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Subject: Re: To Cassidy (RESERVED!)

Author: grandpaBob

[ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 03:22:27 05/05/25 Mon In reply to: Cassidy to grandabob and Cody. 's message, "Re: To Cassidy (RESERVED!)" on 16:17:14 05/04/25 Sun Hi, Cassidy. from your desciption of Miracle apart for the hairs and eyes colors it's almost the same as the other little girl I'm in contact (Tanya). Probably like for her it was also for Miracle some non sufficent nutrition problems which had retarted her development. Nothing too problematic: with good nutrition and care it will soon regain its correct level of growth. Maybe some little help by her pediatric could be useful in it. This is the most critical phase of the whole process, so it is very important that you always do everything you tell/promise her about the consequences and the rules down to the last comma. I know that sometimes your heart may bleed as you punish her severely, but console yourself with the thought that this is temporary, in anticipation, in a short time, of having with you no longer a super-problematic child but a lovely young woman. All we must to have in mind is what to do for Miracle to give her a good life. You said she's a stubborn child but that could be a good thing: as soon as she will understand clear you just want only the best for her and every action you'll take will be in that direction, she will put all her will in doing well with surely great results. It could be useful for you to have some external support if that could be doable as doing everything by yourself could be a a really big burden to carry. I'd suggest you, if it is not problematic for your belief, to join one of the churches there by you which are pro-discipline (in rural areas it's more easy to find one) so to have a good church group to help you in a lot of things relatively to growing up a child. The one by Tanya is really super and they are very close to each other. If I don't remember wrong she lives in the countryside west of London. Let me know how things go on. Bye for now R [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Author: Cassidy to grandadbob. [ Edit | View ]

Date Posted: 11:09:10 05/05/25 Mon Hello again and I do apologise for not being able to reply to you before now. Yes from everything I have been reading about the young girl Tanya there seems to be so many similarities with miracle and that young girl. Miracle is definitely undernurished and lacking in some proper meals. She struggles sometimes to eat dinners and I intend to be firmer with her in regards mealtimes from now on. I have made an appointment for my own doctor and nutrihasanist and I possibly spelt that word incorrect. I completely understand what you mean about being consistent with everything and especially regarding discipline and she has already been testing me a few times again today. We brought her out for a walk and it is ve day here and eighty years celebrations of the end of the war. But despite the celebrations it is so important to remember those who never made it and especially their loved ones dealing with the grieving and loss. Miracle has been through so much for a little girl and seems like that little girl Tanya is the same. I noticed that she got herself into some trouble and is now asking you to not let her grandparents find out. I was smiling ss though they would not see her messages lol. But she seems like a wonderful little girl. I should have given her a spanking when we were out earlier with my friends for running off and then rolling her eyes at me. She is definitely going to push boundaries like all children as you mentioned she had not been given any restrictions and no consequences for what is acceptable and unacceptable behaviour. I am going to look into going to a local church as you said about and I had actually been considering it for a while now. Yes from what I have been reading it sounds like the church Tanya attends with her grandparents is wonderful and very hands on. I was trying not to smile as miracle said do you really think my Grampa would spank me and I said I have absolutely no doubt he would. Sending love from miracle and I. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

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Author: grandpaBob [ Edit | View ]

Date Posted: 15:06:18 05/05/25 Mon Hi Cassidy and yes, kids will be kids always. As we already said it is very important to be really strict at the start as it is the though moment of our little ones life. When they will start to really understand their limits and boundaries then it will be possible to let something goes from time to time but till then we cannot have a blind eyes as it is enough to leave something out and immediately old habits come back to the surface. I personally don't like to punish kids but, as you already know well, if we don't want to loose them we have to move in the only direction we can: love and discipline. For Tanya, as you mentioned it, it would be a painful moment tomorrow morning as her grandparents had postponed her punishment before school. It's not funny to attend school on those hard wooden chairs with a well spanked bottom! That's something our little Miracle will have to discover very soon. Bye for now, dear, and good night [ Post a Reply to This Message ]