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Subject: Re: who else developed a very strong attachement to their punisher


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Wizzardofozz
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Date Posted: 07:33:17 03/29/26 Sun
In reply to: Rob 's message, "Re: who else developed a very strong attachement to their punisher" on 09:32:37 03/25/26 Wed

>How old were you at the time and did your parents know
>that this woman spanked you or was it kept a secret
>between you?




Starting school and onward.
I do not know it was never something I ever spoke to them about even as a grown up. Or they did know and I was unaware.
It wasn't so much a secret as it was something kept to myself.

One must understand that it really is about personality types. Not claiming to understand the deeper psychology of it all I can say that I understand that this type of correction effects people differently. We can choose to blame and accuse OR we can accept and grow. This is why we find so many today that cry abuse instead of taking responsibility for what they caused to happen to them. It was calmly understood there will be no feeling sorry for yourself. We expect more of you, and you are better than this.

Study personality types and you soon get the understanding that many adults wish they had been corrected as children, while most others cry about their poor treatment. All because of how they perceive their past experiences. Many times because of how their opinions changed upon their research. Simply put, a lot of money and energy have been put into changing peoples minds of corporal punishment. The entire movement is huge and misunderstood. But...now that many are awake...they see who is behind this movement all along and what their plan really was.

Do you see it now? The money,funding funneled into programs on every level to undermine the very foundations of our society? Our nation. Complain all you want we did have the best nation and society in the world. It is why we look back at our childhoods with such nostalgia. In in those times we were being tanned! I was of such a personality that this type of punishment was like a key fitting into a lock. Did I know this in the beginning? No. And it was a difficult and humiliating introduction if not initiation into a system I had no idea existed. After a number of sessions I began to understand what she was trying to teach into me.

This is the difference between being beaten and being spanked when it is exactly the same process and ritual. Some see it as abuse and others than their adult guides. I know authority figure sounds heavy from above but it is not meant to be, Once you understand how spanking actually works.

50 steady slaps with a palm applied to the bottom can be viewed as beaten or viewed as spanked. Its all in your head how you see things. Some choose to be thankful. They look around today and shake their head at what they see. And are glad that they are not like that because they were repaired early.

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