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>While there were a very few notable exceptions where >my mom gave spankings, my dad was by far the primary >spanker. > >When a spanking was earned, due to directly seeing or >discovering a bad behavior, I was told so, and sent to >my bedroom. Fortunately my parents belived in >spanking in private (though when one of us kids was >getting it, a closed bedroom door did nothing to >muffle the loud sounds to follow). Usually the wait in >the bedroom was ten to twenty minutes. Thinking back >though, it was important for the whole disciplinary >process because at the same time I worried about the >spanking, I also had hindsight about the behavior that >got me to that stage. I knew I had to just make a >better decision and maybe could have avoided the >spanking. > >When my dad came to my room, he'd pull up a chair, sit >facing me and give me a lecture. It was maybe a few >minutes, but he always made sure I was told EXACTLY >why I would get a spanking, and explained that it was >my own actions that got me to this point. That further >reinforced that with better choices (and self >discipline) I could avoid future spankings. > >Once the lecture ended, I was told either "bend over >young man" or, worse, "pull down your pants and bend >over." > >The way my dad spanked was also pretty consistent. It >usually started with some slow, hard, attention >getting spanks. Once I was bawling and begging for it >to stop, he'd take a good hold and finish up with a >rapid spanking. The finish wasn't a lot, maybe >fifteen to twenty spanks and at most, and probably >just as many seconds to finish. But if it was a >really bad spanking (especially if it was on my bare >butt and with his paddle), the sting was completely >unbearable, though over quickly. > >To me, the brief waiting, thinking, and lecture all >helped me realize what I did, and the spanking just >burned a good memory into my head, by way of my butt.

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