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Subject: People’s opinions Author: Ryan [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 16:39:19 12/08/25 Mon Has anyone seen the story of that Alabama teacher that lost her job because the clip of her spanking her son with a belt went viral. What’s everyone’s thoughts on this me and my sister both got our backsides tanned with the belt growing up and I have no hard feelings about this it was a deterrent for making silly choices growing up because you knew the result. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: People’s opinions Author: Lucas [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:20:27 12/08/25 Mon If he got a handful of spanks with a brush or something, that would be one thing. But she beat him. Not to mention yanking him by the hair and screaming in his face. That all adds up to abuse. There was no love in that spanking.

[> Subject: Re: People’s opinions Author: Clair [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:28:39 12/08/25 Mon I too was spanked with the belt growing up and have no hard feelings towards it however the way that woman was pulling his hair was not okay

[> Subject: Re: People’s opinions Author: Shane [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:38:43 12/09/25 Tue I have not seen the video in its entirety, only clips. I believe the video depicts the reality of what goes on behind closed doors in many homes. Many spanking stories on Voy are presented as ritualized and given with “love”-which certainly does exist, but many times spankings are chaotic and angry. When I was a kid in the 90s, nobody would have batted an eye. The strong reaction shows how far we have come since then.

[> Subject: Re: People’s opinions Author: Angela [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 10:59:31 12/09/25 Tue This was not a "Spank With Love" spanking. Twelve/thirteen years ago my husband and I were delighted to find an online group "Spank With Love". We firmly believed in spanking' but only if it was done uot of love. My husband wrote in the parens foru[m: I don't consider myself a strict parent but I am not shy about spanking my kids. I'm probably less strict than my wife but she is with them more than I am. Like others here we have rules and guidelines for our kids' behavior. They know the consequences when they misbehave and we try to be consistent with their discipline. We think it's important too, that we reassure our kids after a spanking that they are still loved. We just didn't like what they did to deserve the spanking or other punishment. Bob E. responded: Amen to your last paragraph, Anthony! It isn't just "important" to reassure kids after a spanking that they are still loved- IT IS ESSENTIAL! This is something that my Dad did NOT do with me, and in my review of what I needed to do to "spank with love," this was at the top of my list! I wait a bit of time after a spanking (depending upon the age) for my boy to regain some composure, and then go back to hug, kiss, give a back-rub, and do anything that is needed to make sure that I have convinced my son of his complete repair as far as his offense is concerned, and that he is unconditionally loved by his parents. I don't care how much time I might need to spend for this; if there is time to spank, there is time for the after-spank reassurance. This mother appeared out of control.There is no love there. I would like to see the aftermath, and know more about the family (but an older son did say it was common). From what I can see, there is no love there, Just anger, which means it was a beating!