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>>I was hoping more people would jump in on this topic >>as over the years I have heard the stories but being >>that no one from my childhood was in a blended family, >>so I have no firsthand knowledge. >> >>Real quick, to see if this strikes a nerve with >>anyone, an acquaintance once told me that his mother >>remarried when he was thirteen, she was a widow, and >>in retrospect he was out of control. >> >>Long story made short, he was soon introduced to >>spankings, and all spanking were bare bottom. He said >>the first six months were hell, as he was being >>spanked often and rules, such as an appropriate >>bedtime, were being strictly enforced. The next six >>months were better, but he was still in an adjustment >>period. However, from that point forward the spankings >>were infrequent with his last spanking coming at >>sixteen (see teenage boy and car) and that by the time >>he graduated, his stepfather and him were on very good >>terms and in his opinion without him, he would have >>been in jail by twenty. >> >>In conclusion he had two parting comments. One. The >>best thing that happened to him was having a man come >>into his life who cared, if indeed, he was strict ... >>but not mean. >> >>His only complaint, question so to speak, was in >>stating that his spankings were all private unless it >>involved his mother. Then, much to his horror, his >>stepdad would bare him and spanked him, right in front >>of her. Stating that if he wanted to disrespect her, >>he would do the same to him. >> >>Last time that happened, I was led to believe was at >>fifteen, for backtalk with unacceptable language. >> >>What could I do but shrug my shoulders and tell him, >>"Hey. I am on your stepfather's side." > >Hi Tim, > >Enjoyed reading your post! Your acquaintance's >stepfather certainly made a big impact in the home >when he moved in. Quite possibly saving him from a >life of crime and jail time! A model example of the >effectiveness of spanking as a disciplinary tool! And >a real testimony as to how a strict step parent can >have a powerful and transformative effect! > >In my case, Carrie my stepmom certainly made an impact >when moving into our home. Discipline became stricter >and life at home more ordered. But prior to this, >domestic life had been structured and none of us had >been in danger of being out of control. Daddy's belt >saw to that and my biological Mom gave spankings when >she deemed them necessary, even if not on the same >level as what would later follow with Carrie! > >On his complaint about being bared in front of his Mom >for some of his spankings I can empathise since Carrie >often used nudity or at least partial nudity as part >of the punishment when spanking us as well. And as >most of her spankings were given in the family living >area, irrespective of who might be present, this was >both embarrassing and humiliating! Both me, my brother >and three sisters were subjected to this and it would >be no exaggeration to say these occasions often gave >me some of my first glimpses of and lessons about the >female anatomy!

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