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Subject: Re: My long streak without a spanking is over

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Debbie To Denice
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Date Posted: 19:50:16 05/01/25 Thu
In reply to: Denice to Debbie 's message, "Re: My long streak without a spanking is over" on 20:10:26 04/30/25 Wed

Hi Denice,

You really gave me a lot to think about. There have been one or two rather crude people who have posted things saying that the only reason I asked for spanking instead of grounding was because I got off on it. You were much more delicate in the way you phrased things, and I appreciate it. I suppose I need to face up to the fact that since I have continued to read and post at this site, that I have some interest in the subject of spanking, that goes beyond whether my own backside is in immediate danger. I first came here when I was trying to decide if I should talk to my mom about going back to spanking. I was really embarrassed, and I didn't feel like I could talk to my friends. I was worried what my mom might think of me. I knew a place like this was mostly going to be for people with a particular kink, but I was hoping I might find a couple people who might talk with me seriously. As an aside, please don't think that I'm kink-shaming! I absolutely think people should be left alone to do what they want, as long as everyone is a consenting adult.

Not going to lie, some of the things I've seen on here have creeped me out, and I truly hope they are only an exercise in fantasy. I stop reading anything like that, but I will admit that I've read things that weren't only related to my own posts, or Laura's. I didn't do it for sexual excitement, but I did find some of it interesting. It's like a little thrill for talking about a taboo subject.

I don't get any sexy feelings when I am spanked by my mom. I'm generally preoccupied with guilt for disappointing her. Afterwards though, I suppose I do feel some satisfaction. I did what I had to do, to pay for my mistake. Balance has been restored. I'm not sure how I'd feel if anyone else spanked me. If it was SUPPOSED to be a fun sexy thing, like with a girlfriend, I might be willing to try it, but that's probably a couple years down the road, at least. I haven't done more than some kissing and cuddling, and that's fine. I know some girls my age have done more, but I'm not really ready for it right now. (btw, I'm actually 16 now. My birthday was in March, not that it really matters. )

I have a hard time even imaging taking a punishment spanking from anyone who isn't my mom, let alone trying to figure out what kind of feelings that might generate. Laura and I have traded imaginary places, describing how we might have punished each other for a certain situation. That was strangely kind of fun, but not super serious, since she isn't an adult with real authority over me.

Um, I have a kind of weird idea. Please feel free to say no, but would you describe how you would spank me, if you had permission? I'm picturing it this way, you're a family friend who I've known since I was little. My mom has to go out of town for a week, and though I don't need a babysitter, she doesn't want me alone for that long. So, she asks if you will come and stay with me. You've always been more like a friendly aunt, and this is the first time you've had direct supervision over me. My mom gives you authority to discipline me, but nobody thinks you will actually need it, until I do get in some kind of trouble. That kind of mixes the friend/authority figure idea. Let's say that I was an hour late coming home, and I didn't call you or answer your calls. Laura and I played out that scenario before.

What do you think?

Debbie

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Re: My long streak without a spanking is over Pat 21:53:08 05/01/25 Thu

Re: My long streak without a spanking is over Denice to Debbie 00:30:14 05/02/25 Fri

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>Hi Denice, > >You really gave me a lot to think about. There have >been one or two rather crude people who have posted >things saying that the only reason I asked for >spanking instead of grounding was because I got off on >it. You were much more delicate in the way you >phrased things, and I appreciate it. I suppose I need >to face up to the fact that since I have continued to >read and post at this site, that I have some interest >in the subject of spanking, that goes beyond whether >my own backside is in immediate danger. I first came >here when I was trying to decide if I should talk to >my mom about going back to spanking. I was really >embarrassed, and I didn't feel like I could talk to my >friends. I was worried what my mom might think of me. >I knew a place like this was mostly going to be for >people with a particular kink, but I was hoping I >might find a couple people who might talk with me >seriously. As an aside, please don't think that I'm >kink-shaming! I absolutely think people should be >left alone to do what they want, as long as everyone >is a consenting adult. > >Not going to lie, some of the things I've seen on here >have creeped me out, and I truly hope they are only an >exercise in fantasy. I stop reading anything like >that, but I will admit that I've read things that >weren't only related to my own posts, or Laura's. I >didn't do it for sexual excitement, but I did find >some of it interesting. It's like a little thrill for >talking about a taboo subject. > >I don't get any sexy feelings when I am spanked by my >mom. I'm generally preoccupied with guilt for >disappointing her. Afterwards though, I suppose I do >feel some satisfaction. I did what I had to do, to >pay for my mistake. Balance has been restored. I'm >not sure how I'd feel if anyone else spanked me. If >it was SUPPOSED to be a fun sexy thing, like with a >girlfriend, I might be willing to try it, but that's >probably a couple years down the road, at least. I >haven't done more than some kissing and cuddling, and >that's fine. I know some girls my age have done more, >but I'm not really ready for it right now. (btw, I'm >actually 16 now. My birthday was in March, not that >it really matters. ) > >I have a hard time even imaging taking a punishment >spanking from anyone who isn't my mom, let alone >trying to figure out what kind of feelings that might >generate. Laura and I have traded imaginary places, >describing how we might have punished each other for a >certain situation. That was strangely kind of fun, >but not super serious, since she isn't an adult with >real authority over me. > >Um, I have a kind of weird idea. Please feel free to >say no, but would you describe how you would spank >me, if you had permission? I'm picturing it this way, > you're a family friend who I've known since I was >little. My mom has to go out of town for a week, and >though I don't need a babysitter, she doesn't want me >alone for that long. So, she asks if you will come >and stay with me. You've always been more like a >friendly aunt, and this is the first time you've had >direct supervision over me. My mom gives you >authority to discipline me, but nobody thinks you will >actually need it, until I do get in some kind of >trouble. That kind of mixes the friend/authority >figure idea. Let's say that I was an hour late coming >home, and I didn't call you or answer your calls. >Laura and I played out that scenario before. > >What do you think? > >Debbie

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