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>Thank you everyone for the warm welcome. I’ll try my >best to answer the questions posed. > >There are ebbs and flows to the frequency of the >spankings for each of the four. Right now, the twins >have been on an uptick, both were in fact spanked >yesterday evening. Throughout the past 8-plus years - >we begin spanking at age 5 or thereabouts, when they >are old enough to know right from wrong - I would say >they have all averaged about the same frequency when >taken in total, about once a month or so for each. > >We spank for the typical things - dangerous actions, >rudeness, bad attitude, lying, trouble at school, >neglecting responsibilities and the like. > >I spank with my hand until age 10, after which they >“graduate” the plastic stirring paddle, which is >dreaded by the three on whose bottoms it is used. > >I spank in the traditional position, seated on a >armless chair with the child draped across my lap. >This allows me control of them and clear aim at the >target. > >I always and only spank on the bare bottom, that >applies to my four as well as my niece and nephews and >my oldest son’s friend, whose parents have given me >permission to spank when needed (the same courtesy has >likewise been extended to them). > >Spanking the bare bottoms has become a point of >serious protest by the twins, and to a lesser extent, >my 11 year old. The argument is they are entitled to a >measure of privacy, which I inform them exists when >they change clothes, when they shower or bathe, when >they visit the doctor and the like. When they >misbehave, however, the right to privacy goes out the >window. I have simply informed them if they don’t >want their bottoms and private parts exposed they have >the ability to behave; it is entirely within their >ability to prevent. > >I don’t give a set number of swats, I spank until I >feel the point has been made. There has yet to be a >spanking administered in our house that did not have >the child crying in earnest before it was over. > >Yes, we do use corner time following and sometimes >preceding the actual spanking. It provides a powerful >psychological reminder of the consequences of their >actions. This too has also begun to be a point of >protest to which I say so much better. > >For the other families here, are the menthols used in >our house similar to yours? Or different?
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