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>I have posited that there are five levels: >1- the warning swats over clothes >2- quick series of traveling spanks to get you down >the hall or up the stairs to your bedroom, when you >might have resisted bedtime >3- “movie type” spankings like the hero gave the >heroine in film, over the knee and over clothes >4- a “good sound spanking” or a “good old >fashioned spanking,” over the knee with hand or >hairbrush on the bare >5- the “spanking of your life,” like #4, only >longer and harder, the worst you ever got or gave >Others thoughts? > >>My mom had two levels of spankings. >> >>The first, and by far the most common, is the >>“attention getter” type that has already been >>mentioned in this thread. She would use her left am to >>grab me by the arm and use her right hand to give me >>one or two smacks to the seat of my pants. This type >>rarely hurt, if ever. There was no word for this. >> >>The second level was called a spanking or a butt >>beating. She kept the terminology “age >>appropriate.” She would say “I’m going to spank >>your bottom” when I was little and “I’m gonna >>beat your butt” when I was older. This level >>included scolding, a spanking on the bare bottom over >>the knee, and an after spanking discussion once I had >>calmed down. I have no idea how many smacks I received >>but I am going to guess it was roughly twice my age. >> >>There was a third level I never experienced. One night >>I was misbehaving and she got down on my level, looked >>me right in the eyes, and said “do I need to go get >>daddy’s belt?” I assured her she did not have to >>and straightened up. >> >>My dad had three levels of spankings. >> >>The first level was nearly identical to mom’s second >>level, except he did not lecture and there was no >>after spanking discussion. >> >>The second level was a belt spanking over pants. Once >>he started using his belt, it completely replaced the >>first level. Instead of going over the knee I was bent >>over my bed. >> >>The third level was a bare bottom spanking with the >>belt. I only remember this happening twice. >> >>I did get one belt whipping from him that I might as >>well put at its own level. I don’t remember what I >>did to deserve it and have no memory of the spanking >>itself. Perhaps I have subconsciously blocked it. What >>I do know is that my butt was bruised, as was my wrist >>from where he held it to keep me from blocking the >>belt. That bruise on my wrist was noticed at school >>the next day and I was sent to the school nurse, who >>eventually had my parents come and pick me up from >>school. I am unsure if CPS got involved. If they did, >>it was kept a secret from me. Either way, my dad never >>spanked me after that incident. I am not sure if he >>was horrified by what he did or my mom told him he >>wasn’t allowed to spank me anymore, probably a >>combination of both. I have long since forgiven him >>for this as otherwise I could not ask for a better >>dad. >> >>I don’t think my dad called his spankings anything. >>He didn’t threaten and he didn’t lecture, he just >>acted.

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