Re: New to Maintenance Spanking -- Christian Family Discipline

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Subject: Re: New to Maintenance Spanking

Author:
Emily

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Date Posted: 19:45:41 11/05/23 Sun
In reply to: Heather 's message, "New to Maintenance Spanking" on 18:55:09 08/23/23 Wed

>My husband and I are thinking about starting
>maintenance spankings for our three boys who are 5, 8
>and 10. I posted on another board asking about it but
>didn’t give much context. I read some of the posts
>here and it seems like a lot do it. I would love to
>know your thoughts about my situation.
>
>Two Saturdays ago my 10 YO son had a full day soccer
>tournament. Afterwards the boys were just getting on
>my nerves. But they didn’t break any specific rules
>or anything. When we got home my husband immediately
>left to pick up some pizzas as we were going to do a
>family movie night. I sent my 10 year old to take a
>shower. While he was showering I decided to spank the
>5 and 8 year olds. It was the first time I had ever
>spanked them without them breaking a specific rule
>like lying or disobeying. I explained to them that
>they didn’t break any rules but it had been about 2
>weeks since any discipline and I thought it would be
>beneficial. When my 10 year old was out of the shower
>he came downstairs in his pajamas unaware that he was
>about to be spanked too. I explained the same thing to
>him and administered one to him. My husband returned
>home shortly after with the pizzas and we watched a
>movie and ate. The boys bottoms were hot and sore but
>they were extremely well behaved and docile. My 10 YO
>even fell asleep halfway through the movie (I guess
>playing soccer then being spanked will take the energy
>out of anyone!). The next morning at church they were
>still very good.
>
>The following Saturday night we went to a MLB baseball
>game. A couple of hours before leaving I thought about
>spanking them again. But they didn’t do anything.
>After some thought and prayers I decided to do it
>again. I explained that I wanted them on their best
>behavior and I don’t always need a reason. Our 5 YO
>was exempt because he wasn’t going to the game (he
>could care less and would have been bored) so while my
>husband drove him to my parents house for the night I
>spanked the 8 & 10 YOs. While at the game they were
>very well behaved. My 10 YO even asked if he should
>hold our hands so he wouldn’t get lost, something we
>like him to do while in public but as a 10 YO he’s
>starting to not like (it’s been a struggle with him
>to hold our hand in crowded places). Anyway we loved
>the results we were seeing, and I loved knowing they
>both had red little bottoms under their shorts (very
>cute!).
>
>So that sent me searching the web and I found
>maintenance spankings and these forums. My husband and
>I are thinking of doing it every Saturday night.
>Saturday nights are family night so they will
>hopefully associate it with family and love. We are
>thinking of rev
iewing rules, recent behavior, Bible
>verses, etc. during this time.

The children are not resentful of being spanked each week no matter what?

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