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] Date Posted: 18:56:55 04/30/25 Wed Hi, my name is Alexis and my husband is Marty. We have two daughters, Susan 14 and Patty 12, and they have been spanked now and then since they were preschool kids, but spanking has not been the primary source of discipline and has only been used sparingly, like in the last year maybe twice a month for the younger girl and once a month for Susan. Mostly when we spank, it is a case of me telling the girl, “Wait until your father gets home”. That has been the case for notes brought home about poor work or bad conduct at school, about a complaint from a neighbor about some bad conduct (usually with another neighborhood girl), or where I have personally observed one of the girls acting up and starting a fight with the other girl. Daddy typically deals with the spankings for that kind of thing that evening. I have spanked and will spank if one of the girls crosses the line with me, actually yells at me, swears or is outright fresh at being told by me to do something by me or otherwise gives me real backtalk. I have typically spanked for things like that, but again rarely. We've used a host of other punishments in the last few years instead of spanking. The thing is that over this last holiday season , just three months ago, my husband got promoted and we moved to a small rural town and the church we have been attending is very pro-spanking for young children and teens and, with a parent’s permission (we also signed the slip needed when we enrolled our two), paddling are even given at the public school, too. The thing is that in the last couple of months our girls are frequently coming home on afternoons and evenings from visiting at one or another neighbor’s house, or when just playing with other kids in their yard or at one of the small parks, and they come in with clearly excited even delighted faces to report that one or more of the youngsters or teens where they were visiting got spanked by their parents the night before, or after school, or in some cases while they were visiting. And it is like they can’t wait to tell me or their father all the details. “While we were in that park on Green Street, we could hear Jimmy Phelen getting spanked by his mother in their kitchen and she really whaled him good, Mom! And it was on his bare, too, and you should have heard him crying!” “You know Mary Conner, Mom! She was here with some kids a couple of days ago. She had a note from her teacher about talking in class and after school her mother spanked her right in front of all of us. In the living room with her dress up and her panties pulled off. And there were boys there, too! And she had to do corner time crying with her bottom on display before she could come and play monopoly with us, Mom! We started a new game when her mom finally said she could join us.” And our kids keep telling us about this one or that one who is getting maintenance spankings. “Like every Saturday morning, Mom, after breakfast, Ginny and Phyllis get a spanking in the living room from their mother and dad, and the whole family, aunts and uncles, too, gets to watch!” Am I missing something here. Is this a general push toward more spanking that I just haven’t heard about? My question is, since my two take such obvious and open delight in telling about and sometimes watching these spankings when they get the chance, should we consider starting to spank our two more often instead of all those other punishments we use, some of which are as hard on us as on the kids? Should we maybe even think about giving them maintenance spankings once a week, because their reactions seem almost like they feel they are being left out or something. Are maintenance spankings becoming more of a thing these days in rural America--maybe because of the general push right now toward more conservative political and social views? Alexis [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: Monica [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:13:43 05/01/25 Thu Hi, I am the mother of a girl 15 and step-mother of a boy 12. Both my new husband of three years and I are spanking parents and we each spank both kids whenever we feel spanking is needed, but we also give maintenance spankings. In our home this is not a case of I spank my girl and he spanks his boy. We do bot spank fairly frequently, and on their maintenance spankings each week we share the task. One of those is a bedtime spanking and the other is given early on Sunday mornings before we got to church several hours later. On Sundays, we get our two up and spank them early so they will go to church looking well-spanked and with puffy eyes from crying. A lot of the parents in our church do this so we all easily see that a lot of the kids come to church after they have very obviously been well-spanked that morning. All of the kids at church, and I feel pretty sure all of us parents as well, enjoy seeing lots of girls and boys alike who are clearly showing the signs of having been well-spanked earlier. From what you wrote, Alexis, it seems very clear to me that your kids are very fascinated by how often the other kids they know and play with in your new neighborhood are spanked. You have moved there in the last three months or so, so this is something new and exciting to them. The fact that they make a point of telling you, not just in passing but in detail, about the spankings they hear or see on a given days, suggests strongly to me that your two definitely want to be included in the "group" of kids who get spanked a lot but would feel "funny" coming right out and saying that. Parents should not underestimate the impact of peer pressure on the lives of their kids. It is a very real thing and not necessarily bad of itself. However, at times it can make the lives of some kids a real misery when they are left out so to speak of experiences common to most in the group. There is often a real "prestige" factor among kids on such matters as how often they are spanked, and how they are spanked, and it is typical in areas where spanking is commonplace (in a lot of small towns and urban areas for example where conservative churches are very important) that the more a preteen or teen gets spanked without whining and complaining by the child, the better the standing of that young person with that group as a whole. Respect among the peers a young person sees every day can really be important to your children. I would definitely suggest you start to improve the standing of your two with their peers immediately by putting them on maintenance spankings right away. I would mention that you can always cut back on those regular spankings, but its a bit more tricky to increase them once they are put in place so I would suggest you start with two spankings a week for each of your two rather than one. That number is easily bearable by kids the ages of your two, but just one spanking each a week may simply may not be quite enough for them, and not enough also to make them comfortably within the "upper ranks" of their peers. Also, we spank our two together in the living room on Sunday mornings, but we give them their other maintenance spankings each week on different nights--the girl at her bedtime on Tuesday and the boy on Wednesday. For both it is bath upstairs then down to the living room in just bathrobe and slippers. These are easily removed and set aside for their spankings. This method means that when one of them is given that spanking, the other gets to watch and yes--face it and be honest about it--the one not being spanked on a given night will thoroughly enjoy watching the other spanked. Again, this makes those regular spankings much more bearable and acceptable to our two kids, and will so with yours as well. Spankings are by hand from me first, then with the Lexan paddle by my husband. Those paddles are available on line and they are wonderful. You can spank and spank and spank with them and not leave any bruises or marks or any damage other than the very red and very sore bottoms and thighs just spanked. Hope these suggestions help you, Alexis. I feel this is a situation you really need to deal with positively. Monica [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lindsay to Alexis [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 13:13:38 05/01/25 Thu Hi there Alexis, My name is Lindsay and I am a 19 year old woman from Hawaii. I pretty much started maintenance spanking on this forum, and now have over 16 young people getting a session at least once a week. The net result has been very rewarding. The children, almost to a person, have grown a lot closer to their parents and in fact it's been a great bonding experience which you can read about in the various threads covering the maintenance sessions. I definitely would echo what the previous writer had to say about it being a very positive situation and what I would strongly recommend that you begin with your two girls right away. Almost all of the kids are from the UK interestingly enough but it works very well there as well. I've actually become close to a number of them and it is this rewarding experience it keeps me doing this. It's a little frustrated living in Hawaii because I'm essentially 22 hours off of where they are, but there are certain times of the day when we can communicate freely. You on the other hand if you'd like to start it on maintenance, will be a lot easier to communicate with as it is just a matter of hours instead of almost a day. I would be happy to help you get started. It's actually a very simple process. You pick a couple of different days during the week. The family's here have mostly chosen Wednesdays and Saturdays, but Sunday morning would be a good call too. You make it clear that Wednesday afternoon or evening is always reserved for maintenance and when the time rolls around before or after dinner or tea as they call it, then the girls know that it's time to head to their rooms and take off all their clothes and fold them neatly and report to the living room. Then when you know that they're in place, you come in, sit down, and have them report to you and stand in front of you with their arms at their sides and then you have a discussion which can last as short as 5 minutes or be as long as a half an hour about their behavior since the last session. How they're doing in school, how they sports teams are doing that they belong to, how they're doing with their friends, and how they think they are behaving in general. Since there is two of them and two of you, typically the families with siblings divided up so that one talks to one and the other talks to the other one I short distance apart. Once you're sure they have nothing else to share, then they need to ask you to be spanked. This was awkward at first but all the kids are doing it now regularly as a part of the session. What I have always recommended is 20 hand strokes and then give them time to dance that off, and then up to 10 strokes with the lexan paddle which you can order online if you don't have one, popular because it leaves no marks at all, and then give him a chance to dance that off. I will tell you that particularly the UK parents have all decided that rather than having to sessions a week they wanted to reduce that to one, and now you'll read that they are spanking their kids as much as 400 times, about half of that with the lexan. This is never anything I've suggested, recommended, or even pitched the idea, so please ignore it unless you evolve to the same place. The parents are seeming to one up each other and if the first one does 150, the second one wants to do 200, etc. I sure can't explain it. But again coming back to the maintenance session, once I get a chance to dance that second spanking off, then they climb up in your lap for cuddling. This is a very important part of maintenance. This is where the kids really get close to you and bond well. You talk to them very soothingly and rub their heads, shoulders, bottoms, backs, legs and whatever else you would like to rub. This process can take as long as an hour or more in the kids all love this. They find it very soothing and like I said very bonding being petted and cuddled as the crying wears down. You'll see reports of very intimate contact between the parents and the kids. This is nothing I have ever recommended and I believe was started with and uncle and his niece in northern England, the parents heard about it and decided to replicate it. Please don't be thrown by this, if you want to do something like this it's up to you but it's certainly not necessary part of Maintenance sessions. Once you feel that the girl has been thoroughly cuddled and definitely take as much time as it is necessary, then give her a big hug and a kiss and send her on her way to put her clothes back on and go about her day. I can't tell you how successful this has been and many parents have told me that there's been a miraculous change in their children's behaviors. It sounds to me like yours are pretty well behaved to begin with, but I agree with everything that she said about the girls being fascinated with the culture there in that rural town you find yourself in. Anyway, that's the whole maintenance session, and I would recommend two per week, but if you reduce it down to one, promise me you won't spank your daughters hundreds of times how about LOL! I'm always easy to spot here on this forum if you have any questions and I might take a while to reply although probably much easier with you since you're in the US. But I'll always be happy to talk to you. Good luck to you and I can't recommend this enough for Susan and Patty. Very best to you, Lindsay [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Alexis to Monica and Lindsay [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 02:35:16 05/02/25 Fri Thank you both for your helpful comments. I think I am satisfied at this point that I should start spanking our kids more often and I do plan to start them on two maintenance spankings a week also. I understand your recommendations Lindsay and they make sense for younger kids just getting spanked more or less for the first time but I think my two need longer and harder spankings in general than you recommend. And yes I also agree with you that some of the spankings with some of the kids reporting on their spankings to you are way over the top! Hard to believe the numbers of spanks they say they are getting, especially some of those in the UK. Just way more--WAY MORE--than I would give my kids. But I am going to talk to my kids tomorrow and get them started on two spankings a week and more as needed. And I think right now, it will probably be more than two each week for both of them. One of my daughter's friends got spanked today when they got home from school. (My daughter had called me and with my permission went to that girl's house to play. My daughter said the girl's mother took off all her clothes in front of the other kids who were there and spanked her really good with her hand and with a large flat wooden spoon. And when my daughter was getting ready to come home for supper, she said that girl's mother said she was going to spank her daughter again so she'd have a hot bottom to sit on for supper, and also she would spank her again at her bedtime! So you can see, many of these parents are spanking their kids a lot, several times a day even. And my daughter said when she left to come home that girl had been spanked good again and was dancing around naked with her bottom red hot with three or four of her classmates there with my daughter to watch. I guess I have some catching up to do with my kids. Alexis [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lindsay to Alexis [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 05:30:55 05/02/25 Fri Hi Alexis sweetie, Of the 16 kids involved here so far, these are not younger kids. They are all right in the neighborhood of your kids. That's why when I saw their ages I thought this might be ideal for you. The kids here are all 9 years old through 13, with most by far being 11 12 and 13. We don't have anyone as old as Susan, but I don't see any reason why she couldn't be part of the same sessions. Ironically, they're almost all from the UK. It would be refreshing to have a couple of girls checking in from the US actually. I don't see any reason why girls as old as 19 can't be under the same regimen. I've read about some in the rules South who gets spanked through 23 or 24 going to college. But the vast majority of girls are exactly your girl's age. I'm glad you've decided to start with it. The basic rubric remains the same. It's always the same two times every week. The girls go to their rooms, take all their clothes off and fold them, come to the living room and wait for you. Some parents have their children wait with their hands on their heads but I think just down by their sides is fine. Then you have your discussion and there's no reason that you can't go with a higher number than 20 and a higher number than 10 on the lexan. Whatever makes sense to you, just like I said promise me you won't get into the hundreds. 40 well delivered is a good round number. Please remember this is never meant to be a punishment, but an opportunity to keep the kids on the right track and a side benefit certainly is the bonding. Once the hand and lexan are done and they've danced it off, it's time for them to climb on your laps and start cuddling. Be sure and allow as much time as necessary. I recommend the child straddle the adults legs, face the adult and look into his or her eyes while doing this and soothe and comfort and caress the girls entire bodies as they're calming down from crying. If you can stick with twice a week, you'll find that this eliminates the need to spank more often. That second section with the lexan is meant for any misbehavior and you can use the paddle as much or as little as is needed. A reminder can be used during any misbehavior that that will be addressed in maintenance and that's he usually enough to curb that behavior. Once the cuddling is over, like I said time for a big hug and kiss and send them back to put their clothes on unless you prefer that they remain naked which a couple of families do. Good luck to you and please let me know how it goes. Again, it has been incredibly successful here and although your girls don't seem to need it, lives have been completely turned around as a result of what we're doing here, which is what keeps me doing it. Best wishes your way, Lindsay [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: curious to Alexis [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 09:04:28 05/03/25 Sat you do know your kids better than anyone here, so only you know what works best for you and your kids. some here might want you to engage in some kind of spanking competition to see who can deliver the hardest, or the most spanks without leaving any marks. like is said, you know your kids better than anyone here and know how to deliver spankings to them without trying to outdo some of the other parents here. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: curious to Alexis [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 11:15:10 05/02/25 Fri you don't need to buy any paddle as spanking by hand should be sufficient, and a hand spanking is a bonding experience for both the parent and child with the skin-to-skin contact. also, the kids don't really need to post here about their spanking as you being an adult can fully explain how their spanking sessions went and their reaction to the spankings. hope this helps you in some small way. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lindsay too Alexis [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 11:29:48 05/02/25 Fri Hi there Alexis, I hope the plans for your maintenance spanking are going well. Well I'm sure he is well meaning, I have to disagree with the poster above on two areas. The lexan paddle is used by every single parent here with good reason. For the punishment part of the session, you can use the lexan as much as you want, obtain the desired outcomes and the good news is it won't ever leave any kind of Mark and the redness even disappears faster. The other point where I disagree is the girls should definitely post their experiences here. This gives them some ownership and the other many kids who post here I know enjoy hearing from their peers accounts rather than the parents. If you read the many threads here, you'll almost never see a parent posting about a session, it's all done by the children who love doing it. Good luck in putting it all together and please keep us posted and please let the girls post about the sessions they experience. Very best to you, Lindsay [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: curious to Lindsay [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 08:49:30 05/03/25 Sat i thought you said that you would no longer read my posts. i guess that you aren't a person of your word. you only want the parents to buy and use that lexan paddle because you want the kids to experience more pain, as is evidence with the amount of swats you suggest they give their kids. the more pain the parents deliver the more you get off. don't read my posts to others, as they aren't directed to you. just like you don't want the kids to read your posts to their parents i don't want you to read my posts directed to them either. mind your own business. just because the lexan is used by other parents doesn't mean all parents should use one. is this some kind of competition for you to see who can deliver the most swats with the lexan paddle and not leave marks of child abuse with the number of swats they give at your request? [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Lindsay to Alexis [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 10:15:47 05/03/25 Sat Hi Alexis sweetheart, Please ignore the comments of the poster above. Of all the children here, and we're talking 16 sets of parents and guardians, he is the only one that has something besides praise and gratitude for the work I do here. I have therefore stopped communicating with him. But if he is going to contradict advice to someone that we do not know that I have given, I'm definitely going to respond. You should know that all 16 of the children under maintenance here receive spankings with the election paddle. Not some small percentage of parents here, mind you, but 100% use the lexan. The purpose of it, contrary to the poster above, is to deliver the needed message without the additional pain and marks of a traditional wooden or metal paddle. I'm excited that you are underway to begin the excellent experience that is maintenance spanking. I look forward to helping you if you would like. Thank you and sorry our conversation was interrupted. Sending love your way, Lindsay [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Stephanie [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 19:27:03 05/03/25 Sat Alexis, our situation is very similar to yours. My husband and I have a 14 year old daughter and 12 year old twins, a boy and a girl. We only spanked them occasionally until about 2 years ago, that's when we moved from the suburbs of a big city to a more rural area. We started attending a church that is very pro-spanking and enrolled the kids in a Christian school which paddles. As we met other parents from both the church and the school, we learned that they spanked their children on a regular basis -- maintenance spankings once or twice a week. And our kids told us about how their new friends at church and school get spanked regularly. While we didn't feel pressured to start maintenance spanking, we did think it was worth trying. We give them two maintenance spankings at week -- Wednesday evenings at bedtime and Sunday evenings just after dinner. There are some differences between the two evenings. On Wednesdays, I go to our son's bedroom and my husband goes to the girls' bedroom. They are undressed totally and we proceed to give them hand spankings, about 50 spanks -- enough that they are crying. We cuddle them until they calm down, and then tuck them into bed. On Sunday evenings, after dinner they are sent to have their baths and then come back to the family room naked. As they stand before us with their arms folded behind their backs, we discuss their conduct over the past week, especially any misbehavior for which they have not already been spanked. There is almost always something that has so far been unpunished and must now be addressed. First the younger girl goes over her dad's lap for the maintenance portion of the spanking -- about 50 hands spanks. Then the boy over my lap for the same, followed by the older girl over her dad's lap. Then the punishment portion is given -- anything from 4 or 5 to several dozen with the hairbrush. We do this in the same order as before. While my husband is comforting the younger girl after her punishment spanking, I'll spank the boy. I'll comfort him while the older girl is spanked by her dad and then comforted. We'll spank for more serious misbehavior when it happens if we don't think it can wait until the weekly accounting on Sunday. The cuddle and comfort times are very special. The girls straddle their dad's thigh as they are comforted. We can't help but notice that they rock back and forth on his thigh and often leave wet spots! Our son is at "full attention" before his spanking but then goes limp as the pain sets in, only to again be fully erect as he cuddles. I do think our children feel like they "fit in" more with their friends now that they too are spanked. When we first moved here, they were surprised, even shocked, that their new friends got spanked so much. I wouldn't say they were outsiders because they didn't get spanked much, but it was certainly something that set them apart to some extent. They weren't jealous of their spanked friends, just different. And while our kids never asked or suggested that we spank them, they didn't raise any serious complaints when we announced the new punishment regime The only serious objections were about being naked and spanked in front of each other, but we were adamant about that and they've learned to live with that. They are still embarrassed by it, but the girls admit to enjoy seeing their brother spanked and vice versa. [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Jessica to Stephanie [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 21:44:52 05/03/25 Sat Welcome on board Stephanie! It must have been quite a change for the kids to go from not spanking or spanking very occasionally to twice a week including a very public family room spanking with their arms folded behind their backs. What made you and your husband decide on fully naked spankings and you said you held to that strongly. Did the kids fully object when it came out that it was going to be a naked event? When they come to the family room, does the whole procedure take an hour or so? How are their hands folded behind their backs, grabbing their elbows? P And if you don't mind telling us a little about your kids, the girls have obviously reached puberty since they're getting wet on their Daddy's lap. Does he massage their whole bodies while they straddle his legs including their vulvas like many girls here? Do the girls have hair covering their vulvas? What color and how long is their hair? We have a lot of blondes here for instance, usually halfway down the back or so. And how are their breasts? Is the 12 years old up to tennis ball size now and the older girl larger? Do you massage the boys penis while you comfort him? This all must be quite a change from living in the suburbs of a big city! Thank you so much for sharing so much about your family. There are a couple of churches here that have spanking rooms where kids are whipped and spanked naked before the service. Is yours one of those? In those churches the kids, typically girls, are spanked by the pastors privately in their offices on a regular basis, typically for parents who don't want to spank for some reason. Do you have that? Again, thanks so much for sharing with us and I hope you have a great Sunday! All the best to you, Jessica [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Stephanie to Jessica [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:24:47 05/04/25 Sun Hi Jessica and thanks for the welcome and the message! Yes, it was a big adjustment for the kids when we started spanking them twice weekly. The fact that their new friends were spanked just as often made it much much easier for them to accept. Our older girl was the most vocal objecting to being nude in front of her siblings, particularly in front of her little brother. She had just hit puberty and was very embarrassed to have them see her little breasts and sprouting hair. She complained, even begged, to be allowed a bit of modesty but we held fast and she ultimately resigned herself to it. The younger ones objected too but they were mostly just parroting their older sister. Yes, the Sunday evening discipline takes about an hour. The kids stand before us nude, arms folded behind their backs grabbing their elbows. As I mentioned, after the girls' spankings they straddle their dad's thigh and cuddle with him. He strokes their head, back and breasts, including fondling their nipples. The girls are energetic about humping his thigh to climax, but sometimes he will help them along by rubbing their vulvas. Both girls have brown hair. They were more blond when younger but their hair has darkened as they've gotten older. Shoulder length for both, though the older girl has it in a pony tail most days. Older girl has a full triangle of pubic hair, younger girl's hasn't quite filled in. Yes, younger girl's breast are about tennis ball sized, while older girl fills a B cup bra very nicely. Yes, I do fondle and stroke the boy's penis. He does not yet produce a full ejaculation, just a few drops. Our church has a spanking room but it is for use by parents who need to discipline misshaping children while at church. Both the Pastor and his wife will administer spankings in various circumstances -- kids who misbehave in their presence or at church functions, at the request of parents to provide a sharp lesson, as part of on-going counseling, kids who aren't spanked at home for various reasons, etc. Yes, things have definitely changed since we moved here!! Stephanie [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Jessica to Stephanie [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:53:31 05/04/25 Sun Hi there Stephanie and thanks for responding! It sounds to me like the girls aren't whipped regularly on Sunday mornings in your church. Although there is a spanking room. The church in Kentucky has about 30 girls who are whipped every Sunday morning prior to the service by the youth pastor. I think I told you, they received from five for the youngest to 40 or more for the oldest teenage girl. They are whipped in the diaper position and this is just the girls who belong to the leadership. Most others get whipped or spanked in the spanking room. All whipping is done completely naked and the girls strip off there dresses as they come in the room and then the pastor locks the door. The girls also have their nipples stung after every girl has been whipped. The girls stand and arm length apart and are in the same position your girls are in when you come in. It's nice that you have worked with the girls and your boy to come to accept the maintenance session. It's nice that your husband helps the girls feel good after the strokes are over. Do they have any objection to him touching or rubbing their vulva? Many girls here in this forum actually have their parents insert a finger into their vulva and clitoris and come to a full orgasm which they describe quite often. When you say your girls go over the top, are you talking a full orgasm? Since your husband already plays with their breasts and nipples, you might consider the nipples stinging. They stand in the same position you have them in already except standing, and then he plays with their breasts and nipples until they are hard. Then he takes something like a wooden paint make sure and hits the top of the breast, and then the bottom, and then the nipple fairly hard for one count. Parents who do this usually are in the neighborhood of three to five for breast. I'm willing to bet that quite a few of your neighbors do this. Without telling us where you are, are you in the south by chance? That is definitely spanking country. You guys are brave even bringing this up with suburban kids. I'm glad they've accepted it so readily. Best wishes to you, Jessica [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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