Re: New Years Resolutions -- Christian Family Discipline

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Subject: Re: New Years Resolutions

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Rebekka

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Date Posted: 06:51:24 02/11/24 Sun
In reply to: Kristina 's message, "New Years Resolutions" on 06:51:43 01/20/24 Sat

>Soo, how was everyones Christmas, were the children
>able to stay on or get back on Santa's nice list ? :)
>
>Hope you all had a good new year. SO hubby and I had
>discussed it, making some big changes this year, and
>it has been about 3 weeks now since implementing them.
>
>On Christmas, Santa brought each of the children their
>very own paddle, don't worry for their age, they are
>small thin lexan paddles that can easily be used over
>knee or in diaper position.
>
>So, after a VERY sound hand spanking when a punishment
>is needed, there are 10-15 paddle spanks as well
>before sitting in the corner. we hug and talk and
>comfort after corner time has finished and pray
>together of course.
>
>I will be keeping a wooden spoon in my purse, for
>occasions such as discussions needed at church, which
>is fairly common, we feel its important to instill
>certain behavior and manners in God's house.
>
>We also have decided to use nightly bedtime spankings,
>to allow a special bonding time to end the day, let
>the children release any stress of the day and sleep
>soundly, with a clean slate. It has made the bedtime
>routine alot smoother , I will say that much, and I
>feel so much more motherly and close to them.
>
>We also are trying to cut out giving warnings, as they
>know well enough to listen when we speak to them first
>time.
>
>Other changes include alot more bible reading as a
>family, we have a picnic or special meal together
>every sunday after church, inviting a few other church
>families, that has been wonderful.
>
>We have now put reward charts on the fridge, one for
>each child, with cute cartoon stickers. Good behavior
>or a good job with manners or chores, will allow them
>to put a sticker on the chart.
>
>10 stickers mean a small inexpensive treat or toy as a
>reward, they seem more confident and such now which is
>so great to see.
>
>I am now praising for even small things, making it an
>exciting accomplishment. they love that.
>
>If anyone would like to learn more, feel free to email
>me ( i love receiving emails from other families) or
>message on here or both lol
>
>But i would love to hear if anyone else has any
>changes or resolutions in their homes this new year?
>
>God bless you all

this time one of my daughters (13) and two of my nieces (15, 12) manged to get into enough trouble to earn a spanking on christmas day.

we got lucky this year and had some fresh snow for christmas so all the kids went outside to outside to play after the family had the traditional christmas lunch. 30 minutes later my youngest son (8) came back inside shivering and crying. apparently he somehow managed to annoy the three knuckleheads, so they ended up pulling down his pants and underpants, stuffing them full of snow and the pulling them back up. i don't mind the children roughhousing a bit, but that was clearly mean spirited and went way to far. so while i put my son in a hot bath to warm him up, my husband and my brother in law went to fetch his cousins. it took them almost an hour to find them, they were hiding because they had realized quickly that they were in a lot of trouble. back home we made them strip down to there underwear first and stand in the corner for a while. then they each went over their dads lap, got their underpants removed and received a 5 minute hand spanking as a warm up, followed by 8 hard paddle strokes by each my sister and me, 16 in total. by then end they were all bawling like two year olds and very apologetic. they apologized to my son and then we made them do lines until it was time for dinner. after dinner they were send straight to bed.

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