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>>Check rule #4 here regarding spankings you have given. >> >>While the majority of spankings I received were the >>result of misbehavior, I believe other punishment >>methods would have been much better for me. Other than >>some pleasure I get from my obsessions about spanking, >>my adult life has been negatively shaped in several >>ways by my childhood experiences. As parents, my wife >>and I have not continued the cycle, and are lucky to >>have great kids who now have great kids of their own. > >Hi Brett, > >I'm sorry to hear that spanking has negatively >influenced your life! I was actually 'implicitly' >being 'ironic' and somewhat 'sarcastic' when >'thanking' my stepmom Carrie for, courtesy of her >spankings, causing me to have my spanking fetish and >obsession with female bottoms! I perhaps should have >been more clear about that! Looking back now I have >no doubt that although we were always punished for >actual misbehavior, or at the very least various >misdemeanors and infractions, Carrie found our >spankings sexually arousing, for sure. And back in >those days, Mississippi in the Fifties ans Sixties, >many other adults did as well! > >I often reflect that by eroticising my spanking >experiences, both as kid, when about a couple of hours >after my spanking - when the heat and burning throb >had subsided to a not unpleasant warm, prickly and >itchy glow - I would retire to my bedroom and >masturbate; and also as an adult where I have fully >incorporated spanking into my sex life over the years; >I have been able to better cope with what happened to >me when growing up. For make no mistake about it; I >absolutely dreaded, hated and tried desperately to >avoid spankings! They hurt! Boy did they ever >HURT!!!! Even to this day, I remember that 'feeling' >of overwhelming dread, that I felt when I knew a >spankin' or whoopin' was comin'! I'm not feeling >sorry for myself since I think so many folks from my >generation - us boomers - and to some extent the >generation that followed ours, went through much the >same thing too. Or something very similar anyway. >The world then was very different! > >I and my wife never had kids of our own. So we were >never faced with the dilemma of whether 'to spank or >not to spank'? I think I would not have anyway! My >brother and his wife had kids and chose not to use >spanking. Using other forms of discipline instead. >One of my sisters did likewise! The other two did >spank but on a much less frequent and severe basis! > >My brother actually had a drink and drugs problem as a >young adult which he partly blamed on the spankins and >whuppings he got growing up! Thankfully he, through a >good psychiatrist and loving wife, came to terms with >things and is now very happy! > >I wish you well for the future. Sir!

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