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Subject: Re: Wives opinions matter

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Annette to Ronald
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Date Posted: 12:50:56 05/01/25 Thu
In reply to: Ronald to Annette 's message, "Re: Wives opinions matter" on 20:59:49 04/30/25 Wed

>Annette, Sweet Spanking Wife and Motherthose are some
>interesting suggestions you offer and it may well be
>that I will talk to my wife about spanking her in
>front of them from time to time as an "object lesson"
>in what our church teaches about how wives should be
>be properly subservient to the husband (your case
>being an entertaining exception).
>
>One problem: our total privacy when I discipline her
>has meant that I can also strip naked for that much
>loved (by me) disciplinary task, and I often spank my
>loving wife in stages--spanking her over my knee with
>the Lexan for example until she is bawling in "full
>throat" as it were, and then I fairly often slide her
>to her knees in front of me and use that opportunity
>to take full advantage of her wide open bawling mouth
>(as one example).
>
>Also, at times when I have laid her face down over
>pillows on the bed to whip her soundly with a belt for
>a bit, and when I have her at a screeching yelling
>peak, I often climb up behind her and use that closest
>rear hole in her red hot bottom for the insertion of
>my thrusting member, saving her other and much more
>used entrance until a bit later in the disciplinary
>proceedings.
>
>One of my disciplinary sessions with my beloved wife,
>for example, might take more than an hour and the
>enjoyable use of several of her available openings,
>and to be honest I am not sure if my daughters at
>their ages are ready for that kind of advanced course
>in domestic sexual activity with their parents acting
>as the star performers.
>
>I'd have to give that a lot of thought and much
>discussion with my wife, but your comments are very
>welcome. I would very much like to know some of the
>details of how you discipline your husband and exactly
>what and where and how you get effectively across to
>him the messages you want him to "feel" and learn
>from.
>
>I would also love to have you walk me (and others
>here) through a typical maintenance spanking that you
>give your girls (and boys, if any). Do they come to
>you nude, for example, or do you undress them and make
>that a teasing as well as painful experience?
>
>Details, details, details-- PLEASE, dear Annette.
>
>Ronald

Ronald,

Our church, like yours, teaches that wives should be properly subservient to their husbands, and that it is the responsibility of husbands to guide and discipline their wives and of wives to welcome discipline from their husbands and to learn from it. That was the type of relationship that my parents had and it is the type of relationship that most of my siblings have with their spouses. And I fully expected to have that type of marriage as well, and I looked forward to marrying a man who would guide and discipline me. But that is not how it worked out for me. As our Pastor says, it was God's plan for me to fall in love with a man who needed ME to guide and discipline HIM. And I have tried my best to fulfill that obligation.

I think the relationship you have with your wife is wonderful. The discipline sessions you have with her sound amazing. I would want to have the same if my marriage was more traditional (that is, male led). And if I had a daughter (I don't ... I was blessed only with sons) I would hope and pray that she found a man would could provide her with love and discipline like you provide to your wife. I'm sure you hope your daughters will find men like that as well. While I agree that your daughters may be a bit too young (at least your 13 year old) to witness your wife's discipline sessions, I also think it is important that at some point they learn what is involved and what they can (and should) expect when they marry.

You asked for detailed descriptions of the sessions I have with my husband and sons. I'll try to provide that, to the extent I am comfortable doing so on a public forum. Please understand that punishment sessions and maintenance spankings differ.

Punishment for misbehavior can happen on-the-spot when the misbehavior occurs, or more likely will be delayed until a more suitable time and place. The delay has the added benefit of letting him worry about his coming punishment. When the time comes, we all assemble in the family room. The punished boy (my husband or my son), when I direct, must strip down to his panties (both of them own only pink female panties), which I then lower and remove. We will then review why and how he is to be punished, typically my me asking him questions regarding what he did wrong, why it was wrong, how he deserves to be punished, etc. I then take him across my bare legs and start spanking his bottom and thighs with my hand, and when he is crying, I switch to the hairbrush and then the real punishment begins. Depending on the nature and severity of the misbehavior, the punishment might alternatively or additionally include the strap, mouthsoaping or other punishments. When the punishment is completed, he kneels before me and is required to apologize for his misbehavior, again describing the offense, how he was punished, what he has learned, and thanks for his punishment. He then kisses me -- as I said to Nick in another thread, somewhat north of my knees. Nude cornertime -- typcially a half hour -- follows, served half the time facing the corner and half the time facing the room.

Maintenance spankings are currently weekly affairs for both my husband and son, typically on different evenings of the week. (As I have discussed in an earlier post, my younger son is married and recently they moved to another city because of their jobs. My older son still lives at home.) On the appointed day, the boy (that is, my husband or my son) will shower and then report to the family room still nude. I review with him his behavior and attitude during the past week, including both the good and the bad. We discuss what improvements I expect in the week to come, reminding him that failure to make those improvements will result in punishment. He then goes over my bare thighs for a spanking. As this is a maintenance spanking rather than a punishment spanking, it mostly consisted of a long hand spanking, though that is followed by a hairbrush spanking, the severity of which will depend on how good or bad a week he had. What follows the spanking differs for my son and my husband. If it is my son, I cuddle and soothe him as he cries it out, then offer my breast for him to suckle as I fondle him to release. My husband and I then adjourn to the bedroom. If it is my husband, we move directly to the bedroom.

I hope this answers your questions. If not, you may ask me here or email me.

annettemom2b@yahoo

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Re: Wives opinions matter Ronald to Annette 16:09:48 05/01/25 Thu

Re: Wives opinions matter -- JR to Ronald, 07:31:05 05/02/25 Fri

Re: Wives opinions matter -- Pastor Robertson, 09:59:42 05/02/25 Fri

Re: Wives opinions matter -- JR to Pastor Robertson, 11:27:55 05/02/25 Fri
Re: Wives opinions matter -- Ronald to JR and Pastor Robertson, 11:41:41 05/02/25 Fri

Re: Wives opinions matter -- JR to Ronald, 12:09:14 05/02/25 Fri
Re: Wives opinions matter -- Pastor Robertson, 14:06:09 05/02/25 Fri

Re: Wives opinions matter -- JR to Pastor Robertson, 15:07:10 05/02/25 Fri

Re: Wives opinions matter -- Annette to Ronald, 16:57:44 05/02/25 Fri

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>>Annette, Sweet Spanking Wife and Motherthose are some >>interesting suggestions you offer and it may well be >>that I will talk to my wife about spanking her in >>front of them from time to time as an "object lesson" >>in what our church teaches about how wives should be >>be properly subservient to the husband (your case >>being an entertaining exception). >> >>One problem: our total privacy when I discipline her >>has meant that I can also strip naked for that much >>loved (by me) disciplinary task, and I often spank my >>loving wife in stages--spanking her over my knee with >>the Lexan for example until she is bawling in "full >>throat" as it were, and then I fairly often slide her >>to her knees in front of me and use that opportunity >>to take full advantage of her wide open bawling mouth >>(as one example). >> >>Also, at times when I have laid her face down over >>pillows on the bed to whip her soundly with a belt for >>a bit, and when I have her at a screeching yelling >>peak, I often climb up behind her and use that closest >>rear hole in her red hot bottom for the insertion of >>my thrusting member, saving her other and much more >>used entrance until a bit later in the disciplinary >>proceedings. >> >>One of my disciplinary sessions with my beloved wife, >>for example, might take more than an hour and the >>enjoyable use of several of her available openings, >>and to be honest I am not sure if my daughters at >>their ages are ready for that kind of advanced course >>in domestic sexual activity with their parents acting >>as the star performers. >> >>I'd have to give that a lot of thought and much >>discussion with my wife, but your comments are very >>welcome. I would very much like to know some of the >>details of how you discipline your husband and exactly >>what and where and how you get effectively across to >>him the messages you want him to "feel" and learn >>from. >> >>I would also love to have you walk me (and others >>here) through a typical maintenance spanking that you >>give your girls (and boys, if any). Do they come to >>you nude, for example, or do you undress them and make >>that a teasing as well as painful experience? >> >>Details, details, details-- PLEASE, dear Annette. >> >>Ronald > >Ronald, > >Our church, like yours, teaches that wives should be >properly subservient to their husbands, and that it is >the responsibility of husbands to guide and discipline >their wives and of wives to welcome discipline from >their husbands and to learn from it. That was the >type of relationship that my parents had and it is the >type of relationship that most of my siblings have >with their spouses. And I fully expected to have that >type of marriage as well, and I looked forward to >marrying a man who would guide and discipline me. But >that is not how it worked out for me. As our Pastor >says, it was God's plan for me to fall in love with a >man who needed ME to guide and discipline HIM. And I >have tried my best to fulfill that obligation. > >I think the relationship you have with your wife is >wonderful. The discipline sessions you have with her >sound amazing. I would want to have the same if my >marriage was more traditional (that is, male led). >And if I had a daughter (I don't ... I was blessed >only with sons) I would hope and pray that she found a >man would could provide her with love and discipline >like you provide to your wife. I'm sure you hope your >daughters will find men like that as well. While I >agree that your daughters may be a bit too young (at >least your 13 year old) to witness your wife's >discipline sessions, I also think it is important that >at some point they learn what is involved and what >they can (and should) expect when they marry. > >You asked for detailed descriptions of the sessions I >have with my husband and sons. I'll try to provide >that, to the extent I am comfortable doing so on a >public forum. Please understand that punishment >sessions and maintenance spankings differ. > >Punishment for misbehavior can happen on-the-spot when >the misbehavior occurs, or more likely will be delayed >until a more suitable time and place. The delay has >the added benefit of letting him worry about his >coming punishment. When the time comes, we all >assemble in the family room. The punished boy (my >husband or my son), when I direct, must strip down to >his panties (both of them own only pink female >panties), which I then lower and remove. We will then >review why and how he is to be punished, typically my >me asking him questions regarding what he did wrong, >why it was wrong, how he deserves to be punished, etc. > I then take him across my bare legs and start >spanking his bottom and thighs with my hand, and when >he is crying, I switch to the hairbrush and then the >real punishment begins. Depending on the nature and >severity of the misbehavior, the punishment might >alternatively or additionally include the strap, >mouthsoaping or other punishments. When the >punishment is completed, he kneels before me and is >required to apologize for his misbehavior, again >describing the offense, how he was punished, what he >has learned, and thanks for his punishment. He then >kisses me -- as I said to Nick in another thread, >somewhat north of my knees. Nude cornertime -- >typcially a half hour -- follows, served half the time >facing the corner and half the time facing the room. > >Maintenance spankings are currently weekly affairs for >both my husband and son, typically on different >evenings of the week. (As I have discussed in an >earlier post, my younger son is married and recently >they moved to another city because of their jobs. My >older son still lives at home.) On the appointed day, >the boy (that is, my husband or my son) will shower >and then report to the family room still nude. I >review with him his behavior and attitude during the >past week, including both the good and the bad. We >discuss what improvements I expect in the week to >come, reminding him that failure to make those >improvements will result in punishment. He then goes >over my bare thighs for a spanking. As this is a >maintenance spanking rather than a punishment >spanking, it mostly consisted of a long hand spanking, >though that is followed by a hairbrush spanking, the >severity of which will depend on how good or bad a >week he had. What follows the spanking differs for my >son and my husband. If it is my son, I cuddle and >soothe him as he cries it out, then offer my breast >for him to suckle as I fondle him to release. My >husband and I then adjourn to the bedroom. If it is >my husband, we move directly to the bedroom. > >I hope this answers your questions. If not, you may >ask me here or email me. > >annettemom2b@yahoo

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