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Date Posted: 16:53:27 10/22/25 Wed
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Natalie
's message, "Re: Spanking Protocol" on 19:43:57 10/19/25 Sun
My brothers are spanked too. Noah, he’s 9, is the most likely to get a spanking. He only gets spanked by hand. Nathan is almost 13 and when he gets spanked it’s the paddle or short strap, just like me.
I think the undressing part for a spanking is probably about as embarrassing either way it happens. I don’t recall ever seeing a parent make a show of it or dragging it out, but I feel like that would be awfully humiliating. When I’ve seen a parent do the baring, it’s usually a little kid and the parent is quick about it and getting to the spanking. I often feel like I’m making a tacit admission of guilt by obediently doing it myself regardless of what I might actually think and feel in the moment. I just also know I’ll only make things worse for myself if I don’t do it or even if I take too long doing it. It’s best to just get it over with and suffer through the embarrassment.
My parents don’t have me fetch the implement until after the lecture and I’ve gotten undressed. Unless my brothers are already present, I have to inform them I’m getting a spanking and their presence is expected as well as going to get the implement. It’s always awkward and embarrassing and my brothers usually have a smirk on their face as soon as they see me. If I’m getting the paddle I have 3 minutes and that doesn’t leave much time to spare because it’s a little longer walk to the garage. I only get 2 minutes for the short strap because it is kept really close to the living room and dining room where most of my spanking take place so the time is almost entirely for informing my brothers.
I’ve heard a wooden cooking spoon can be worse than the paddle, but thankfully I’ve never had the displeasure. One of my friends used to get that from her mom. As far as I know she stopped getting spanked when we started high school.
I definitely wish my parents would keep spankings more private and I have very little doubt my brothers agree because yes, they also get spanked in front of others. I wouldn’t say I resent my parents over it. I know they don’t go out of their way to make it happen. They just don’t go out of their way to make it not happen. When I get a spanking it’s always because I messed up in someway and my parents feel a spanking is the appropriate consequence. I don’t always agree, but I do understand it’s their decision and responsibility, not mine. The best thing I can do is try to stay out of trouble in the first place.
My parents are friends with a few of our neighbors and friendly with the rest. I have a couple friends that live nearby and both my brothers have several friends nearby as well. So it’s not uncommon, especially on the weekends, for people to stop by and visit with my parents for a while. The ones with young kids bring them along. Also Noah in particular will have friends over and their parents will come too. Sometimes it’s just to drop off and pickup later, but sometimes they’ll stay and hang out with my parents and help keep watch. If I happen to be in for a spanking or manage to earn one while they’re at the house, then those neighbors, friends, guests, kids get to see it. The bad part is my parents will often sit on an issue they intend to spank us for, except for Noah, until Saturday when they have more time to deal with it. They do like to get it over with early in the day so that reduces the odds of someone already being at the house, but it still happens on occasion. A little more often, people will arrive while I’m still in time out after the spanking and that’s not really any less embarrassing.
I know that feeling all too well of being too embarrassed and ashamed to face people after they’ve seen me get spanked or standing in time out after. At the same time I know if I’m not polite and friendly with them, they’ll very likely be seeing me get another spanking. It usually takes a good month before I can see them and not immediately remember the spanking. It sounds like we’ve had a few similar experiences, Brenda so I can empathize with those very embarrassing situations. I definitely won’t be kicking anymore soccer balls over the fence no matter how annoying the boys get with it.
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