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>Angela >That’s fair enough, you won’t have considered this >if it has never occurred to you. >Aged 11 your daughter is certainly not too young for >this type of spanking (I and my sister were well >versed in getting our ‘front bottom’ smacked by >the time we reached that age). I’d also suggest it >may be preferable to ‘slapping her in the mouth’ >(in my opinion). > >Betty > >>Betty, >> >>I’m open to a lot, and especially my husband. No I >>wasn’t spanked like that when I was younger, or >>spanked much at all to be honest. I only really >>started with spanking and discipline a couple years >>ago but it’s helped so much. It’s actually changed >>my life and I’ve embraced it. I really struggled >>with disciplining my kids until I remarried, but that >>specific kind of punishment never popped into my mind. >>My daughter is 11 going on 12. Sometimes she pushes me >>so bad I’ve wanted to slap her in the mouth (I >>haven’t), but what you said that you do just >>hasn’t been something that’s even been a thought >>in my mind. I’m not against it but I’m not sure if >>it right for my situation. I just don’t know. Fun >>somewhat relevant fact is our boys are always trying >>to kick each other in the balls though, which is a fun >>stage. As for my daughter I’ll have to think about >>it. >> >>Angela >> >> >>>Angela >>> >>>Thank you for your good wishes, and your support. >>>I think many of us mothers who do support vulva >>>spanking, do so having grown up getting spanked the >>>same way, so we know first hand how well it works. >>>But I recognise that women who maybe didn’t get >>>spanked this way might be more reticent about using >>>it. >>>But I find it encouraging that you are not closed >>>minded about this, even though you say “…I >don’t >>>see ourselves doing it…” you then add “…at >>>least right now” a possible acknowledgment that you >>>may still be open to using it. >>>Is your reticence based purely on the age of your >>>daughter? (might you be more likely to consider using >>>it once she’s a bit older). >>> >>>Betty >>> >>>>Betty, >>>> >>>>Thanks! I love the mutual support. Yeah, even if I >>>>don’t see ourselves doing it, at least right now, >I >>>>definitely support you doing it. You know your kids >>>>best and what works the best for them. I hope things >>>>keep going well for you! >>>> >>>>Angela >>>> >>>> >>>>>Angela, >>>>>while I support you and your husband in your >>decision >>>>>not to spank your own girls on their vulva’s, I >>>also >>>>>welcome the fact you are willing to support those >>>>>parents who, like me, believe that this type of >>>>>spanking can be very effective >>>>> >>>>>Betty. >>>>>> >>>>>>My husband and I are strong spankers and push >>things >>>>>>pretty far, but we wouldn’t do this. But I >>support >>>>>>parents punishing how they think is best. >>>>>> >>>>>>-Angela

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