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Subject: Re: Sore bottom teaching a boy not to be entitled


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Lucas (to Mr Jack)
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Date Posted: 13:49:42 04/25/26 Sat
In reply to: Jack to April 's message, "Re: Single mom with two boys and i spank them." on 10:06:19 04/13/26 Mon

> it's great to hear from other parents and
> guardians that aren't afraid to discipline and spank
> their kids and raise them with respect,
> responsibility, and not be entitled.

Hello sir I hope it's OK for me to comment.

It's interesting what you said about raising kids not to be entitled. I've seen a few comments online about young people being entitled but I was never sure before whether it really applied to me or not.

Now that I think about it more and looking back on when I was younger. Before I was age 11 I didn't get spanked. And I think back then I was kind of entitled. Like I wasn't really really badly behaved or doing things like stealing or lying or skipping school. And I never caused trouble in school and always got good grades. But, looking back it seems like I did actually feel that all of that did mean I was "entitled" to get my own way in pretty much everything else.

Like for example back then I hardly did any chores and there was almost no point giving me chores to do cos I wouldn't do them properly. And Mum didn't really see that as a problem and let me get away with it. And altho I was never really rude to Mum or stepdad, I wasn't properly respectful either. And would talk back a lot. Or refuse to do things or whatever. And back then, Mum never really saw it as a problem and she let me get away with it.

But then almost straight away from the first time my stepdad put me over his knee and give me a proper big spanking. My attitude almost totally changed and I went from feeling "entitled" and thinking I could get away with being disrespectful or lazy. To knowing that I could get my bottom blistered any time they decided that I needed it.

It didn't totally cure me of talking back immediately. cos I think I got another spanking for talking back about two weeks after the first one. But I learned from that, that every single time I talked back I would end up with a sore bottom.

And after that I have got spanked again whenever my parents think I need one. And it has totally changed my attitude and I don't dare even have a disrespectful look on my face. cos I know who is in charge and I know they have the power to teach me a lesson.

So it's true that getting spankings has actually changed me from a kid who was acting kind of entitled. To a kid who doesn't any more.

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