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>I have one like this that I clearly remember getting >from my Dad. I had done something to upset the apple >cart - I have no idea what - while my Mom's friend was >over for a rare visit. My memory starts with me at >the doorway to my Dad's office, him giving me some >kind of brief lecture about my behavior and maybe >asking me a question along the lines of "You know >better than that, right?", and then him waving me over >with his hand to his chair where he was sitting. I >either got over his lap or he put me over his lap, and >then I got a <i>very</i> low-energy spanking. I would >guess it was somewhere between 6 to 12 smacks, and >none hard. I was pretty much always spanked over >pants, and this was no different. > >This was nevertheless a memorable spanking for a >couple of reasons. For one, it's the only time I can >remember my Dad spanking me without seeming to really >be all that mad, more like it was just something he >felt like he needed to do to make a point. Whatever I >had done, it had not been something that had annoyed >him directly, from what I can recall - my vague memory >was somehow that I was sent to see him - and so I am >sure that was part of why this was SO much lower >intensity than when my Dad would spank in a fit of a >bout of temper, which was the norm if he was spanking >me. > >The other thing is that this particular spanking is >the only one where I can clearly remember the feeling >and the pattern of being spanked on one cheek and then >the other, alternating back and forth. In my adult >life, I associate alternating back and forth from one >cheek to the other as a hallmark of bare bottom >spanking (where the bareness of the bottom emphasizes >that it is not one holistic thing covered by pants but >two cheeks divided by the cleft), but I was spanked >bare bottom once as a kid, and I don't remember it >being alternating-cheek style, and this one I do >remember being that way, though it was clothed. > >What it really signifies, I suppose, is something that >was about as rare as my spankings being bare: my >spankings being calm and deliberate. Most of them >were Mom and Dad losing their cool and wanting, >basically, to beat my butt. But this is the one that >stands out in my mind as calm and deliberate in its >delivery. And so, even though it didn't hurt AT ALL >basically, it left a lifelong impression!

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