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Subject: Confession from a spanking mom Author: Lana [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 06:39:47 01/14/26 Wed I am a mother to three kiddos, two daughters ages 10 and 8, and one son age 5. I love my children very much and I do my best to raise them right. And that includes spanking them when they have earned it, just like my parents spanked me. I make sure never to go overboard or leave marks or anything like that, and I never spank for trumped up charges and try my best to be fair. My husband is the same way. But I have a confession to make that I could never truly confess to people in my real life. I have heard the phrase "this hurts me more than it hurts you", but I do not feel that way when I spank my kids at all. By no means do I enjoy seeing my kids in PAIN, that isn't what I mean. But I do feel, in my heart, a HUGE satisfaction when I give out a good spanking to any of my kids. There is something so amazingly maternal about simply having your child, laying on your lap, their bottom up, and you delivering correction to their cheeks with good smacks for misbehavior. And there is also something very maternal and satisfying about giving my kids a hug after while they cry their eyes out, and satisfying when after their spanking is done, just how much sweeter they behave for days or even weeks afterward. Putting it simply, I don't hate spanking my kids. In fact, seeing the bottom turning red with smack after smack, seeing their legs kick, and knowing you are getting through to them is downright satisfying to see. When I know they have misbehaved or acted bad, and EARNED a spanking, I am more than happy to show them the error of their ways through a spanking on their bottoms, and I am a little ashamed to admit it. But this forum is titled "Let's Talk Spanking" and so I'm going to leave it all out on here, because Lord knows I can't on Facebook lol. I am sure there are plenty of parents that do truly hate spanking their kids, and I know my husband is one of them. But he doesn't know that I most definitely am not and never will be, and the only place I'm going to admit it is right here. And I am sure I am not the only one. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: see my post 'what is love' Author: Emily Travers [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 06:52:01 01/14/26 Wed Just in case you are not a troll, see my relevant post. Sadism exists in all of us, especially if we feel we have been betrayed. If you are truly going to 'own' your feelings, don't attempt to rationalize them by claiming 'love' for your children. What you have described is simple revenge. Your children have offended you, and so you hurt them in return. Full stop. That said, almost all people feel the impetus for revenge. The unethical aspect is that kids don't know what they're about for some years, after which you can simply tell them that they have let you down and so you, in return, do not feel as compelled to play their servant at every beck and call. That is how my parents raised me, and I developed into a very autonomous and independent person at a youthful age. But your final line suggests that you are in fact one of those posters who, in whatever guise, attempts to appear as 'objective' and 'considerate', in order to give the idea of violence a veneer of civility. In return, I will suggest to other readers that they see through such a ruse, and that your 'shame' and your appeal to others is simply part and parcel of your propaganda.

[> Subject: Re: Confession from a spanking mom Author: Fran1587 (To Lana) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:02:24 01/14/26 Wed Lana, I enjoyed reading your post and I assure you that you are not alone in your thoughts and feelings. However, I feel that your post would be much better received on the Voy Forum "Moms Spanking Talk". Hope to see you there.

[> Subject: Re: Confession from a spanking mom Author: johnny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:53:47 01/14/26 Wed I oppose spankings before age 8, and got spanked starting near age 12, to 15, mainly by hand, no major implements. Once an adult, I came to admit that I had actually needed spankings. I knew guy, who didn't get spanked, get more and more miserable to other people. They had never gotten a reset.

[> [> Subject: reply to johnny Author: Emily Travers [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:55:31 01/14/26 Wed The misery you speak of was likely due to other variables. One does not get more miserable from not being spanked! Their parents may well have neglected them in other ways. I understand your opposition and by no means was I implying spanking should be used at all, at any age. There are plenty of other more ethical ways of 'resetting' a child's expectations of the world. Simply explaining how this or that works and why is the best manner of so doing, which is what my parents did. They took the time and made the effort to do so, but perhaps the fact I am an only child aided their work.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: reply to johnny Author: johnny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:54:54 01/14/26 Wed One does not get more miserable from not being spanked! --To clarify, I was saying that one could have become less miserable in the moment from being spanked. (Or possibly, from other ways.)

[> [> [> [> Subject: okay I get it Author: Emily Travers [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:28:50 01/14/26 Wed Ah, okay, I get you now. What I was saying was simply that BEING punished is unlikely to make one LESS miserable. Now that would include all forms of punishment, so I am not singling out cp here.

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: reply to johnny Author: johnny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:50:45 01/14/26 Wed I felt that in a day of tension, a spanking made me feel like I could now exhale.

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: reply to johnny Author: johnny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:41:54 01/14/26 Wed I haven't thought about it much. Maybe more a horse racing jockey..."Johnny Hernandez in the 7th race".

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: reply to johnny Author: Emily Travers [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:24:50 01/14/26 Wed Interesting, I would not have immediately made such an association. Johnny Unitas, NFL legend as well.

[> [> [> [> Subject: your moniker Author: Emily Travers [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:51:10 01/14/26 Wed 'Johnny' seems a trifle odd for an adult name; do you associate yourself with 'coming lately', being 'on the spot', or simply 'being good', or for that matter, 'getting a gun'? It is odd how that name shows up as a place-filler in so many different idioms. Perhaps like 'Jane' is for girls?

[> Subject: Re: Confession from a spanking mom Author: Louise Vancisic [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:18:43 01/14/26 Wed Hi Lana. Your reasoning is well thought out and most articulate. Your satisfaction is appropriate because you see that your children are being punished for their bad or irresponsible behavior and will be better for it. You spank them out of love and because they sense that, their tears are not only tears of pain and embarrassment but also tears of remorse and, yes even appreciation. Do you have a formal reconciliation after the spanking? How often do you and your husband spank the girls?

[> [> Subject: Jeez Louise! Author: Emily Travers [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:51:08 01/20/26 Tue You're full of shit as always, Vancisic. 'Spanking out of love', what unutterable horseshit. And 'reasoning'? No, rationalization, sure, but not reasoning. You know, persons like you should be banned from opening their mouths, since you're too goddamned stupid to qualify. What 'ethnic' background did you say your family was from again? Maybe the Reich should have wiped them out.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Jeez Louise! Author: tami (Unruh) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:49:24 01/25/26 Sun I think not all spanking is bad, as long as you don't leave welts and bruises and bruises, and you dont spank because you're angry or frustrated.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Jeez Louise! Author: Louise [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:17:09 01/26/26 Mon Thank you Tami. My mother did sometimes leave bruises on the3 back of my thighs so I did not roll up the waistband on my school skirt.