posting! Feel free to post anything, I
>am not taboo about honest postings!
>
>I am not sure we can explain "why" fully. For me, it
>is not voluntary, it is discipline from my husband,
>but it is pleasing and somewhat sexual. I get wet
>every time I am spanked.
>
>I was spanked by my parents, mostly my mother, and got
>wet the first time during a spanking at age 12. It
>was an awesome feeling, yet still very painful...my
>Mother left my bare bottom quite hot and stinging for
>what I had done that time (yes I did cry, and many
>times thereafter). But after that, I craved spankings
>to get wet again...it was a high. It didn't happen
>every time then...maybe one in 10, but increased over
>time. I began doing things just to get my Mother to
>remove my panties and warm my bare bottom.
>
>I still do that with my Husband...do things to make
>him take my panties off and spank my bare behind. My
>bottom still hurts, stings, after, but I don't cry now.
>
>Does any of that make sense?
>
>I hope I have adequately answered your question and
>you feel welcome to post again.
>
>Danica

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Re: What other Wives/GF's here are spanked in a domestic discipline relationship, and why? -- Becca R, 16:10:52 04/09/19 Tue

Re: What other Wives/GF's here are spanked in a domestic discipline relationship, and why? -- Danica, 16:56:41 04/09/19 Tue