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Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Darlene [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 21:11:56 11/17/25 Mon In reply to: Louise Vancisic 's message, "Disobedience and Lying" on 16:39:19 11/13/25 Thu Those questions generally determine whether there is a spanking or not. The 2nd last question was the most interesting. Do moms come right out and ask it, or do they read between the lines and come up with their own answer as to what the girl is thinking regarding whether she deserves it or not. Moms have you ever been borderline and used a quiz like that? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:48:42 11/18/25 Tue Hi Darlene. The only time I told my mother that I deserved a spanking was to try and convince her to do it privately. It sometimes worked.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:33:10 11/18/25 Tue Hi Taylor. How old is your daughter now? How often have you spanked her?

[> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Taylor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:12:51 11/18/25 Tue When Jill first posted this I found it very useful. I grew up with spanking, and believed in it. However I was too lenient, including "sparing the rod" too much with our seven year old adopted daughter. Part of my leniency was due to my profession as a social worker. I swallowed too much of the modern thinking on this. I also just loved her so much I often could not bring myself to spank enough (and hard enough). I think the fact she is adopted made it harder. My mother was telling me I needed to run a tighter ship, including more spankings. I knew she was right The guide has been a big help to me. I have never had an incident plugged it in and made a decision to spank or not. But what I did was play around with it plugging in scenarios and it was clear she was getting away with murder, The Guide helped me become a stricter and better mother and we are a happier family. On the question of asking whether she thinks she needs a spanking. I have sometimes asked this.It is rare she outright says yes. But she has acknowledged wrongdoing, and said she does not need the spanking. On occasions I have skipped the spanking, if I think the break is warranted,also considering the way that factor seems to play in the algorithm of this Guide.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Darlene [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:19:16 11/18/25 Tue Interesting. I would have to have a lot of guilt to say yes I deserve a spanking. I suspect though that my body language and attitude tell mom what she needs to know so far as that question goes and her answer to it based on reading between the lines is probably right 9.8 times out of 10. Mom knows when my panties need to come down 👇 for a spanking.