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>>MY parents did not know how to "spank", they did not >>understand the difference between just hitting and >>punishment to the bottom. They displayed no focus >>attention to any real goal other than frustration >>outburst. >> >>Therefore I had no real definition of an act of >>"spanking" because I had nothing to compare their >>hitting with. Being so young we lack the ability to >>conceptualize the more complex ideas. Their hitting >>created a confusion and distance to where I did not >>care for their touch or vicinity. >> >>School, that was where I discovered the ritual of what >>we now know as "spanking." It was totally different >>than what I found at home. I am glad that I did not >>have that sort of experience with say, my father. >>Because a spanking is an odd, queer, and intimate >>experience. Having that with him would have left me >>with an icky feeling lifelong memory. >> >>The person doing it at school, if they are of the >>right mindset, they understand it is different for a >>special reason. They will know this and know how to >>apply it with those particular parameters. >> >>For instance, being put across a lap, calm yet firm >>words. An endless number of slaps to the rear end. >>Stinging that one area over and over. Because they >>care, not because they hate you. >> >>Personality is a huge part of this. Some become >>victims of abuse from spankings because they call it >>abuse instead of just a spanking. Refusing to admit >>that they got anything good from it. Even if they >>really did benefit. >> >>Myself, "spanking" was a perfect fit and I do not know >>why, back then. I lacked the mind to conceptualize. I >>understand now though. The principal maybe knew my >>type and knew it might work for me. IT WORKED! Totally >>changed me from the nutty kid I was to a child who >>began to listen, watch and try to understand. Repeated >>sessions over her knee worked wonders for me. And >>nobody....NOBODY can tell me any difference. It worked >>for me. It worked for my personality. >> >>Like a key in a lock. > >I agree! > >I was spanked very often as a kid and don't consider >it abuse at all. Laying across mom/dad's lap wearing >only my briefs with my bottom completely exposed and >the increasing burn made me respect them more and more >and taught me I HAD to listen to what they said and >obey them at all times. > >It wasn't abuse it all it was justified consequences >for my bad behavior. > >eddie

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