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Subject: Re: Confession from a spanking mom

Author:
johnny

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Date Posted: 08:53:47 01/14/26 Wed
In reply to: Lana 's message, "Confession from a spanking mom" on 06:39:47 01/14/26 Wed

I oppose spankings before age 8, and got spanked starting near age 12, to 15, mainly by hand, no major implements. Once an adult, I came to admit that I had actually needed spankings. I knew guy, who didn't get spanked, get more and more miserable to other people. They had never gotten a reset.

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Author:
Emily Travers
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Date Posted: 10:55:31 01/14/26 Wed

The misery you speak of was likely due to other variables. One does not get more miserable from not being spanked! Their parents may well have neglected them in other ways.

I understand your opposition and by no means was I implying spanking should be used at all, at any age.

There are plenty of other more ethical ways of 'resetting' a child's expectations of the world. Simply explaining how this or that works and why is the best manner of so doing, which is what my parents did. They took the time and made the effort to do so, but perhaps the fact I am an only child aided their work.

[> [> [> Subject: Re: reply to johnny
Author: johnny [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 11:54:54 01/14/26 Wed One does not get more miserable from not being spanked! --To clarify, I was saying that one could have become less miserable in the moment from being spanked. (Or possibly, from other ways.)

[> [> [> [> Subject: okay I get it
Author: Emily Travers [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 13:28:50 01/14/26 Wed Ah, okay, I get you now. What I was saying was simply that BEING punished is unlikely to make one LESS miserable. Now that would include all forms of punishment, so I am not singling out cp here.

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Author: johnny [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 13:50:45 01/14/26 Wed I felt that in a day of tension, a spanking made me feel like I could now exhale.

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Author: johnny [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 14:41:54 01/14/26 Wed I haven't thought about it much. Maybe more a horse racing jockey..."Johnny Hernandez in the 7th race".

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Author: Emily Travers [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 23:24:50 01/14/26 Wed Interesting, I would not have immediately made such an association. Johnny Unitas, NFL legend as well.

[> [> [> [> Subject: your moniker
Author: Emily Travers [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 13:51:10 01/14/26 Wed 'Johnny' seems a trifle odd for an adult name; do you associate yourself with 'coming lately', being 'on the spot', or simply 'being good', or for that matter, 'getting a gun'? It is odd how that name shows up as a place-filler in so many different idioms. Perhaps like 'Jane' is for girls?