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>>While there were a very few notable exceptions where >>my mom gave spankings, my dad was by far the primary >>spanker. >> >>When a spanking was earned, due to directly seeing or >>discovering a bad behavior, I was told so, and sent to >>my bedroom. Fortunately my parents belived in >>spanking in private (though when one of us kids was >>getting it, a closed bedroom door did nothing to >>muffle the loud sounds to follow). Usually the wait in >>the bedroom was ten to twenty minutes. Thinking back >>though, it was important for the whole disciplinary >>process because at the same time I worried about the >>spanking, I also had hindsight about the behavior that >>got me to that stage. I knew I had to just make a >>better decision and maybe could have avoided the >>spanking. >> >>When my dad came to my room, he'd pull up a chair, sit >>facing me and give me a lecture. It was maybe a few >>minutes, but he always made sure I was told EXACTLY >>why I would get a spanking, and explained that it was >>my own actions that got me to this point. That further >>reinforced that with better choices (and self >>discipline) I could avoid future spankings. >> >>Once the lecture ended, I was told either "bend over >>young man" or, worse, "pull down your pants and bend >>over." >> >>The way my dad spanked was also pretty consistent. It >>usually started with some slow, hard, attention >>getting spanks. Once I was bawling and begging for it >>to stop, he'd take a good hold and finish up with a >>rapid spanking. The finish wasn't a lot, maybe >>fifteen to twenty spanks and at most, and probably >>just as many seconds to finish. But if it was a >>really bad spanking (especially if it was on my bare >>butt and with his paddle), the sting was completely >>unbearable, though over quickly. >> >>To me, the brief waiting, thinking, and lecture all >>helped me realize what I did, and the spanking just >>burned a good memory into my head, by way of my butt. > >My mother was the only spanker when I was growing up - >and thank goodness because she was all my bare butt >could've taken. Mother had a temper and when I >misbehaved (which was often) she would grab me, bare >my bottom and go right to spanking. It would be either >standing or quick over her knee, hand or any implement >that was handy (spatula, spoon, switch). The spankings >were hard and fast. If she did take time before >punisihing me she would send me to my room, order to >me to bare myself from the waste down and lie face >down on the bed. Then she would come in and give me a >dose of the strap. That's as close to a "routine" as >she ever came.

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