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Subject: Re: Step dad wants to start spanking me


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Date Posted: 08:28:14 04/03/26 Fri
In reply to: Rob 's message, "Re: Step dad wants to start spanking me" on 06:44:08 04/03/26 Fri

>I understand your situation.
>So what you can do, since your mom agreed that he can
>spank you, you can ask her to tell him that at least
>he should not spank you too harshly.
>
Tim, I understand that you are afraid of the spanking you will receive from your step-dad, but, from everything you have been saying here, it is obvious that you need it. It is also obvious that the punishments you have been receiving lately from your mother are not effective at convincing you to abandon your rebellious streak and obey your parents, both your mother AND STEP-FATHER.Has your mother actually spanked you recently, or have you become too much for her to handle ? At any rate, she has decided that you need the kind of spanking a boy can only get at the hands of a stronger, grown man. She is your mother, and knows your situation better than any of us here online.

I advise you to accept what is about to happen as what it is, an act of love to steer your behavior into better directions. Yes, it will probably hurt A LOT, A lot more than anything your mother can dish out to you any more. A good spanking should hurt so much that the spankee stops thinking about anything at all except the awful, burning pain in their backside, and surrenders all control to the person spanking them. The pain of a proper spanking SHOULD be unbearable. That's the whole point. Afterward the spankee will think twice before repeating the actions that led to the spanking. Stop worrying about it, and accept it. You are not the first boy who has received a thorough "wearing out," to the point where they are screeching like a scalded cat, gasping for breath, and gagging on their own snot and tears. It happened to me many times growing up, and I realize the good it did me, in a number of ways. First, it curbed my bad behavior. Second, it actually was a good work out; for the spankee a thorough spanking burns about as many calories as running a mile, and leaves one completely exhausted. Third, and this may seem strange, but if you just accept that your step-dad is doing this because he loves you, and submit completely to him, you may well find you develop a much closer, more affectionate relationship with him. I spanked all my four boys the way I was spanked growing up, often and thoroughly, and they all have grown into fine men who have never gotten into any legal troubles, and have good jobs where they can support themselves and their families. Stop worrying so much about it. Just accept it for what it is, and that your mother and step-dad love you and will give you the discipline you need to steer you into the proper ways, whether you like it now or not. Some day you will be glad they did.

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