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Author: Cath to Kristina |
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Date Posted: 00:00:32 01/21/24 Sun In reply to: Kristina 's message, "Re: New Years Resolutions" on 18:27:53 01/20/24 Sat Dear Kristina, Thank you so much for that warm welcome and your comments and suggestions. I am definitely going to order a Lexan paddle. I have already looked on-line today and I have picked out one that I feel sure will meet our needs and I’m sure it will make an excellent replacement for the wooden hairbrush. I have to say, though, I became very fond of that hairbrush in this last year because it really did do the job so much better with my kids than just using my hand, and my husband also felt it was a very good follow-up after a hand-spanking from him. I’ll keep it in my dresser and maybe still use it now and then, but from what I’ve read and heard, I’ll really love the results with the Lexan. Alas, as to emails or any personal contacts of any kind through the internet, my husband, Tom, has flatly forbidden me to do this. He is a professional man, a corporate executive, and we are only living now in this small rural town because one of the major plants of his corporation is here and he was posted here to run it. While he has been fine with my reading posts about family discipline on-line, he would not have even allowed me to post here to this forum except that he was so impressed with your remarkable note and the fact that you, like us, give your children nightly bedtime spankings. I am allowed to discuss spankings with the pastor, his wife and the very pro-spanking members of the small church that we personally know, but he feels if our discipline practices were ever made public at his home office or anywhere else he would probably be ruined in his corporate position. So emails are a flat no-no, and I'm sorry about that because I would love to get to know you personally. I will try in this post to clarify the actual bedtime spanking routine we are using now, since you wanted to know more about that. In later posts, if you or other on this forum are interested, I will be glad to discuss the frequency and nature of the other spankings our three kids get, but I’ll just tell you more about our bedtime spankings in this post. It used to be that all three kids were “wired up” when bedtime arrived, not wanting to go to bed, begging to watch one more show, or to finish some phone conversation with a friend, or play one more game and so on. In those days, when Tom and I said no and shooed them upstairs anyway, they’d—on the sneak--be on their phones, or on their computers, and sometimes just going back and forth with each other a mile a minute instead of quieting down and getting ready and going to bed. Catching one or more of them reading with a flashlight after lights out, or texting on their phones, or opening and using their laptops was a constant problem. Now when we send them up at bedtime there is an automatic quieting down. They know what is coming very shortly. They promptly wash up and get ready for bed and for their spankings. The very act of all three going into the girls’ bedroom naked to wait for us to come up very shortly has a major quieting effect on all three by itself. The girls are also delegated to be sure Kleenex, washcloths and water is available in quantity at the ends of their beds and making sure those are ready is a vivid reminder that tears and snot are going to be flying from three spanked kids shortly. Tom and I do come upstairs very shortly—within fifteen minutes or so after they were sent upstairs. They are all waiting very subdued in the girls’ bedroom when Tom and I come in bringing the hairbrush and the strap (that’s what we all call the man’s leather belt Tom uses). Since we have been doing this now since last September, they all know they are going to be spanked soundly but they also know it will soon be over, so none of my three are panicked or distraught about this. The girls’ beds are parallel to each other against two facing walls with about eight feet in between them and I sit on one bed and Tom sits on the other with our knees facing each other. Their bedtime spankings are fairly short but they do the job perfectly, and when the spankings are over all three kids only want to dance out the pain and cry themselves to sleep. First, we have a double-header. I hand-spank one of the girls over my knees while Tom spanks the other at the same time and in the same way. On the next night, we switch off. Like I’ll spank Annie one night while Tom spanks Debbie, and then we switch the next night. Both of us make it a point to spank essentially the same duration and severity, adjusted for the ages of the girls. Still, it usually works out that we finish spanking the girls at close to the same time but Annie does get spanked harder and a little longer than Debbie. When the bottoms and thighs of both girls are bright red and both girls are crying nicely, we let them up to cry that out and my husband then puts Jimmy over his lap and gives him the same kind of hand spanking the girls got. I quickly have two crying girls beside me, one on each hip, hugging me and getting kisses and comfort from me while they steadily quiet down and while they watch their father spanking their brother until he is crying just like they were at the finish of their turns. At that point, Jimmy is allowed to dance out that spanking while Tom and I get up and he gets the strap ready and he tells the girls which one will get her strapping first on this night. The strappings on these nightly bedtime spankings are very limited. They are literally just intended as a painful topper to the hand spankings, and their purpose is to be sure each girl feels she has been very soundly spanked when we are through. The belt does that nicely. Annie only gets eight whacks and Debbie only gets six, but they are short, sharp whacks—but moderate smacks and not full swings of the belt by any means. However, each whack makes each girl yelp very loudly, each leaves a rosy red stripe the width of the belt, and just those few whacks brings a lot of bouncing up and down and a flood of tears from each girl, which is the purpose of using that belt—it really makes the girls go to bed with exactly the feeling that we want them to have, “Oh, boy, I got a really good spanking tonight.” For the strappings, I get up on Annie's bed and each girl takes her turn and sits at the foot of Annie’s bed where a pillow has been placed to raise her bottom well up, and then she lies down on her back with her head in my lap and raises her legs straight up so she is in the diaper position. I then take her hands and guide them to where she takes hold of her knees and we spread her legs into a “Y” so her bottom and thighs are open for the strap. I then keep my hands over the girl’s hands so that we are both keeping her legs pretty steady in that position. (The do bounce their bottoms up wildly and rotate them in the air above the pillow with each whack.) In Annie’s case, Tom gives her four sharp cracks of the belt, each of which lands across both bottom cheeks, and then he gives her two cracks of the belt at the top of each thigh just below her sit-spots, and that is her eight for her nightly bedtime strapping. Debbie gets four cracks that land across both bottom cheeks and one crack of the belt at the top of each thigh. After both girls have had their strapping and have gotten up gyrating their hips and bottoms, and still crying lustily, Tom sits down again and puts Jimmy over his lap and gives him a quick but very stinging turn with the hairbrush. So we then have for a brief few minutes the two girls still sobbing and quieting down and Jimmy up and still dancing and sobbing hard and jumping about impressively and all of them fanning their bottoms with both hands. Then we all kneel down as a group on the carpet between the two beds and Tom always has a short passage ready from the Bible or from one of his many religious books to read to us all, and then the three kids, sniffing and sobbing, recite their short bedtime prayer together, which includes thanks for the loving discipline their parents give them, which reminds them again of why they are spanked this way. I then put an arm around Jimmy, usually while I am still wiping his face and neck with a damp cloth, and I take him across the hall to his bedroom where I put him face down on his bed and I hug and pet and comfort him and tell him how well and bravely he took his spanking, and he always responds to that very positively, giving me back kisses and hugs. At the same time, Tom is with the girls and he sits back on one of the beds with his arms full of two crying girls, petting and hugging them as they cry out the last of their spankings, and he then gets them into their separate beds with lots of strokes and again, he always tells them how proud we are of how well they take their discipline. In fifteen or twenty minutes all three kids are asleep or falling asleep on their tummies, and in twenty minutes Tom and I are climbing into our own bed, both of us already smothered in the hugs and kisses we’ve just been receiving from our kids, and both of us smiling and so very satisfied and pleased with the way spanking our kids that way has been working out. It is a wonderful way for us to end our day, by the way, and so much more rewarding than when we used to sit glassy-eyed in the living room watching two to three hours of mostly manufactured stupidity. I have to admit honestly that those discipline sessions, in addition to being so needed by our kids, often—even usually—leave Tom and I with feelings of excited satisfaction that has been wonderful for our own loving relationship. The kids now sleep like a log until the alarm goes off and they wake up genuinely refreshed, and all of them are reacting really well to this new routine. I put this note in my diary a couple of weeks ago about something Annie said. These are as close as I could remember Annie’s actual words to Tom and I when she climbed into bed beside us one Saturday morning recently, still half asleep herself, and Tom was stroking her head and she was almost purring and he asked her how her bottom felt after her spanking and strapping the night before. She sighed and said, “My bottom is very tender and sore, Daddy, and my thighs feel like I sat on a stove, so you could say I’m still really hot. But, honestly, Daddy, I really feel great this morning. I don’t know why but those spankings make me feel like, I don’t know, like a new person. Like I’m all renewed and “cleansed” or something. Anyway, I feel really good this morning and I’m starved!” Hope this gives you a clearer picture of how we are handling our bedtime spankings of our three kids. I think your suggestion that once we have the Lexan paddle, it might be a good idea to just skip the hand paddling once in a while when we spank one or all of the kids, and instead give the child a nice, long, slow paddling with the Lexan--that sounds to me like it could be very nice change of pace and still do the spanking job very well. Anyway, Kristina, I would really love to hear a lot more details of how you are handling the bedtime spankings of your boy and girl, and their other spankings, too. Do you still give them a maintenance spanking every week along with their nighttime spankings? You really do make excellent suggestions and I think it is wonderful how you are handling the discipline of your two. Lots and lots of love, Cath [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] |
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