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Subject: Re: Safe ways to stay in position

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Angela
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Date Posted: 16:36:04 07/27/25 Sun
In reply to: Dani 's message, "Safe ways to stay in position" on 09:27:34 07/26/25 Sat

We do use restraining. I’m not a single mom (at least anymore) like some of the others here that do use it. But my husband and I do really long spanking sessions sometimes with the kids when they deserve it. We slow it down and drag it out over 2 or 3 hours (sometimes) and restraining them helps a lot. This isn’t super relevant, but outside of spanking I’m into Shibari, which is like fancy ways to tie people with rope. It’s a thing I’ve been into before I had kids as part of my sex life. Like I said, not super relevant but I do use rope to bind them sometimes and it’s not something we always do, but we do pretty often. My husband supports it and likes that we do it too, so it works for us. Not necessarily for safety like you asked in your post, but really just a choice we make.

-Angela

>I'm Dani, 19yo. I get punished by my mom at home and
>since a few years now, mom and I agreed that it was
>better if before every punishment, she secured my arms
>and legs for my own safety and her comfort.
>For my safety because that way I can't try to protect
>myself and get hit on my hands or my feet by accident,
>and her comfort because as I grew up I got stronger
>and it was getting hard for her to hold me down when I
>squirmed and of course, I was too heavy to put me over
>her lap.
>
>This way she can set me in any position she pleases
>and if at first I felt quite distressed and helpless,
>today it helps me endure better my punishments as I
>can't move at all and there is nothing I can do.
>Besides, she always use improvised but very soft items
>so I can stay tied for a very long time without
>damaging my skin with friction.
>
>I also needed to ask if it's common to be restrained
>to maintain position while being punished.
>I've been looking around the forum and I did find some
>stories mentioning restraining but nothing more.
>
>Do you get restrained in some way before your
>punishment or, as a parent, do you use restraining?
>If yes, is it for safety reasons, comfort reasons,
>both or any other particular reason?
>What items and what positions do you use for that?

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>We do use restraining. I’m not a single mom (at >least anymore) like some of the others here that do >use it. But my husband and I do really long spanking >sessions sometimes with the kids when they deserve it. >We slow it down and drag it out over 2 or 3 hours >(sometimes) and restraining them helps a lot. This >isn’t super relevant, but outside of spanking I’m >into Shibari, which is like fancy ways to tie people >with rope. It’s a thing I’ve been into before I >had kids as part of my sex life. Like I said, not >super relevant but I do use rope to bind them >sometimes and it’s not something we always do, but >we do pretty often. My husband supports it and likes >that we do it too, so it works for us. Not necessarily >for safety like you asked in your post, but really >just a choice we make. > >-Angela > > > >>I'm Dani, 19yo. I get punished by my mom at home and >>since a few years now, mom and I agreed that it was >>better if before every punishment, she secured my arms >>and legs for my own safety and her comfort. >>For my safety because that way I can't try to protect >>myself and get hit on my hands or my feet by accident, >>and her comfort because as I grew up I got stronger >>and it was getting hard for her to hold me down when I >>squirmed and of course, I was too heavy to put me over >>her lap. >> >>This way she can set me in any position she pleases >>and if at first I felt quite distressed and helpless, >>today it helps me endure better my punishments as I >>can't move at all and there is nothing I can do. >>Besides, she always use improvised but very soft items >>so I can stay tied for a very long time without >>damaging my skin with friction. >> >>I also needed to ask if it's common to be restrained >>to maintain position while being punished. >>I've been looking around the forum and I did find some >>stories mentioning restraining but nothing more. >> >>Do you get restrained in some way before your >>punishment or, as a parent, do you use restraining? >>If yes, is it for safety reasons, comfort reasons, >>both or any other particular reason? >>What items and what positions do you use for that?

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