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] Date Posted: 19:27:03 05/03/25 Sat In reply to: Alexis 's message, "Should We Start Spanking More Often" on 18:56:55 04/30/25 Wed Alexis, our situation is very similar to yours. My husband and I have a 14 year old daughter and 12 year old twins, a boy and a girl. We only spanked them occasionally until about 2 years ago, that's when we moved from the suburbs of a big city to a more rural area. We started attending a church that is very pro-spanking and enrolled the kids in a Christian school which paddles. As we met other parents from both the church and the school, we learned that they spanked their children on a regular basis -- maintenance spankings once or twice a week. And our kids told us about how their new friends at church and school get spanked regularly. While we didn't feel pressured to start maintenance spanking, we did think it was worth trying. We give them two maintenance spankings at week -- Wednesday evenings at bedtime and Sunday evenings just after dinner. There are some differences between the two evenings. On Wednesdays, I go to our son's bedroom and my husband goes to the girls' bedroom. They are undressed totally and we proceed to give them hand spankings, about 50 spanks -- enough that they are crying. We cuddle them until they calm down, and then tuck them into bed. On Sunday evenings, after dinner they are sent to have their baths and then come back to the family room naked. As they stand before us with their arms folded behind their backs, we discuss their conduct over the past week, especially any misbehavior for which they have not already been spanked. There is almost always something that has so far been unpunished and must now be addressed. First the younger girl goes over her dad's lap for the maintenance portion of the spanking -- about 50 hands spanks. Then the boy over my lap for the same, followed by the older girl over her dad's lap. Then the punishment portion is given -- anything from 4 or 5 to several dozen with the hairbrush. We do this in the same order as before. While my husband is comforting the younger girl after her punishment spanking, I'll spank the boy. I'll comfort him while the older girl is spanked by her dad and then comforted. We'll spank for more serious misbehavior when it happens if we don't think it can wait until the weekly accounting on Sunday. The cuddle and comfort times are very special. The girls straddle their dad's thigh as they are comforted. We can't help but notice that they rock back and forth on his thigh and often leave wet spots! Our son is at "full attention" before his spanking but then goes limp as the pain sets in, only to again be fully erect as he cuddles. I do think our children feel like they "fit in" more with their friends now that they too are spanked. When we first moved here, they were surprised, even shocked, that their new friends got spanked so much. I wouldn't say they were outsiders because they didn't get spanked much, but it was certainly something that set them apart to some extent. They weren't jealous of their spanked friends, just different. And while our kids never asked or suggested that we spank them, they didn't raise any serious complaints when we announced the new punishment regime The only serious objections were about being naked and spanked in front of each other, but we were adamant about that and they've learned to live with that. They are still embarrassed by it, but the girls admit to enjoy seeing their brother spanked and vice versa. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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Author: Jessica to Stephanie [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 21:44:52 05/03/25 Sat Welcome on board Stephanie! It must have been quite a change for the kids to go from not spanking or spanking very occasionally to twice a week including a very public family room spanking with their arms folded behind their backs. What made you and your husband decide on fully naked spankings and you said you held to that strongly. Did the kids fully object when it came out that it was going to be a naked event? When they come to the family room, does the whole procedure take an hour or so? How are their hands folded behind their backs, grabbing their elbows? P And if you don't mind telling us a little about your kids, the girls have obviously reached puberty since they're getting wet on their Daddy's lap. Does he massage their whole bodies while they straddle his legs including their vulvas like many girls here? Do the girls have hair covering their vulvas? What color and how long is their hair? We have a lot of blondes here for instance, usually halfway down the back or so. And how are their breasts? Is the 12 years old up to tennis ball size now and the older girl larger? Do you massage the boys penis while you comfort him? This all must be quite a change from living in the suburbs of a big city! Thank you so much for sharing so much about your family. There are a couple of churches here that have spanking rooms where kids are whipped and spanked naked before the service. Is yours one of those? In those churches the kids, typically girls, are spanked by the pastors privately in their offices on a regular basis, typically for parents who don't want to spank for some reason. Do you have that? Again, thanks so much for sharing with us and I hope you have a great Sunday! All the best to you, Jessica [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Stephanie to Jessica [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:24:47 05/04/25 Sun Hi Jessica and thanks for the welcome and the message! Yes, it was a big adjustment for the kids when we started spanking them twice weekly. The fact that their new friends were spanked just as often made it much much easier for them to accept. Our older girl was the most vocal objecting to being nude in front of her siblings, particularly in front of her little brother. She had just hit puberty and was very embarrassed to have them see her little breasts and sprouting hair. She complained, even begged, to be allowed a bit of modesty but we held fast and she ultimately resigned herself to it. The younger ones objected too but they were mostly just parroting their older sister. Yes, the Sunday evening discipline takes about an hour. The kids stand before us nude, arms folded behind their backs grabbing their elbows. As I mentioned, after the girls' spankings they straddle their dad's thigh and cuddle with him. He strokes their head, back and breasts, including fondling their nipples. The girls are energetic about humping his thigh to climax, but sometimes he will help them along by rubbing their vulvas. Both girls have brown hair. They were more blond when younger but their hair has darkened as they've gotten older. Shoulder length for both, though the older girl has it in a pony tail most days. Older girl has a full triangle of pubic hair, younger girl's hasn't quite filled in. Yes, younger girl's breast are about tennis ball sized, while older girl fills a B cup bra very nicely. Yes, I do fondle and stroke the boy's penis. He does not yet produce a full ejaculation, just a few drops. Our church has a spanking room but it is for use by parents who need to discipline misshaping children while at church. Both the Pastor and his wife will administer spankings in various circumstances -- kids who misbehave in their presence or at church functions, at the request of parents to provide a sharp lesson, as part of on-going counseling, kids who aren't spanked at home for various reasons, etc. Yes, things have definitely changed since we moved here!! Stephanie [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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Author: Jessica to Stephanie [ Edit | View ] |
Date Posted: 12:53:31 05/04/25 Sun Hi there Stephanie and thanks for responding! It sounds to me like the girls aren't whipped regularly on Sunday mornings in your church. Although there is a spanking room. The church in Kentucky has about 30 girls who are whipped every Sunday morning prior to the service by the youth pastor. I think I told you, they received from five for the youngest to 40 or more for the oldest teenage girl. They are whipped in the diaper position and this is just the girls who belong to the leadership. Most others get whipped or spanked in the spanking room. All whipping is done completely naked and the girls strip off there dresses as they come in the room and then the pastor locks the door. The girls also have their nipples stung after every girl has been whipped. The girls stand and arm length apart and are in the same position your girls are in when you come in. It's nice that you have worked with the girls and your boy to come to accept the maintenance session. It's nice that your husband helps the girls feel good after the strokes are over. Do they have any objection to him touching or rubbing their vulva? Many girls here in this forum actually have their parents insert a finger into their vulva and clitoris and come to a full orgasm which they describe quite often. When you say your girls go over the top, are you talking a full orgasm? Since your husband already plays with their breasts and nipples, you might consider the nipples stinging. They stand in the same position you have them in already except standing, and then he plays with their breasts and nipples until they are hard. Then he takes something like a wooden paint make sure and hits the top of the breast, and then the bottom, and then the nipple fairly hard for one count. Parents who do this usually are in the neighborhood of three to five for breast. I'm willing to bet that quite a few of your neighbors do this. Without telling us where you are, are you in the south by chance? That is definitely spanking country. You guys are brave even bringing this up with suburban kids. I'm glad they've accepted it so readily. Best wishes to you, Jessica [ Post a Reply to This Message ] |
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