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>Hi Debbie, very interesting your thinking about it... >So you are 16 no, but even you didn't get yout >birthday spanking? It's perhaps not to late to ask for >it in the ses of the qustion that Denice asked to you. >The other interesting question without answer is the >feeling if your mum when she has to spank you, like an >olpurtinity now? >Good luck, I loke your personality very much. > >>Hi Denice, >> >>You really gave me a lot to think about. There have >>been one or two rather crude people who have posted >>things saying that the only reason I asked for >>spanking instead of grounding was because I got off on >>it. You were much more delicate in the way you >>phrased things, and I appreciate it. I suppose I need >>to face up to the fact that since I have continued to >>read and post at this site, that I have some interest >>in the subject of spanking, that goes beyond whether >>my own backside is in immediate danger. I first came >>here when I was trying to decide if I should talk to >>my mom about going back to spanking. I was really >>embarrassed, and I didn't feel like I could talk to my >>friends. I was worried what my mom might think of me. >>I knew a place like this was mostly going to be for >>people with a particular kink, but I was hoping I >>might find a couple people who might talk with me >>seriously. As an aside, please don't think that I'm >>kink-shaming! I absolutely think people should be >>left alone to do what they want, as long as everyone >>is a consenting adult. >> >>Not going to lie, some of the things I've seen on here >>have creeped me out, and I truly hope they are only an >>exercise in fantasy. I stop reading anything like >>that, but I will admit that I've read things that >>weren't only related to my own posts, or Laura's. I >>didn't do it for sexual excitement, but I did find >>some of it interesting. It's like a little thrill for >>talking about a taboo subject. >> >>I don't get any sexy feelings when I am spanked by my >>mom. I'm generally preoccupied with guilt for >>disappointing her. Afterwards though, I suppose I do >>feel some satisfaction. I did what I had to do, to >>pay for my mistake. Balance has been restored. I'm >>not sure how I'd feel if anyone else spanked me. If >>it was SUPPOSED to be a fun sexy thing, like with a >>girlfriend, I might be willing to try it, but that's >>probably a couple years down the road, at least. I >>haven't done more than some kissing and cuddling, and >>that's fine. I know some girls my age have done more, >>but I'm not really ready for it right now. (btw, I'm >>actually 16 now. My birthday was in March, not that >>it really matters. ) >> >>I have a hard time even imaging taking a punishment >>spanking from anyone who isn't my mom, let alone >>trying to figure out what kind of feelings that might >>generate. Laura and I have traded imaginary places, >>describing how we might have punished each other for a >>certain situation. That was strangely kind of fun, >>but not super serious, since she isn't an adult with >>real authority over me. >> >>Um, I have a kind of weird idea. Please feel free to >>say no, but would you describe how you would spank >>me, if you had permission? I'm picturing it this way, >> you're a family friend who I've known since I was >>little. My mom has to go out of town for a week, and >>though I don't need a babysitter, she doesn't want me >>alone for that long. So, she asks if you will come >>and stay with me. You've always been more like a >>friendly aunt, and this is the first time you've had >>direct supervision over me. My mom gives you >>authority to discipline me, but nobody thinks you will >>actually need it, until I do get in some kind of >>trouble. That kind of mixes the friend/authority >>figure idea. Let's say that I was an hour late coming >>home, and I didn't call you or answer your calls. >>Laura and I played out that scenario before. >> >>What do you think? >> >>Debbie

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