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Subject: Re: Very effective spankings

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Date Posted: 18:13:58 05/24/26 Sun
In reply to: eddie 's message, "Very effective spankings" on 04:38:52 05/22/26 Fri

MY parents did not know how to "spank", they did not understand the difference between just hitting and punishment to the bottom. They displayed no focus attention to any real goal other than frustration outburst.

Therefore I had no real definition of an act of "spanking" because I had nothing to compare their hitting with. Being so young we lack the ability to conceptualize the more complex ideas. Their hitting created a confusion and distance to where I did not care for their touch or vicinity.

School, that was where I discovered the ritual of what we now know as "spanking." It was totally different than what I found at home. I am glad that I did not have that sort of experience with say, my father. Because a spanking is an odd, queer, and intimate experience. Having that with him would have left me with an icky feeling lifelong memory.

The person doing it at school, if they are of the right mindset, they understand it is different for a special reason. They will know this and know how to apply it with those particular parameters.

For instance, being put across a lap, calm yet firm words. An endless number of slaps to the rear end. Stinging that one area over and over. Because they care, not because they hate you.

Personality is a huge part of this. Some become victims of abuse from spankings because they call it abuse instead of just a spanking. Refusing to admit that they got anything good from it. Even if they really did benefit.

Myself, "spanking" was a perfect fit and I do not know why, back then. I lacked the mind to conceptualize. I understand now though. The principal maybe knew my type and knew it might work for me. IT WORKED! Totally changed me from the nutty kid I was to a child who began to listen, watch and try to understand. Repeated sessions over her knee worked wonders for me. And nobody....NOBODY can tell me any difference. It worked for me. It worked for my personality.

Like a key in a lock.

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Re: Very effective spankings eddie 03:43:51 05/25/26 Mon

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>MY parents did not know how to "spank", they did not >understand the difference between just hitting and >punishment to the bottom. They displayed no focus >attention to any real goal other than frustration >outburst. > >Therefore I had no real definition of an act of >"spanking" because I had nothing to compare their >hitting with. Being so young we lack the ability to >conceptualize the more complex ideas. Their hitting >created a confusion and distance to where I did not >care for their touch or vicinity. > >School, that was where I discovered the ritual of what >we now know as "spanking." It was totally different >than what I found at home. I am glad that I did not >have that sort of experience with say, my father. >Because a spanking is an odd, queer, and intimate >experience. Having that with him would have left me >with an icky feeling lifelong memory. > >The person doing it at school, if they are of the >right mindset, they understand it is different for a >special reason. They will know this and know how to >apply it with those particular parameters. > >For instance, being put across a lap, calm yet firm >words. An endless number of slaps to the rear end. >Stinging that one area over and over. Because they >care, not because they hate you. > >Personality is a huge part of this. Some become >victims of abuse from spankings because they call it >abuse instead of just a spanking. Refusing to admit >that they got anything good from it. Even if they >really did benefit. > >Myself, "spanking" was a perfect fit and I do not know >why, back then. I lacked the mind to conceptualize. I >understand now though. The principal maybe knew my >type and knew it might work for me. IT WORKED! Totally >changed me from the nutty kid I was to a child who >began to listen, watch and try to understand. Repeated >sessions over her knee worked wonders for me. And >nobody....NOBODY can tell me any difference. It worked >for me. It worked for my personality. > >Like a key in a lock.

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