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>Hey Alex, welcome to the forum! Like you say, you're >far from the only teenager that gets embarrassment as >part of the punishment. > >My parents would probably say that they're not doing >anything to deliberately embarrass me and that if I >don't want my bare bottom spanked like a little kid >then I only need to learn not to misbehave like a >little kid. Plus something about "that's how we do >spankings in this house". > >Cornertime in my birthday suit obvs isn't something >that actually *needs* to happen as part of a spanking, >but I'm used to it now so it just seems normal and >it's not for very long anyway. Having to be in my >birthday suit for "the lecture" is the most >embarrassing part. But that's happened every time I've >had a spanking since I was 11. Plus, arguing about >that part of it when I'm in trouble and already about >to get spanked anyway, would be a really bad idea. > >Some kids here have spanking parents (and some of the >spanking parents here) that avoid any more >embarrassment than is absolutely necessary. Like, >always spanking in private with no-one watching, pants >only coming down immediately before the spanking, >privacy after the spanking as well, etc. My parents >don't believe in all that and I guess mostly yours >don't either. > >There's several of us on the forum that are spanked by >our stepdads. Again, most stepdads give spankings >because they know that we need it and it helps our >behaviour. But I think some stepdads (mine maybe, >yours maybe) go a little further than that and take >satisfaction in spanking us (and embarrassing us) to >remind us that they're in charge and we have to submit >to their authority. > >You're lucky in one sense, that you get spanked by >stepdad with Mom watching. My parents like to do it >the other way round sometimes, Mom spanks me and >stepdad watches. I think he finds that just as >satisfying as spanking me himself, maybe more. And >going over Mom's knee for a bare bottom spanking with >him watching, is embarrassing in a whole different way. > >I have the "late developer" problem as well, there's >not a lot I can do about it but there are still a few >other people in my year at school that are similar. >You're probably not as small as you think you are, >it's easy to get sensitive about it and think things >are worse than they are. > >I have had a theory for a while that being more of a >"little kid" than my stepbro was at my age, >contributes to my parents giving me more spankings and >for more minor misbehaviour. Kind of like they want me >to stay a little kid and they don't want me thinking >of myself as an adult. So they (maybe subconsciously?) >think that regularly getting spanked like a little kid >will somehow help keep me a little kid for longer. I >wonder if your parents are doing something similar. >(especially cos of the diaper thing as well) > >Of course my parents would say it's nothing to do with >that, in their opinion I get spanked like a little kid >because I am a little kid. And it's good for me and my >attitude is much better after a spanking etc. > >You'd better hope that your stepdad doesn't read any >forums like this one, because it sounds like mouth >soaping or the "diaper position" are the kind of thing >he would pretty quickly want to try out on you if he >got the idea in his head. > >Tim used to receive a similar punishment to yours of >having to stay bare for long amounts of time after a >spanking. That's a complicated one because (if I >understood right) he ended up enjoying it! > >The thing with having to wear a diaper after a >spanking is really weird. Kind of inappropriate? But >unfortunately the logic of "act like a little kid, be >treated like a little kid" makes sense. At least your >schoolfriends don't need to know about that part, >hopefully?? > >How does it feel having to keep a diaper on when >you've got a red hot burning bottom? It must feel >really weird. > >Lots of kids here have managed to avoid the problem of >schoolfriends finding out about spankings because of >changing for PE etc. I think Jerry's parents agreed to >some complicated arrangement involving a Lexan paddle >to avoid marks for that exact reason. My parents are >nothing like that helpful and they thought it was a >"good lesson" for me that everyone found out I still >get spanked. > >If there are other people on your swim team that also >get spanked then that must make it much easier for >you. What did you find out about other people getting >spankings? > >I know there's nothing manly about yelping and begging >from a bare bottom spanking with your Mom watching, >but, one thing that I did find out is that a belting >or strapping from a man is considered way more of a >"big boy" spanking than going over Mom's knee for the >hairbrush or the spoon. So if people at school are >asking about marks, I always make sure to emphasise >the less "little kid" punishments. > >If you're on the swim team then at least you will have >a better physique than most of us :)
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