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Subject: Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride

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Nadine

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Date Posted: 11:14:21 11/29/25 Sat
In reply to: Douglas 's message, "Re: Crying and loss of ego and pride" on 16:11:10 11/28/25 Fri

Hi, I am Nadine and I am 15 years old. My mom always likes to tell me in advance when I am going to be spanked. I know this is because she likes to get me all agitated waiting to get it, And she loves to tell others that I am going to be spanked later--like after dinner or at my bedtime--and this literally embarrasses me to tears many times.

Like two nights ago we had guests dinner, a married couple and another man who were friends of mom from work. And we were all just starting to eat when mom told everyone, "Don't mind if Nadine is very quiet this evening. I have promised her a good spanking at her bedtime tonight and so she is naturally feeling pretty glum and not very happy at all." See, she didn't have to mention that at all because she was not going to spank me until after they all left but that is typical of her. And, of course, as expected that started a big conversation about spanking teens in general which mom loves to do with close friends.

All I could do was sit there red-faced and tongue-tied and trying to eat as the questions went back and forth. "Do you spank her on the bare?" "What do you use to spank Nadine? I use a hairbrush on my son, Tim, who is 12, and he bawls his head off when I spank him with that." This from the wife of the couple who is a very pretty young woman who is clearly delighted to hear I am to be spanked.

And of course mom then lectures everyone on the benefits of the Lexan paddle that she uses on us, and sends my brother Pete, who is 12, up to her bedroom to bring it down and show it to everyone. And so during the whole meal everyone is talking about spankings and asking for details about the one I am going to get until I am sitting there with tears running down my cheeks from the total humiliation I am feeling, which mom always tells me is part of my punishment. Talk about loss of ego and pride? I could just crawl in a hole when she does that. Nadine

And she does this at times with boys present who are my age or a little older and I can't describe the embarrassment I feel when she tells them about how she always spanks me until I do a lovely crying dance for her when she finishes.

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Author: Dimmerdork to Nadine [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 14:09:46 11/29/25 Sat What does your mom tout as the “benefits” of the Lexan paddle? Do you agree with her? So what transpired after your dinner guests had left…?

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Author: CaringThroughAction [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 16:53:16 11/30/25 Sun I'm sorry that happens, Nadine. She should realize embarrassment like that accomplishes nothing. If I were an adult visitor at that table I'd have politely asked why she felt compelled to share such personal details in front of you.

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Carrie
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Date Posted: 19:59:30 11/30/25 Sun

So sorry Nadine! How awful for you. In my teen years mother also liked to sentence me to be spanked later. “Agitated” is a good word for the tummy-twisting, clammy palms and shaking knees when I had to wait several hours or a day for my bare bottom spanking.
This gave mom (and my younger brother and others) a chance to “remind” me during the day that I was due a spanking later. “Enjoy sitting now,” mom would smile, “you won’t feel like sitting on your sore backside later.”
My stupid brother would slyly taunt “ohhh…you’re gonna get it.”
And one aunt in particular liked to make me answer questions! “Are you thinking about your spanking right now?” or. “I bet it’s going to be REALLY embarrassing being spanked bare bottom at your age?”

At 12 I felt like a big girl starting jr high but the first parent/teacher conference I had to sit with mom and 5 teachers (two. men, three women) and hear mom assure them ANY school trouble would mean a sound spanking at home. By the third time I’d start crying and between I’d beg mom not to tell them that I still got spankings but she promised I’d be spanked each time.

That was wicked of your mom to show everyone the lexan! I’m also curious what she said about it? Did any guests hold it? And telling people you would end up dancing sounds like mom telling me in front of people that I’d be “bawling like a baby” before my spanking was over.