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Subject: Re: Differing parental spanking styles


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Sonya
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Date Posted: 17:20:49 04/30/25 Wed
In reply to: Carol 's message, "Re: Differing parental spanking styles" on 22:56:23 04/29/25 Tue

Well Sweetie, both of my parents believed in spankings and with the exception of what they called "Attention Getters" Which were usually done on the spot with the warning of a real spanking if behavior didn't improve immediately, our spankings were almost always done on the bare bottom and at home, it was usually done in the living room. I have a brother and sister and both are younger than me. When it came to discipline, we were all treated the same. Momma did most of the spankings. she was a stay at home mom and had to put up with our nonsense the most. She also didn't think it would be fair for Daddy to be working all day and then have to come home to whoop the kids.

Daddy didn't spank us very often. In fact, just thinking about it, I probably got maybe a dozen spankings from him between the ages of six and eighteen. Even though he sometimes threatened to take a belt to us, he never spanked us with anything other than his hand on our bare butts. Honestly, being such a Daddy's girl, his spankings hurt my feelings more than they did my butt.

I'm sorry, but I never understood double standards. I saw them frequently growing up. Going to school, I saw both boys and girls get paddled. But a lot of the time, boys would get paddled and girls would get detention or other punishments for doing the exact same thing. When I told about the last time I was paddled at school cutting class and leaving school grounds. The Assistant Principal gave me the choice of a week of Detention or getting three licks. Even though he had a reputation of paddling really hard, I chose the licks. He asked me if I was sure, and I said, "Yes sir." Then he told me to report to him after school and sent me to class. Honestly, I was scared as hell because of his reputation, so the clock seemed to drag for the rest of the school day. When I walked into his office, he again offered me the choice of taking the detention or three licks. Even though I was scared half to death, I took the licks. I can say, I regretted that decision. Because I was wearing a short skirt and when I had to bend across his desk, my skirt rode up enough to leave my butt half exposed and the nylon bikini panties I was wearing were riding up and offered no protection at all. He showed no mercy to the fact that I was a girl and half exposed when he paddled me. He swung that paddle full force like a ball bat. My butt was severely bruised for over a week. Momma went to school the next day and confronted him, the Principal and The Secretary who assisted with my paddling. The Assistant couldn't understand why Momma was so upset since I was given the choice to be paddled or get detention. Until Momma had me show them the bruising. Even he was shocked to see how bad he hurt me. But if I had been a boy instead of a girl, I wouldn't have been given a choice, I would have been paddled.

Anyway, everybody has their opinions. If you have any other questions for me. Feel free to ask hon.

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