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Subject: Re: Summer camp paddling


Author:
Jackie
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Date Posted: 09:46:27 05/15/24 Wed
In reply to: James to jackie 's message, "Re: Summer camp paddling" on 09:29:17 05/15/24 Wed

Hi James,

They are 9 and 12 and he said they were be spanked on the bare bottom. That’s all he said.

>>
>Hi Jackie,
>
>It's great that u called and got your questions asked.
>I'm surprised to that the camp would spank bare bottom
>but also being a church camp from your church that u
>and are attending I don't think he is going to
>actually hurt any of the kids or he wouldn't be camp
>director or I'm sure you're church wouldn't have him
>there. Did he say that your boys would have to take
>down their own shorts and underwear or does he?
>
>I would also talk to some of your boys parents friends
>and get their opinion as well. What do u and husband
>think about doing? How old are your boys??
>
>
>
>Hi James,
>>
>>I decided to call the camp director and introduce
>>myself and ask some questions. He was pleasant but he
>>said if a paddling needed to be given that it would
>>more than likely be to a bare bottom. I’m really
>>surprised about this!
>>
>>>>
>>>Jackie,
>>>
>>>I completely understand and I would think the
>paddling
>>>would be over their underwear if they have to do it.
>>>And also understand your concerns and I would have
>the
>>>same. How old are your boys?
>>>
>>>I spank my boys with a paddle or hairbrush bare
>>bottom.
>>>
>>>Also Jackie the 2-4 swats over underwear doesn't seem
>>>to bad and I'm sure it will hurt but I'm sure your
>>>boys are used to alot more than that when spanked by
>u
>>>or your husband.
>>>
>>>Again I think u and your husband are doing the right
>>>thing and after talking to the camp director can make
>>>your decision what is best for your boys.
>>>
>>>God bless to u and your family
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>Hi James,
>>>>
>>>>If it was to happen I would hope it would be over
>>>>underwear. I spank the kids with a wooden rice stir
>>>>from the kitchen and my husband uses his hand. We
>do
>>>>spank their bare bottoms but again we are the ones
>>>>giving it.
>>>>
>>>>I’ve never given a spanking in our Church but have
>>>>given one after Church when we returned home.
>>>>
>>>>>>
>>>>>Hi Jackie,
>>>>>
>>>>>That makes sense and understandable and is great u
>>>are
>>>>>going to talk to him before making your decision.
>>The
>>>>>paddling is probably over their underwear. How do u
>>>>>guys usually spank your boys? Is any of your
>friends
>>>>>kids going and could u get there opinion? I think u
>>>>>guys are doing the right thing by wanting to talk
>to
>>>>>the camp director before u guys decide and can
>>always
>>>>>drive up to spank them which I'm sure would be
>worse
>>>>>for your boys then getting paddled by the camp
>>>>>director. How often do you have to spank your boys?
>>>>>Have u ever have to spank them during church or
>>>after?
>>>>>God bless to your family and glad to see good
>>>parents.
>>>>>
>>>>>Hi James,
>>>>>>
>>>>>>The camp director is new so I really don’t know
>>>him
>>>>>>and I’m concerned about the paddling especially
>>if
>>>>>>they are made to take down their pants. We do
>plan
>>>>on
>>>>>>speaking with the director when we drop them off
>if
>>>>>>not before.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>Hi Jackie, I have 2 boys myself and they do get
>>>>>>>spanked also. How old are your boys? Do u know
>the
>>>>>>>camp director and is he from your church? Can
>they
>>>>>>>call u if your boys get into trouble and if u
>know
>>>>>the
>>>>>>>camp director u should just have him go through
>>>with
>>>>>>>the paddling but u can talk to your boys before
>>and
>>>>>>>tell them that they will be getting spanked when
>>>>they
>>>>>>>get home since they got into trouble at camp.
>>>>Usually
>>>>>>>that is enough to make them behave. How do I
>>>usually
>>>>>>>spank and how often? I don't think other parents
>>>>will
>>>>>>>go up there to just spank their kids and could be
>>>>>more
>>>>>>>embarrassing to your kids if u were going to do
>>>that
>>>>>>>so I think u should talk to the camp director
>>>before
>>>>>>>deciding and answer any questions or even other
>>>>>>>friends that are letting their kids go and their
>>>>>>>opinions also. I personally would sign the
>consent
>>>>>and
>>>>>>>with want to be contacted and also tell my boys
>>>that
>>>>>>>they would be spanked when they came home also
>>>since
>>>>>>>they misbehaved at camp and no better and no how
>>to
>>>>>>>behave. Just my opinion Jackie .
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>Hi. My name is Jackie and I’m a mom to 2 boys
>>>and
>>>>>a
>>>>>>>>girl, ages 7-12. My boys will be going to a
>>>summer
>>>>>>>>camp next week that is part of our Church.
>>It’s
>>>>>>>>their first time attending the 2 week camp. As
>>>you
>>>>>>>>would think there is paperwork and rules and
>>>>>>>>restrictions to understand. One of the
>documents
>>>>is
>>>>>>a
>>>>>>>>parental consent for paddling to be allowed.
>The
>>>>>>>>document says the number of strikes is at will
>>>>>>>>between 2-4 swats and pants are also at will.
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>We can opt out if we want so we are in thought
>>>>about
>>>>>>>>what to do. We do spank our kids but it is
>us…
>>>>>>>>Thoughts will be much appreciated.

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Re: Summer camp paddlingJames to jackie09:56:05 05/15/24 Wed
Re: Summer camp paddlingfidia11:19:32 05/17/24 Fri


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