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Subject: Re: Feelings about spanking


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Cole
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Date Posted: 20:20:54 09/02/24 Mon
In reply to: Allen 's message, "Feelings about spanking" on 09:44:32 08/21/24 Wed

I would say that I also have mixed feelings. My Mother was a single parent and I feel that she did the best that she could overall in the context of the time that I was raised.

I believe that there are a handful of times throughout the course of a typical childhood where a line is really crossed and a more severe consequence becomes necessary. I think that the times when my Mom chose to enforce this were generally appropriate and kept me out of more trouble growing up.

If anything, I would say that she was a little lenient at times and I probably could have been punished more than I was looking back at it.

That being said, I remember a lot of feelings of embarrassment and fear around the spankings that I got that weren't overly helpful to me in the long run. I think that getting grounded or something instead could have had a similar effect in deterring bad behavior without leading to some of the negative reactions that I felt.

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