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>Hoping this will stimulate discussion. This is from a >woman with whom I corresponded. > > >Here is how I would introduce the practice of >preventive discipline for a girl like Susan. As a >mother, it is my job to see that she grows up to be a >good and responsible young lady. I certainly do my >best to correct faults when I observe them but there >is so much that we do not see. > >So that is precisely the reason that I proposed to >institute maintenance spankings. Susan, like any other >teenage girl, would benefit from being punished for >all her faults and offenses. Since that is not >practical, the next best approach is to give my girl >the opportunity to settle her accounts and begin the >next week with a pure heart. > >So last night, right after Susan completed her >homework, I invited her to have a conversation with me >in the living room. Seating myself on the couch, I >swept my skirt high onto my lap; a signal that I meant >for her to sit there. With a shy smile, my sweet girl >adjusted her own skirt, to allow skin-to-skin contact, >and placed herself into position for a good cuddle. > >I ran my fingers through her hair and began. “You >know sweetie, you have always been very good at >accepting discipline when you have misbehaved or >failed to execute your responsibilities. However, as >your father pointed out in his letter, you do >misbehave or fail in a responsibility, which for one >reason or another escapes our attention. That means >that you sometimes escape a well-deserved and needed >punishment. This is not good for you.” > >Missy nodded her understanding and cuddled closer. > >“For that reason, and with your Daddy’s agreement, >I plan to implement maintenance spanking or as we >think of it, "just in case" spankings. I’m thinking >to administer it right after church each Sunday as >soon as we arrive home. Now please understand that >these spankings will not replace the spankings you >normally get when you misbehave during the week. Can >you think of some other reasons why I’m doing >this?” > >“I think so … yes Auntie,” she replied softly. >“It’s to take care of little things that I do that >don’t warrant a spanking.” > >“This is absolutely correct Susan,” I smiled and >planted a kiss to her sweet face.” Are there any >others?” > >“Um … oh yeah … it’s to correct me for >offenses that I don’t even realize I’ve >committed.” > >This moved me bestow several more kisses, two to her >forehead, one to her nose and a special one to her >eager upturned mouth. “There’s one more >sweetie,” I prompted. >She really gave it thought real hard but finally >confessed that she could not come up with any further >answers. She gulped hard as she awaited my response. >“Relax Missy,” I chuckled. “You still passed.” >Her face relaxed a bit. “It’s to remind you always >be on your toes so that you avoid punishment spankings >… or at least receive fewer of them.” She nodded >her head and offered up one of those shy smiles that >we find so endearing. > >I gave her another moment of contemplation then >announced that the first one would take place that >Sunday. She stayed snuggled on my lap for the next ten >minutes.

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