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Subject: Re: Ambivalent feelings when seeing or hearing a spanking!?

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Christian
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Date Posted: 12:28:54 05/04/26 Mon
In reply to: Mississippi Mike 's message, "Ambivalent feelings when seeing or hearing a spanking!?" on 16:32:02 05/03/26 Sun

Growing up I never saw a girl get a spanking on her bare bottom and neither did any of my friends (after 8 or 9 years old). We used to talk about it and complain that it wasn’t fair because most of us had been seen getting spanked on the bare bottom by girls (usually sisters or cousins but not always).
None the less, it definitely was a a conflicting situation watching another boy get his bare bottom tanned, especially in my teens. Since they were usually friends or brothers, I naturally sympathized once the spanking progressed to the point where the boy was in full blown crying and pleading mode. At the same time, watching his bottom redden and his squirming, arching, clenching and kicking inevitably caused a full blown erection and sent me back to my room in private as fast as I could get there.

>Did anyone else have ambivalent feelings when seeing
>or hearing a spanking?
>
>l know I certainly did. Now obviously if you were
>shortly going to get a spanking yourself then any
>enjoyment, excitement and satisfaction you might
>experience from some other kid getting their butt
>blistered would be tempered and compromised by the
>fact that your own behind would soon be in 'the firing
>line'! Likewise if you had just had your
>spanking/whupping you would be far too preoccupied
>with how much your own bottom still hurt to take full
>delight in any other spanking that was taking place.
>
>But even when my own backside was safe and unscathed
>and I could enjoy seeing or hearing another kid get a
>spanking I often felt ambivalent about it. Firstly,
>although, on this occasion, I was not getting spanked
>myself, I knew only too well that it would not be long
>before it would be me receiving a spanking for some
>misbehavior, misdemeanor or infraction. Secondly, on
>a purely human level, I often felt some compassion,
>empathy and sympathy for the kid/teenager getting
>spanked. Knowing just how much spankings hurt I found
>after the first fifteen to twenty spanks, by which
>time the 'offender' was invariably crying, sobbing
>and often bawling, that my initial enjoyment,
>excitement and as I got older, sexual arousal, was
>tempered by more compassionate emotions. I remember
>thinking to myself that surely they - the kid being
>spanked - have had enough. A lesson has been learned;
>the point has been gotten across; an 'impression' has
>been made; etc.... Did they have to continue the
>pain, humiliation and suffering.... And yet,
>especially if it was a female getting her rump
>roasted, I found I was consumed by conflicting
>emotions, especially as I approached and hit puberty!
>When along with enjoying the spanking I often got 'my
>first impromptu lessons concerning the female anatomy'!
>
>Did anyone else experience these ambivalent feelings
>and conflicting emotions?

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Re: Ambivalent feelings when seeing or hearing a spanking!? Mississippi Mike 15:38:23 05/04/26 Mon

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>Growing up I never saw a girl get a spanking on her >bare bottom and neither did any of my friends (after 8 >or 9 years old). We used to talk about it and complain >that it wasn’t fair because most of us had been seen >getting spanked on the bare bottom by girls (usually >sisters or cousins but not always). >None the less, it definitely was a a conflicting >situation watching another boy get his bare bottom >tanned, especially in my teens. Since they were >usually friends or brothers, I naturally sympathized >once the spanking progressed to the point where the >boy was in full blown crying and pleading mode. At the >same time, watching his bottom redden and his >squirming, arching, clenching and kicking inevitably >caused a full blown erection and sent me back to my >room in private as fast as I could get there. > > > >>Did anyone else have ambivalent feelings when seeing >>or hearing a spanking? >> >>l know I certainly did. Now obviously if you were >>shortly going to get a spanking yourself then any >>enjoyment, excitement and satisfaction you might >>experience from some other kid getting their butt >>blistered would be tempered and compromised by the >>fact that your own behind would soon be in 'the firing >>line'! Likewise if you had just had your >>spanking/whupping you would be far too preoccupied >>with how much your own bottom still hurt to take full >>delight in any other spanking that was taking place. >> >>But even when my own backside was safe and unscathed >>and I could enjoy seeing or hearing another kid get a >>spanking I often felt ambivalent about it. Firstly, >>although, on this occasion, I was not getting spanked >>myself, I knew only too well that it would not be long >>before it would be me receiving a spanking for some >>misbehavior, misdemeanor or infraction. Secondly, on >>a purely human level, I often felt some compassion, >>empathy and sympathy for the kid/teenager getting >>spanked. Knowing just how much spankings hurt I found >>after the first fifteen to twenty spanks, by which >>time the 'offender' was invariably crying, sobbing >>and often bawling, that my initial enjoyment, >>excitement and as I got older, sexual arousal, was >>tempered by more compassionate emotions. I remember >>thinking to myself that surely they - the kid being >>spanked - have had enough. A lesson has been learned; >>the point has been gotten across; an 'impression' has >>been made; etc.... Did they have to continue the >>pain, humiliation and suffering.... And yet, >>especially if it was a female getting her rump >>roasted, I found I was consumed by conflicting >>emotions, especially as I approached and hit puberty! >>When along with enjoying the spanking I often got 'my >>first impromptu lessons concerning the female >anatomy'! >> >>Did anyone else experience these ambivalent feelings >>and conflicting emotions?

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