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> >Randovan, Very well described! I also would burst >into tears whenever I was about to be bare bottom >spanked in front of girls, especially younger girls. >I have an older and younger sister which was bad >enough but mom didn’t hesitate to take my underpants >down in front of my sisters’ friends! > Like you said the utter shame of being reduced to a >bawling kicking boy was horrible but the real >humiliation was doing a spanking dance with girls >watching me hopping and howling, rubbing my burning >red buns totally exposed in front. > I’d shudder in shame for hours or days just >thinking about those dances. > >What girls did you see spanked? No babysitter spanked >me but being spanked in front of them when my parents >got home was always mortifying. > > >>Dear Curious, >> >>>Was embarrassment a factor at being exposed and >>>spanked by friends parents or other adults, >especially >>>if there were others watching? >> >>This is a more complex question than it might seem. >>I'll try to give a proper answer, but it will take >>some time. >> >>There are two distinct things that I got embarrassed >>about here: The spanking itself and the nudity. >> >>THE SPANKING >> >>The mere fact that I had misbehaved so badly that a >>non-parental adult decided they needed to spank me was >>an embarrassment in and of itself. I was neither >>Dennis the Menace nor Tom Sawyer. I wanted to be a >>good boy and the fact that I had messed up was itself >>an embarrassment - lots more so then when my mom >>spanked me. >> >>Getting spanked was what happened to little kids and >>being treated like a baby was embarrassing, especially >>when I was a teenager. >> >>The worst embarrassment, however, was that I always >>cried. We all did - it <i>hurt!</i> Having somebody >>watching you rubbing your bare bottom and screaming >>like an infant was flat out humiliating! >> >>THE NUDITY >> >>Aside from the spanking was the fact that you were >>bare from the waist down and others could see >>everything. I had no problem with being naked in >>front of other boys. We saw each other naked lots of >>times, taking baths together at sleepovers (to save $ >>on water and energy, or so our parents said), and we >>had no reservations at all going skinny dipping if the >>opportunity presented itself. Spankings were simply >>another nudity venue. Adults were aliens from another >>planet. I never thought of mothers (my own or a >>friend's) as girls or ladies, but as rickety old >>furniture that you had to avoid sitting on if you >>could. If an adult saw me naked and didn't have a >>problem with that, then neither did I. Walking past a >>mother naked was like walking past the living room >>sofa naked - who cared? >> >>Girls (females less than 21) were another matter >>altogether. Having a girl see me naked was as >>embarrassing as the spanking itself, unless, of >>course, she was also going to get spanked, and I got >>to see her naked, too. That mutual viewing somehow >>made it a lot less embarrassing. Otherwise I'd >>sometimes start crying out of sheer humiliation when I >>was told to drop my underpants in front of a friend's >>sister, especially if she had some of her friends over >>at the time. That crying before the spanking started >>only made the humiliation all the worse. Getting >>spanked at a friend's house was always more likely to >>result in a girl witnessing my spanking because my >>friends had sisters, so there was that to worry about >>when getting a spanking from someone else's parent. >> >>Worst of all were the teenage girl babysitters. >>Babysitters were always given explicit permission to >>spank me if necessary and mom always made sure I heard >>them being given said permission and saw them being >>given the paddle to use. Spankings were always given >>on the bare bottom, so that went with the territory. >>Having a girl not that much older than myself pulling >>down my underpants and seeing everything was killing >>embarrassing. Occasionally I had a boy babysitter. >>That wasn't so bad. A few times I deliberately goaded >>a boy babysitter into spanking me so I could show off >>how tough I was. That usually backfired when they >>showed me how strong they were by wielding the paddle >>harder than my parents, leaving me with a red bottom >>in the morning after a miserable night. That made me >>cry bad, of course, which ruined the macho routine all >>to hell. They sometimes realized what I had tried to >>do and failed so miserably and took pity on me, >>letting me sleep on my stomach with no pants on. >> >>The saving grace here was that my parents didn't spank >>me, too, if a babysitter did it first. Especially if >>they saw how red my butt still was the next morning. >>The whole babysitter threat ended when I turned 13 and >>was allowed to stay home alone unsupervised. >> >>So that was the situation with getting spanked by >>non-parents. >>> >>>Also what was the oldest age that you were spanked >>>bare by non-parents? >> >>My last such spanking was at 16 for going on a joy >>ride with a friend in his father's Corvette [Chevrolet >>muscle sports car], which was, as you can imagine, >>about as no-no as it gets. His father took the strap >>to our bare butts - a couple dozen strokes that left >>my butt black and blue for days. One of the worst >>spankings ever - from anybody. >> >>Hope that answers your questions. >> >>-Radovan

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