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Subject: Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical

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Denice to Debbie
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Date Posted: 21:01:19 05/24/25 Sat
In reply to: Denice to Debbie 's message, "Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical" on 18:50:57 05/15/25 Thu

Debbie, I am posting this message to keep this thread from disappearing into the archives and give you a chance to comment on that hypothetical spanking of you--if you want to.

And just a question, since I know you actually have given thought to my posts to you before. They hypothetical you posed and that I added to and answered, did not speak to the other aspect of your situation I posed to you before that. I noted that it is my opinion your mother actually enjoys giving you spankings when they arise and you have earned one. You are not sure of that at all--but being more objective than you, I see a hundred things in the way your mother reacts when she spanks you that tell me she either consciously likes to spank you, or unconsciously does--and does not realize that.

In either case, the opportunities to spank you are getting very slim for her by the hour and could disappear completely without any more spankings from her if some serious misconduct by you is needed to trigger one (for you to "earn" one). You are just too well-behaved in general (a good thing) but that means spankings from her get rare indeed. That last one was technically a fluke, not really earned, but she--face it--jumped at the chance to give you another spanking. Sort of supports my point.

From your side of this situation, you have to recognize, I feel, that you have a definite interest in spankings that is not to be ignored. So do I. So does almost everyone (maybe everyone) who comes to a site like this and stays to join in the sensible discussions (like you and Laura, you and me).

I am lucky because I do have kids to spank, who I spank fairly regularly, but never to excess and never under circumstances that they think are unfair or just vindictive. You do not have a passing trivial interest in the subject, Debbie. Yours is real, and it is deeper than, "Wow, I got spanked, here's my (excellent) report on that."

You are only sixteen, you have a mother you love dearly and who also has a deep interest in this subject--otherwise she would have poo pooed your initial request to put spankings back on the discipline table--and she didn't do that! And you are the one who "got your mother to spank you again".

My concern is not in getting a vicarious thrill from you getting spanked again (once every thousand years it looks like now). My concern is that looking at you and your mother, at your unspoken and maybe unrealized feelings (on both your parts), my concern is that some day in the near future, in just three or four years or so, you and she may well regret that this situation did not work out differently so that your mother got to spank you more often, like once a month for example.

Personally, I think that is what you need at this point (not for being "bad", but for emotional and physical satisfaction, even if you are the last to recognize that). You are too nice a girl to want to upset your mother, to act out to earn a spanking. And she, I think, does not realize fully that she really does in her own way like doing that "mother's task" with you. So there is, in my opinion, and unsatisfactory stalemate here--and neither of you are getting what you both really would (at some level, in some way) enjoy and get real satisfaction from.

So, Debbie, putting to the side for the moment your reactions to my answer to your hypothetical (which I would really like to have at some point)--how about that additional concern I have commented to you about. Do you have any further thoughts or conclusions about that--do you in fact need the physical "adjustment" of more spankings at this point, and would your mother benefit very much emotionally from a reasonable chance to give you more spankings--without you having to do some "bad" conduct that neither of you want to see occur?

Got your thinking cap on, Debbie? How about your thoughts on that subject? Denice

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Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical Sasha 20:27:28 05/25/25 Sun

Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical -- Denice to Sasha and Debbie, 13:07:42 05/26/25 Mon

Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical -- Luna, 14:37:08 05/26/25 Mon

Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical -- Denice to Luna, 19:43:52 05/26/25 Mon

Re: Denice Answers Debbie's Hypothetical -- Sasha, 21:16:31 05/26/25 Mon

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>Debbie, I am posting this message to keep this thread >from disappearing into the archives and give you a >chance to comment on that hypothetical spanking of >you--if you want to. > >And just a question, since I know you actually have >given thought to my posts to you before. They >hypothetical you posed and that I added to and >answered, did not speak to the other aspect of your >situation I posed to you before that. I noted that it >is my opinion your mother actually enjoys giving you >spankings when they arise and you have earned one. You >are not sure of that at all--but being more objective >than you, I see a hundred things in the way your >mother reacts when she spanks you that tell me she >either consciously likes to spank you, or >unconsciously does--and does not realize that. > >In either case, the opportunities to spank you are >getting very slim for her by the hour and could >disappear completely without any more spankings from >her if some serious misconduct by you is needed to >trigger one (for you to "earn" one). You are just too >well-behaved in general (a good thing) but that means >spankings from her get rare indeed. That last one was >technically a fluke, not really earned, but she--face >it--jumped at the chance to give you another spanking. >Sort of supports my point. > >From your side of this situation, you have to >recognize, I feel, that you have a definite interest >in spankings that is not to be ignored. So do I. So >does almost everyone (maybe everyone) who comes to a >site like this and stays to join in the sensible >discussions (like you and Laura, you and me). > >I am lucky because I do have kids to spank, who I >spank fairly regularly, but never to excess and never >under circumstances that they think are unfair or just >vindictive. You do not have a passing trivial interest >in the subject, Debbie. Yours is real, and it is >deeper than, "Wow, I got spanked, here's my >(excellent) report on that." > >You are only sixteen, you have a mother you love >dearly and who also has a deep interest in this >subject--otherwise she would have poo pooed your >initial request to put spankings back on the >discipline table--and she didn't do that! And you are >the one who "got your mother to spank you again". > >My concern is not in getting a vicarious thrill from >you getting spanked again (once every thousand years >it looks like now). My concern is that looking at you >and your mother, at your unspoken and maybe unrealized >feelings (on both your parts), my concern is that some >day in the near future, in just three or four years or >so, you and she may well regret that this situation >did not work out differently so that your mother got >to spank you more often, like once a month for >example. > >Personally, I think that is what you need at this >point (not for being "bad", but for emotional and >physical satisfaction, even if you are the last to >recognize that). You are too nice a girl to want to >upset your mother, to act out to earn a spanking. And >she, I think, does not realize fully that she really >does in her own way like doing that "mother's task" >with you. So there is, in my opinion, and >unsatisfactory stalemate here--and neither of you are >getting what you both really would (at some level, in >some way) enjoy and get real satisfaction from. > >So, Debbie, putting to the side for the moment your >reactions to my answer to your hypothetical (which I >would really like to have at some point)--how about >that additional concern I have commented to you about. >Do you have any further thoughts or conclusions about >that--do you in fact need the physical "adjustment" of >more spankings at this point, and would your mother >benefit very much emotionally from a reasonable chance >to give you more spankings--without you having to do >some "bad" conduct that neither of you want to see >occur? > >Got your thinking cap on, Debbie? How about your >thoughts on that subject? Denice

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