How my dad spanks me -- Christian Family Discipline

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Subject: How my dad spanks me

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Jessika

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Date Posted: 19:02:17 11/05/23 Sun

All of my spankings start with my dad giving me the command to "strip", which means I have to take absolutely everything off. Hesitation and stalling aren't allowed. I can go from fully dressed to completely naked in 10 seconds because of how much practice I get. Modesty isn't allowed when I'm being spanked. There are reasons for this that I may get into another time.

Once I am naked, my dad will tell me why I'm about to be spanked, although I usually already know. At this time, I can ask to discuss the reason, and he will hear me out and explain further if needed, but once he says the decision is final, I am not allowed to say another word on the matter. I usually don't bother asking to discuss because I usually already know exactly what I did wrong.

The spankings are almost always done in my bedroom and there are three types of spanking my dad uses.

The first is a "reminder" spanking. That's what he calls it. It sounds somewhat similar to what I've seen others refer to as "maintenance" spankings.

A lot of parents will simply verbally correct their kids. It's the same basic concept here, except the verbal warning is accompanied by a spanking. It sounds harsh, but the important thing I really want to emphasize here is that reminder spankings are NOT punishments. At most, I feel a mild sting and my butt turns pink.

My dad just uses his hands for these reminder spankings. And yes, I did use the plural word "hands". The position he has me in is pretty unusual. I'm on all fours on my bed with my head and chest lowered down onto the bed so that my butt is sticking up. It's kind of similar to the "Melting Heart" yoga position. I've also heard it compared to the knee-chest position in medical exams.

My dad pulls up a chair directly behind me and sits down. I guess the original intent of this position was to be embarrassing, but I'm so used to it by now that it doesn't bother me at all. As for the actual spanking, my dad will alternate using his hands to do overhead slaps on my butt, kind of like playing bongo drums. Afterwards, he will rub my butt for a bit.

The second type of spanking is what he calls a "discipline" spanking. This is used for behaviors that I definitely know better about but aren't related to deliberate disobedience or lying. ADHD-related stuff like laziness, procrastination, forgetting to do stuff, etc. are what I usually get discipline spankings for. These are meant to hurt for the purpose of helping keep me on track.

He uses a leather strap with a handle for this. It hangs on my wall, and I have to hand it to him. I'm in the same position as before but he is standing up instead of sitting so he can swing the strap down with some force. He will sometimes rub some baby oil on my butt before he begins the spanking so that it stings more. Afterwards, rubs my butt for a while to comfort me.

The third type of spanking is a "punishment" spanking. This is for things such as lying, deliberate disobedience, and being uncooperative during a spanking. The purpose of a punishment spanking is to overwhelm me with enough pain to make me really regret my actions.

He uses a big wooden school style paddle for this. It's also hanging on my wall, and I have to hand it to him. I'm in a different position for this. I have to stand in front of my bed and bend over.

I'm not really bending over my bed in the sense that my body is resting on the bed. Instead, it's really my head and shoulders that are on the bed and the rest of my body is off because my dad requires me to keep my butt sticking out the entire time, and it takes some effort to do that. The bed is mostly there so the paddle doesn't knock me over.

Now this is where I should be very careful with how I explain this so no parents get the wrong idea. This kind of paddle is very severe. It's meant to be used over clothing so you can imagine what it's like bare. And if the person on the receiving end moves around while it's in mid-swing, that could be very dangerous.

I'm 20 years-old, meaning I'm an adult who could face adult consequences for my actions in the "real world" such as prison, job loss, etc. So the punishment spankings I get are age appropriate.

I am also used to taking hard spankings and I have the sort of toughness you would expect from someone with my experience being spanked. More importantly, my dad has enough experience spanking me that he knows what my butt can safely handle. Basically, what I'm getting at is don't just start using a paddle like this on your own kids and just assume that it will be fine.

After a punishment spanking, there is unfortunately no butt rubbing just yet. Instead, my dad has me immediately sit down on a hard wooden chair for anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes.

I'm not allowed to squirm while I'm on the chair. I have to keep my butt planted firmly in the chair. If he catches me squirming, he will give me a warning. If I keep doing it, he will have me stand up and bend over again for more paddling followed by my time in the chair being reset. This has only ever happened one time, and that was enough to prove just how serious he is. After my time in the chair is done, he will rub my butt.

After I'm spanked, my dad will hug me. I will also thank him for spanking me. I'm not required to do this, but I don't want him to feel bad about spanking me as a result of my bad decisions, so I think it's important to let him know that I appreciate what he is doing to help me grow as a person.

I am then allowed to put my clothes back on.

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