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Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father Author: Louise [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 17:30:29 01/26/26 Mon In reply to: Sadie to Sookma and others 's message, "Re: Spanked by Husband and Father" on 22:45:05 01/24/26 Sat Hi Sadie. thank you for your articulate description of how you dealt with your father's arousal. Sounds like you had a close relationship with your Mom. Did she ever spank you or your sisters? How often were you spanked at various ages? [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father Author: Sadie to Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:43:07 02/03/26 Tue Hi, Louise, First let me say that I always enjoy your posts. You have often explained so much about how your mother disciplined you that I feel like I understand why spanking remains such a fascinating subject for you. The nice thing is you don't judge others whose parents do things differently, or who are mothers who do things differently. I really respect you for that. To answer your comments and questions. You write: Q. Sounds like you had a close relationship with your Mom. Yes, I did have a very close relationship with my mother who was very strict with me and my sisters but also very loving too. She never hesitated to have Daddy spank us but she was never angry or upset when she did that except on one or two occasions when we did something dangerous or something that was nasty (like deliberately getting somebody else in trouble). Even then she was calm and not angry when she had Daddy spank us later for such an offense. Q. Did she ever spank you or your sisters? I don't remember my mother ever spanking either one of us herself. I think she just felt that with girls it was more effective all around if Daddy did the spanking, and I think she was right about that in our case. It was so agonizing to have to wait for the spanking, and then to have to stand in front of Daddy while he undressed us with everyone looking on--that was really agonizing and embarrassing. And then he very calmly without any anger spanked us until we felt we just couldn't stand another whack, and we always danced around a lot to quiet down when he let us off his lap, so getting our spankings from Daddy was just the way it was always done with me and my sisters. Q. How often were you spanked at various ages? Gee, I had to think about that one really hard because we were all spanked from pre-school ages right up, in my case, until I left home. I think I'd say that from ages 6 to 10, I was personally spanked about twice a week for one thing or another, since mom ordered spankings for a lot of fairly minor things. In my last two years of grade school, when I was 13 and 14, I was certainly spanked 2 to 3 times a week at my bedtime by Daddy, and that continued for my first year of high. Then it became more like once a week, and in most of my junior year and all of my senior year is was more like once every two weeks for me, while my younger sisters were getting more frequently spanked. In my last year before I married I was doing very well in general and I was very busy also so it was about once a month or less. As I mentioned in my first post, I was shocked when Daddy gave me the third degree about what I was and was not doing in my home after my marriage, and when he spanked me that time for my "gross negligence" as a wife, I had not been spanked in maybe four months or so. (He had given me several spankings in the last two or three weeks leading up to my marriage to keep me "grounded" you might say--needed because I was really full of myself at that time.) Since that spanking by Daddy that I told you about that happened when I was visiting my parents after my marriage, my husband had decided to review my "accomplishments" at least once a week and he spanks me to keep my focused on my tasks at home, but we then have sex afterwards every time so I now don't really mind those at all as much as they hurt and my husband is careful to spank me good but not to excess if you can follow that. Like his spankings make me cry hard but they also arouse me terrifically, so this is both hard discipline but a real benefit for both of us I feel. (Yes, he gets aroused before and while he spanks me and the results are very noticeable, for which I am thankful not shocked.) Sadie

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father Author: Sadie to Louise and anyone else reading this [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:28:36 02/03/26 Tue Hi, again, Louise, After that last post I just sent you, I got out the calendar and tried to figure out about how many times my father has spanked me during my day visits to my parents since that first time he spanked me for my then admittedly very poor performance of my wifely duties. I visit them about once a week, driving over there for lunch and then leaving to go home in time to get dinner ready for my husband, so it has been about eight visits like that since that first time my father spanked me after my marriage that I told you about. On these visits now it is now my mother who goes over my work at home and who decides if I need a spanking from my father on a given visit. On the eight visits I have counted, I have been spanked three more times by my father and, in my opinion, two of those were in fact definitely earned, but one was for a pretty weak reason. To be completely honest, I feel that one spanking was because I had not been spanked on my prior two visits to them and my mom just wanted me to get a good spanking that she and my father could enjoy (as did one of my sisters who happened to also be there at the time). So my mother found a reason, but in my opinion, it was one that really didn't warrant a spanking. Was I upset by that? To be honest, not really, since I love both my parents and I know how much my father still enjoys spanking me even though I am now married. I should mention that when I have gotten spanked on those visits, it is shortly after I arrive and after we have a nice leisurely lunch, while we talk about my "doings" and my omissions during that lunch. It is then that mom decides whether I need a spanking and we go in the living room to take car of that. Afterwards I go to my old room and lie on the bed to cry that out for a while and nap a little before I get dressed again. While I do that, my parents go to their room and "nap" for a while, too, which needs no other comment if you are following these events carefully. So, by my count today, on five of the visits I have not been spanked by my father, but on three I have been. On the days of my visits to my parents, my husband does take note each time when he get home whether his obedient wife has been spanked by her father, and if we talk about that a little after dinner, I have found that it is not just my mother who gets some subsidiary benefits when spankings have occurred. The more details I tell my husband about any spankings that were received, the more subsidiary benefits that seem to flow my way also--LOL! To me, being spanked by both my father and my husband is a complicated but not totally unpleasurable experience. Sadie

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father Author: Louise Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:10:00 02/06/26 Fri Thanks for the detailed answer. I hope we can keep this dialogue going. I was spanked a lot for being irresponsible or daydreaming. You seem to love and respect your parents quite a bit. You are quite fortunate.

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father Author: Sadie to Louise and others [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:14:50 02/06/26 Fri Hi Louise, Thanks as always for you pleasant and courteous comments even when my posts concern things that are apparently outside of your personal experience--like being spanked by both my father and my husband. You are right that there is a lot of love and respect circulating in our family and I feel the spankings are an important part of that. It felt definitely weird to be spanked by my father after I had been married and away from home for a bit and when I was just visiting my parents for the day. That was the first time my father spanked me since the week before I was married and I was terribly embarrassed when he put me over his lap with my mother looking on and when he raised my skirt up high on my back and pulled my panties down to my knees. He had always spanked me bare bottom when I lived at home, and often completely naked even when I was in high school and that continued right through the year before I married, but for whatever reason that spanking after I was married and away for a while felt very different and I felt more "naked" than I had ever felt before getting spanked. But then, after it was over, a felt those same feelings of love and respect for my parents that I had always felt when I lived at home. I knew I deserved the spanking so that made a big difference in my reaction, but I remember when it was over and I was dancing it out I felt very excited and wet between my legs, which always happened when he spanked me, but that time the arousal was even greater than usual, and I think I realized how much I had missed my spankings without even being aware of that fact. I get the same feelings now each time I get spanked on one of my afternoon home visits, and I also get very excited when he spanks me naked (which he usually does now as he mostly did when I lived at home). And now, since my husband spanks me fairly regularly, I have grown very accepting of his spankings, too, and for whatever reasons getting spanked by both my father and husband really seems to work well for us. Sadie

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Spanked by Husband and Father Author: Louise Vancisic Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:19:49 02/07/26 Sat You are a lucky woman Sadie to have found such a compatible husband. Were you also spanked by your mother? Are you still spanked naked or is it more skirt up?