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>Hi Ella. Thank you for sharing your memories. For >that first spanking from your stepdad, how old were >you, and how long had he been your stepdad? Did you >love him as a dad, or were you still getting used to >him? Did his spanking you move the proverbial needle >at all, on your relationship with him: Did it make >you feel closer to him, or more alienated? > >Also, I'm wondering how big a deal the bare-bottom >aspect was for you, at that time: Prior to that first >spanking, would your stepdad occasionally see you >undressed (e.g., before / after a bath), or was this a >"first" that way, also? > >Lastly, did your mom observe your spankings -- always, >sometimes, never? Thanks in advance! > >>>1- When spanked, was it always, sometimes or never? >> >>Always over my step dad’s lap. The first time it was >>in my room with him sitting on my desk chair, all >>other ones after that were in the living room with him >>seated on an armless living room chair. >> >>>2- Did spanking threats not mention the S-word, but >>>just the position, as in “you’re going over my >>>knee/lap when we get home, young man/lady”? >> >>It was always a “good spanking” or “a good bare >>bottom spanking” or “going to spank your bare >>bottom real good.” The first one I got was announced >>in the car on the way home from a summer BBQ at their >>friends house, with my mom saying that when we got >>home my step dad was going to spank me, at which point >>he replied “that’s right, Ella, and I’m not >>talking about some little taps, just like your mom >>said when we get home I’m going to put you over my >>knee and spank your bare bottom real good.” My mom >>chimed in that this “upgrade” in how I’m >>disciplined was long overdue and that I should have >>been getting my bottom spanked long before. >> >>>3- Did you prefer going otk rather than other >>>positions? >> >>I didn’t know anything different, so I can’t >>really say. Since I got the lecture beforehand with >>everything down, I thought there was something of a >>respite to go over the lap and think my lady parts >>were hidden but when I saw my step dad’s nephew >>spanked, his danglers were clearly visible so I would >>assume that if you were standing behind me there was >>some showing. >> >>>4- Was it worse getting it on a chair or couch/bed. >> >>Only got it on the two different chairs so I don’t >>know. >> >>>5- Was mom or dad more likely to use the position? >> >>Step dad was the spanker, mom was the one who decided >>that I’d be spanked and he was the one who executed >>it. >> >>>6- Did you ever fall off the lap? What happened then? >> >>Nope. >> >>>7- Were girls or boys more likely to get it that way, >>>based on your observation or experience? >> >>It was always for me and when I saw my step dad’s >>nephew spanked the 3 times by him was over his lap and >>the time from his mom was over her lap. >> >>>8- To get your bottom higher, you ever spanked over >>>one upraised leg by dad, or did your mom ever cross >>>her legs to raise your bottom? >> >>My step dad did, once I was over his lap and >>positioned how he wanted me he did slightly lift up >>his right leg, probably to prop my butt up a little >>higher. >> >>>9- If spanked after being in bed, did the parent pull >>>you out of bed to put you over their lap? >> >>Never happened. >> >>>10- Finally, did what your parent was wearing like >>>rough jeans make the position more uncomfortable, or >>>for boys a bit exciting, if a female was wearing >>>nylons or had bare legs? >> >>He was usually in jeans or shorts and his thighs were >>covered, it wasn’t really something I focused on.

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