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Subject: Re: To Cassidy (RESERVED!)

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Cassidy to grandabob and Cody.

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Date Posted: 16:17:14 05/04/25 Sun
In reply to: grandpaBob 's message, "Re: To Cassidy (RESERVED!)" on 12:31:13 05/04/25 Sun

Hello again and I apologise for not being able to reply to you sooner. My friends have just gone to bed for the night and we had a good evening and enjoyed a glass of wine together. Thankfully miracle had not woken up once since she was put to bed. You are correct about everything you said including her being physically and mentally exhausted from today alone. I will show her the messages tomorrow and I really appreciate you both. Thank you for your words of encouragement and support with everything. I hope miracle starts to come around and she is one stubborn little girl. But she has been so lost and craving attention and even bad attention is attention to a child as you know. You are absolutely correct about the boundaries and structure and I remember being sometimes rebilous as a young girl and teenager and despite the discipline and spankings I revived and often not being allowed to do what other children and teenagers were doing when I was growing up. Somewhere deep down I knew that my parents were doing it for my own good. A quick run down on what she looks like so. She is actually quite small for her age and she will be turning eleven soon and could easily pass for probably eight or nine. She is very much still a little child and no growth in her chest area and indeed her vulva as they say here. She has chestnut brown hair and brown eyes and quite tanned and obviously apart from her bottom and vulva. She loves being outside and is a real character and fun little girl. But has a serious rebilous streak and extremely stubborn as you probably seen here lol. But she is also very considerate and friendly with a wonderful heart for others. She will be unimpressed seeing your message about spanking her bare bottom in front of the store owner if she ever steals again. Because I was very close to doing it today with her and you just reinforced a consequence if she ever does it and thank you for that. Dear Cody and I hope to get to know you better also and thank you also for your messages and kind words with your support with everything. I will say goodnight now and I will look out for your messages. Love from miracle and I.

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Date Posted: 03:22:27 05/05/25 Mon

Hi, Cassidy.
from your desciption of Miracle apart for the hairs and eyes colors it's almost the same as the other little girl I'm in contact (Tanya). Probably like for her it was also for Miracle some non sufficent nutrition problems which had retarted her development. Nothing too problematic: with good nutrition and care it will soon regain its correct level of growth. Maybe some little help by her pediatric could be useful in it.

This is the most critical phase of the whole process, so it is very important that you always do everything you tell/promise her about the consequences and the rules down to the last comma. I know that sometimes your heart may bleed as you punish her severely, but console yourself with the thought that this is temporary, in anticipation, in a short time, of having with you no longer a super-problematic child but a lovely young woman.
All we must to have in mind is what to do for Miracle to give her a good life.

You said she's a stubborn child but that could be a good thing: as soon as she will understand clear you just want only the best for her and every action you'll take will be in that direction, she will put all her will in doing well with surely great results.

It could be useful for you to have some external support if that could be doable as doing everything by yourself could be a a really big burden to carry. I'd suggest you, if it is not problematic for your belief, to join one of the churches there by you which are pro-discipline (in rural areas it's more easy to find one) so to have a good church group to help you in a lot of things relatively to growing up a child.

The one by Tanya is really super and they are very close to each other. If I don't remember wrong she lives in the countryside west of London.

Let me know how things go on.
Bye for now
R

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