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Subject: Disobedience and Lying Author: Louise Vancisic [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 16:39:19 11/13/25 Thu A 14 year-old-girl goes to a party without asking her parent's permission. When she comes back, she lies about where she has been. Unfortunately for her, her mother already knows that the wasn't where she said that she was. Should she receive a spanking for each lie as well as one for disobeying the rule about asking for permission? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Brooke [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 04:23:23 11/14/25 Fri Hello Louise!!! I say she receives one big tanning up from her Dad!

[> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Louise (Lou) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:33:41 11/16/25 Sun Ho Brooke. Knew I could count on you for a response. Can you pretend to be Dad and give some detail?

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Brooke [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:36:22 11/16/25 Sun Hello Louise!! Well if I was Dad the lady lady would be immediately sent to her bedroom. A few minutes later I would come in and either sit on her bed or on her desk chair. The young lady and I would have a big old discussion before I tell her to take down her pants and underpants and lay across my lap. If a family member was in the hallway outside they would hear loud smacks as her bare bottom was tanned and obviously the accompanying waterworks and sounds from a young lady receiving a spanking!

[> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Karen J [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:41:33 11/15/25 Sat When my daughters have done that, they've gotten a spanking and mouth soaping for the lie, and a few days later another spanking for going without permission.

[> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:10:52 11/15/25 Sat Karen J how do you spank them?

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Louise (Lou) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:36:26 11/16/25 Sun Hi Intrigued. How would you have handled it?

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Karen J to Intrigued [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:41:33 11/19/25 Wed > Karen J how do you spank them? I spank them over my lap, hand and hairbrush on their bare bottoms and upper thighs.

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Intrigued to Karen [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:45:27 11/19/25 Wed I'm sorry I forgot to ask you how old they are? And at what age will you stop spanking them? I bet they hate that hairbrush!

[> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Louise Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:29:14 11/16/25 Sun Hi Karen. Did you ever do that when you were a girl? Do you spank differently for the lies than the disobedience?

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Karen J to Louise Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:45:52 11/19/25 Wed Hi Karen. Did you ever do that when you were a girl? Do you spank differently for the lies than the disobedience? Did I ever do that?? Oh my. Honestly, I'm surprised that my parents didn't disown me. Instead they spanked me, and those spankings got worse when I repeated it. The third time it was a freshly cut switch. That cured me! Plus mouth soapings for the lies. No, I spank the same, though a lie also means a mouth soaping.

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Dimmerdork to Karen J [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:06:07 11/19/25 Wed NOTHING “corrects” quite like the switch, does it…?

[> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:57:02 11/19/25 Wed How old are your girls? How often are they spam\nked?

[> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Gisela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:05:13 11/16/25 Sun Louise, In my opinion, lying is just another form of disobedience. A girl does not do what is (rightly) expected of her. There is probably no single answer to the question of what the right punishment should be. I would probably have just been given a few more blows. But I never dared to be openly disobedient. Of course, I did tell little white lies from time to time, mostly without being found out. Gisela

[> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Anna [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:11:59 11/17/25 Mon Louise, When my oldest daughter was a Junior in high school, she did exactly that. I have a tracking device on my phone for all my kids, so I know where they are at all times. So, when she got home at her designated curfew time, I asked her a few questions and knew she was lying. She received a good bare bottom hand spanking, then a soaped mouth and then a bare bottom paddling. She was also grounded.

[> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Bobby711 [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:58:12 11/17/25 Mon Hi Anna, Sounds like what my mom would do/has done. My questions, if I may: how long was the grounding and what constitutes a grounding? BTW - my mom always seems to have a bar of Ivory around.

[> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Jill [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:12:00 11/17/25 Mon I think my mother built different factors like lies and disrespect into whether a spanking was needed, and if so how hard, the spanking was. That is how it is done in the Guide to Mothers on Spanking a Daughter, which I shared a few months ago: https://www.gotoquiz.com/mother_s_guide_for_spanking_a_daughter

[> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:46:14 11/18/25 Tue Hi Jill. The guide was far more forgiving than my mother.

[> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Darlene [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 21:11:56 11/17/25 Mon Those questions generally determine whether there is a spanking or not. The 2nd last question was the most interesting. Do moms come right out and ask it, or do they read between the lines and come up with their own answer as to what the girl is thinking regarding whether she deserves it or not. Moms have you ever been borderline and used a quiz like that?

[> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 05:48:42 11/18/25 Tue Hi Darlene. The only time I told my mother that I deserved a spanking was to try and convince her to do it privately. It sometimes worked.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:33:10 11/18/25 Tue Hi Taylor. How old is your daughter now? How often have you spanked her?

[> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Taylor [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:12:51 11/18/25 Tue When Jill first posted this I found it very useful. I grew up with spanking, and believed in it. However I was too lenient, including "sparing the rod" too much with our seven year old adopted daughter. Part of my leniency was due to my profession as a social worker. I swallowed too much of the modern thinking on this. I also just loved her so much I often could not bring myself to spank enough (and hard enough). I think the fact she is adopted made it harder. My mother was telling me I needed to run a tighter ship, including more spankings. I knew she was right The guide has been a big help to me. I have never had an incident plugged it in and made a decision to spank or not. But what I did was play around with it plugging in scenarios and it was clear she was getting away with murder, The Guide helped me become a stricter and better mother and we are a happier family. On the question of asking whether she thinks she needs a spanking. I have sometimes asked this.It is rare she outright says yes. But she has acknowledged wrongdoing, and said she does not need the spanking. On occasions I have skipped the spanking, if I think the break is warranted,also considering the way that factor seems to play in the algorithm of this Guide.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Disobedience and Lying Author: Darlene [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:19:16 11/18/25 Tue Interesting. I would have to have a lot of guilt to say yes I deserve a spanking. I suspect though that my body language and attitude tell mom what she needs to know so far as that question goes and her answer to it based on reading between the lines is probably right 9.8 times out of 10. Mom knows when my panties need to come down 👇 for a spanking.