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Subject: I hope it's OK for me to be here

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Jessika

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Date Posted: 02:12:37 10/26/23 Thu

Hello, I'm not a parent. I'm 20 years-old but am still spanked by my dad. Unfortunately, people tend to be VERY judgemental about that in other forums so I'm just making sure that's not the case here.

I have struggled with autism and ADHD my whole life, so even though I'm an adult, it's really hard for me to function like one. We've tried medication and therapy. Spanking was really a last resort but it's been proven to be very helpful for me, so now it's regularly used.

I used to think that my dad was just being really mean to me by spanking me but now I've come to understand that it's actually been very beneficial for me. It's not that the pain itself is what helps. Having structure in my life is what actually helps, but the spanking is just to make sure I stick to that structure.

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