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>I had a slightly similar situation. My parents never >originally believed in spankings. Altho I might have >got an occasional swat or slap when I was 2 or 3. But >nothing like a proper spanking. > >Then when me and my Mum moved in with my stepdad and >stepbro when I was about 11. My behaviour was not very >good and my stepdad persuaded my Mum that he needed to >start spanking me to teach me some manners. And my >stepdad gives proper big spankings and is very good at >it (he had a lot of practice from spanking my stepbro, >who is older). So it was a big shock for me to start >getting proper spankings at that age when I had never >had them before. > >But my stepdad was right that a bright red sore bottom >reminds me of my manners. And now my Mum is a big >believer in spanking too. > >I have a theory that different people get spankings >after a long time of no spankings for different >reasons. > >I think some kids get spanked when they are very >young, like from age 2 or 3 to age 6 or 7. But then >their parents stop spanking because they see spankings >as mostly for kids that young. But then when the kids >get to age 12 or 13, the kids get mouthy or cheeky or >more likely to talk back or disobey, and the kids end >up getting spanked again after a long gap of five or >six years without a spanking. > >I think some people on this forum first posted here >after that type of spanking, that they got a spanking >at age 11 or 12 when they hadn't had one for a long >time and thought they were too old for it. > >There are also some kids who "grow out of" spankings >when they're aged maybe 14 or 15. Either because >they're considered "too big for a spanking" or because >they've learned to follow the rules after all the >spankings they've had. But then when they get to age >18 or 19, these same kids are the age where they can >drive and they can go out partying and maybe they're >drinking alcohol as well and they can get in trouble >over things like missing whatever curfew time their >parents decide. So we sometimes hear about kids >getting beltings at age 19 or so after a gap of maybe >five years if they hadn't been spanked since they were >14 or so. > >I think in both these types of cases it can be a >situation where spankings are "brought back in" after >a long time without a spanking, because of a kid >moving into a different phase of their growing up. >Either at age 12 or 13, or at age 18 or 19, it's sort >of natural for a kid to feel that they have a new sort >of independence and they don't need to do what their >parents say. Or they start thinking they know it all >and that they can ignore their parents. So naturally >that ends up with spankings being brought back after a >long time without them. > >There are also some people who are 19 or 20 who were >spanked when they were younger and decide that they >still need it even tho they haven't been spanked for a >while. > >But I guess for most people here they get a spanking >most years and don't really have a very long gap >(years and years) between spankings. Until they are >genuinely old enough to never get spanked any more.
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