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>>With a lot of what you've said about your step mom, >>her age, and the way you suggested that she threw her >>weight around in the beginning... >> >>(And if this isn't too personal of a question, I do >>understand if you say it is too personal) >> >>Did your older siblings come to accept her as they >>became adults? >>Or did they decide that once she could no longer >>control and punish them they were going to just be >>done with her? >> >>And if they chose the second option, then did there >>rejection of her affect their relationship with their >>father in a negative way? > >No it is not too personal a question, at all! > >Relations between my oldest sister Betty Sue and >Carrie were not too bad! Since once Carrie had >established her authority in the home and made it >clear to Betty Sue, courtesy by way of 'the mother of >all spankings', that she (Carrie) was the new "Queen >Bee", Carrie actually gave Betty Sue, as the oldest >sibling, some power and authority in helping her >manage and run the family home! Thay sort of came to >a bit of an understanding, although Carrie remained >very much the "Big Chief"! I think there always >remained a bit of resentment on Betty Sue's part and I >would not say they were especially close, but they >remained on speaking and visiting terms after Betty >Sue left home. > >It was Mary Jane, my second oldest sister, who (with >the exception of my brother Andy - see shortly) had >the biggest problem with Carrie. Because she was not >the oldest sister she was never granted as many >priveleges as Betty Sue and she clearly resented this. > She was also quite strong willed as well. Along with >me and my brother, Andy, she got the most spankings >from Carrie. Apart from special occasions like >Christmas, Easter, some Birthdays, etc... she kept her >distance from my stepmom. > >My youngest sister, Peggy Lynn, as an adult, tolerated >my stepmother. Growing up she was the brightest and >most academic of us all - a straight A student - and >as much as she could she kept out of touble and 'toed >the line'! She got her fair share of spankings but >not as many as me, Andy or Mary Jane. > >Andy, had a big problem with Carrie, as an adult! >Even as a child and teenager he was quite a nervous >person. He became estranged from the family and had >problems with drink and drugs. With help from a good >psychiatrist he overcame these problems but he could >never forgive Carrie. And he refused to have anything >to do with her right up to when she died! He found >the spankings and the strict discipline she imposed >very traumatic. We all dreaded spankings as they were >obviously humiliating and very painful! BOY DID THEY >EVER HURT!!!! But Andy really found them and the >strict discipline in general, hard to endure! > >For my part I probably had the best relationship with >Carrie of all my siblings. Yes I think her >discipline, both the spankings and the whole strict >regime she imposed after she had moved in was harsher >than it need be and even rediculously strict and >draconian (but that's a charge that could be made >against many parents, teachers, etc... back then) and >yes she had a spanking fetish that almost certainly >had an impact on the spankings she gave us (again >quite a few adults back then were likely guilty of >this) but, without completely exonerating her of these >faults and failings she herself had had an awful time >growing up in the care system when she was younger. >She frequenty told us, going into great detail, the >"spankin's and whuppin's" she got in the childrens >home and the foster families she was placed with. >Also, although she never went into this at all I am >convinced other horrible things of a 'sexual nature' >happened to her. In what was often a brutal system, >Carrie, undoubtably, had a really tough time of it! > >As an adult I kept in touch with Carrie and we got on >quite well! I even put her over my knee a few times; >something she was more than happy for me to do! Lol > >My Dad was disappointed at the state of the >relationships some of my siblings had with Carrie! >But he came to terms with this!

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