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>Dear Mr. Paul, > >Thank you for taking the time to provide us with the >details. > >>For the other families here, are the menthols used in >>our house similar to yours? Or different? > >Oh? When you smoke your kids' behinds do you use >menthols? Sorry, it was rude to poke fun at >somebody's typos. This is especially apropos for me >as I live in a very fragile glass house in this >regard. I've even spelled my name wrong, I think >three times, two at least. Feel free to let me have >it if you spot my next typo, but the opportunity for >the pun was irresistible. > >Since you provided the details of your parenting >techniques and expressed interest in other’s it's >only fair that I take the time to respond in kind >rather than have you sort through all the other posts. > >>There are ebbs and flows to the frequency of the >>spankings for each of the four. Right now, the twins >>have been on an uptick, both were in fact spanked >>yesterday evening. Throughout the past 8-plus years - >>we begin spanking at age 5 or thereabouts, when they >>are old enough to know right from wrong - I would say >>they have all averaged about the same frequency when >>taken in total, about once a month or so for each. > >When I was 13 I was getting it at least twice a month. > More frequently when I was 8 and 11. I started >getting serious spankings when I started 1st grade at >age 6. Now that I'm 17, only once in a while. >> >>We spank for the typical things - dangerous actions, >>rudeness, bad attitude, lying, trouble at school, >>neglecting responsibilities and the like. > >Yeah, pretty much the same here: Dangerous actions; >running a red light on my bike, cutting through the >police barricade tape and exploring a burned out >house, throwing rocks. Rudeness; if sassing and >backtalk count as rudeness, then yeah, I got a lot of >spankings for that. Bad attitude: That, too. I >threw a tantrum a while back because I had to clean my >room instead of what I wanted to do. Mom gave me a >serious paddling for that. Lying; no, I get the big >lexan paddle (see below) for lying and it simply isn't >worth it. Trouble at school; again no. I take school >serious. I've only gotten trouble once and it wasn't >my fault - another kid copied my homework paper >without my knowledge and the teacher thought I had let >him. Got detention and my mom tanned my behind good - >not fair! Neglecting responsibilities? If that means >not doing my chores, than yeah, sometimes, not often. >> >>I spank with my hand until age 10, after which they >>“graduate” the plastic stirring paddle, which is >>dreaded by the three on whose bottoms it is used. > >My parents have two lexan paddles they use on me, a >small hairbrush sized and shaped one for most things >and a bigger one with holes drilled it for the major >stuff like running that light. I <i>really</i> dread >the big paddle. It <strong>STINGS!</strong> I have >never been spanked with the hand. My dad started >right in with the strap when I started school, >although he didn't spank hard at first but by the time >I was 13 it really welted my butt. When I started >high school, and with the help of the people on the >forum here, I talked my dad into changing from the >strap to the small lexan paddle, because it stings >plenty, but doesn't leave welts and the redness is >gone the next day so I didn't have to show my welted >butt in the showers after PE at school the next day. >I'm really grateful for the forum's help with that. >My grandpa would probably still use the strap, but he >hasn't spanked me in years. >> >>I spank in the traditional position, seated on a >>armless chair with the child draped across my lap. >>This allows me control of them and clear aim at the >>target. > >My mom spanks me like that, but my dad has me lay face >down on my bed with my face buried in a pillow to >muffle my yells. My grandpa had me bend over his sofa >arm. >> >>I always and only spank on the bare bottom, that >>applies to my four as well as my niece and nephews and >>my oldest son’s friend, whose parents have given me >>permission to spank when needed (the same courtesy has >>likewise been extended to them). > >Yeah, I get it bare bottom, too. Almost all of the >kids here get it bare. I'm an only child and my >parents don't spank my friends and if there are >visitors at the house when I cop a spanking they wait >until they have left so I've always gotten it in >private. I've never seen another kid get spanked. Do >you spank your kids in front of others? When they do >bare bottom cornertime do they have to show their bare >behinds to anybody who happens to be around? I don't >get cornertime - in fact I didn't even know such a >thing existed until I joined the forum here. When you >spanked your son's friend did your son get it, too, in >front of each other? Having somebody witness your >spanking sounds wicked embarrassing. I'm sure glad >that doesn't happen to me! Has your son ever been >spanked my his friend's parents? Bare? I have to >take off my trousers myself and pull down my own >underpants. >> >>Spanking the bare bottoms has become a point of >>serious protest by the twins, and to a lesser extent, >>my 11 year old. The argument is they are entitled to a >>measure of privacy, which I inform them exists when >>they change clothes, when they shower or bathe, when >>they visit the doctor and the like. When they >>misbehave, however, the right to privacy goes out the >>window. I have simply informed them if they don’t >>want their bottoms and private parts exposed they have >>the ability to behave; it is entirely within their >>ability to prevent. > >Does this mean that you spank them in front of others? > Like friends or visitors or each other? When you >spanked both twins the other day did they get it in >front of each other? Way embarrassing!!! >> >>I don’t give a set number of swats, I spank until I >>feel the point has been made. There has yet to be a >>spanking administered in our house that did not have >>the child crying in earnest before it was over. > >I usually get 25-30 swats, and I assure you that I cry >"in earnest" every time, hard. If I'm getting the big >lexan I start crying as soon as I see it in my dad's >hand, otherwise I can usually last for a time after >the spanking starts, but I assure you that long before >it's over I'm bawling up a storm. Sometimes the >neighbor lady hears me crying and embarrasses me later >by asking what I did to merit the spanking. Do your >kids start crying as soon as you tell them they're >getting a spanking or do they wait until their pants >are down and it's stinging unbearably? >>
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